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I've had 7 failed relationships. What can I do to make my relationships work?

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6 October 2008, 23 minutes ago (M)

age 16-17 - hi im 16 and i have had 7 failed relationships. all of them i have tried my best to make work but all have failed. im captain of my rugby team, im a county champion 4 triple jump. im also a volunteer youth worker. im not exactly ugly, im sensitive and im in a good group of ... (79 words)

I have trouble being faithful in a relationship, how can I stop being this way?

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6 October 2008, 31 minutes ago (F)

age 16-17 - hi... I wondered if you could help me? I have trouble with being faithful in a relationship. Every time I'm in a relationship i always destroy it by cheating and lying I wondered if you can tell me the best way to stop this? ... (47 words)

Am I asking too much from my boyfriend? Do we have a future as a couple?

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6 October 2008, 42 minutes ago (F)

age 26-29 - Hello please, I need help, I have a dilemma with my relationship with my boyfriend, I know he is a good guy and we share strong feelings for each other, but I am seriously thinking if I should stay in this relationship or not, I have a lot of trust issues, for me it is ... (580 words)

How can I convince her to keep our unborn child?

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6 October 2008, 43 minutes ago (M)

age 22-25 - Hello cupid readers.... I once came upon this site about 3 months ago, when I had just found out that I got a 15 year old pregnant. I decided to delete my old account becuse of the rude things I was told. Now I have come back for advice, but not for lectures. I'm aware she is u... (275 words)

32 year old christian virgin - should I lose it in Amsterdam?

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6 October 2008, 1 hour ago (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 32 Christian male, single (and have always been) and still a virgin. All my friends are getting married and I feel left behind. I've never been very out-going and this "no-sex-before-marriage" thing is engrained in me but recently getting depressed about this. I'm ... (62 words)

She's not sure whether she wants a relationship right now... where do I stand now?

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6 October 2008, 1 hour ago (M)

age 16-17 - Hi i ahve known a girl for 4 years. We were quite close but this year have really grown to like theis girl and i eventually asked her out. We saw each other all saturday and sunday and we were brilliant together. But on sunday nite i got a call saying that she found it a lil ... (117 words)

Do I have a chance with her?

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6 October 2008, 1 hour ago (M)

age 13-15 - I'm 14 and so is my ex. we broke up about a year ago, we went through things because we hated each other for about 6-5 months. but since a few months ago we have been talking like twice a week. I always start the conversation [text, myspace] she never starts a conversat... (93 words)

Infidelity flashbacks - how can I get over this now that I'm happily married?

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6 October 2008, 1 hour ago (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 42, consider myself mature, and am no means weak minded or overly sensitive (I'm in the middle of my third combat tour in Iraq). The closest term I can use to describe my problem is infidelity flashback. I have a long history of being cheated on. I know this, and I know... (353 words)

Why does my boyfriend have such a short fuse and other times can be the best boyfriend in the world?

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - ok I'm just really hacked off right now. Why do me and my boyfriend always argue over the most trivial of things?!?!?! I'll give a few examples, earlier today, I was on the phone to him, I was on my new phone, and all my numbers etc are set up on my old phone, and I recieved a ... (572 words)

Is he a jerk and I'm too blond to see or does he need more time?

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I lost my virginity to him and we were friends with benefits for months, he told me he really liked me but needed to focus on school. I felt like I was being used so I said i wasnt going to do it anymore. He then asked me to be his girlfriend and even intoduced me to his ... (255 words)

Pregnant on Plan B. Considering abortion.

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I am 26 and been married for almost a year now. Like every marriage we have our differences. Maybe they are a lot in our case cuz our viewpoints are divergent on most of the issues. We've been working on our issues and trying to get a deeper insight into each others n... (308 words)

The both rejected my request to be friends on Facebook now I'm getting paranoid people don't like me.

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (F)

- Sorry, my question will prob sound a little dumb..... I've got a facebook page and a couple of months ago I requested Adam to be my friend. I knew Adam from years ago, we were really close but there was no romance, we were just good mates. He moved away but I would occasionally ... (253 words)

Do you think he just likes the chase???

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - A guy I was seeing quite often broke things off with me for no other reason than he did not want a relationship. So for the past 3 months now all I've been is a drunken 3 in the morning phone call to which I always usually go round to his apartment.(I may as well get mine ... (169 words)

Is my husbands fetish normal?

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question about a weird fetish my husband has developed in the last few months. Lately, instead of us having intercourse, he likes to watch me have intercourse with a vibrator instead while he holds it. Is this normal, and if so why does he get off on this? It has kind ... (67 words)

Should I kiss it off, or fight for her?

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (M)

age 36-40 - I am not well. I have trouble with the drink, and have spent many years sober, in fact, all but seven of the last seventeen years I was able to stay clean. I have a great job, and by most accounts I am doing okay, but have a tendency to go on big benders, while other time... (377 words)

Now I'm 22, is a relationship with my one time Spanish teacher legal, or is it frowned upon??

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (M)

age 22-25 - I'm a 22 year old male, in a decent job, with a good social life. I often go out drinking with friends. One time when I went down the pub, I saw my old Spanish teacher. She was 27 when I was 16 doing my GCSE's. We had fun reminiscing about old times and she mentioned she ... (127 words)

We're not compromising on our personalities - neither one of us is going to change

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - I'm "talking" to this guy. we're trying to get to know each other before we start an official relationship. One problem. There's basically no compromise. He loves to joke around at the most inappropriate times -- like when I'm mad or trying to tell him how I feel. He'll totally ... (154 words)

Is he just a nice person in general or is he interested in me?

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - There is this guy I sit next to in class. He is really nice to me and we always talk. He seems interested in me, like always asks what i did the day before, what im going to do, etc. but i dont know if he likes me or if he is that way to everyone. Talking to him makes me ... (104 words)

Husband and I have trust issues, any advice would be appreciated.

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Hey i am 18 years old been married 8 months. My husband and i have trust issues. Not because of eachother but because of the way we have been done in pervious relationships. Well i have caught him talking to girls he went to high school with he's 19 and in the Marine Corp. I ... (190 words)

What can I do to stop my friend getting hurt but without disrupting the friendly atmosphere inthe flat?

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I recently moved to university hall - about 4 weeks ago to be precise and Im having a bit of a complicated problem. I've been really lucky in the sense that I've got 3 fantastic flatmates - one of which is a girl who I've become best mates with. We'll call her Sammie. We ... (252 words)

I think my husband has stopped loving me. What should I do?

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (F)

age 30-35 - hi... iam have a problem that i think most woman have...my husband stopped loving me...doesnt want to sleep with me..he avoid it...started talking to his ex...he is distant emtionally...when i ask him if he is still loves me...he said sure...i dont believe him...i have one... (89 words)

Planning a romantic weekend soon. Is there a way to induce my period to get it now, before I leave?

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6 October 2008, 2 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - I'm seeing this guy on the weekend. We're long distance and only see each other once every month or 2. We haven't had sex yet and I'm pretty sure we were going to this weekend. Normally my period is on time every month, the 5th or the 6th, but I haven't gotten it yet this ... (161 words)

Could this just be some sort of phase?

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6 October 2008, 3 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - My brother-in-law told me he loves me, and that he always has. We were friends before my husband and I met. Back then I had feelings for him, and he had feelings for me, but we both had too much pride to do anything about it. So I moved on and got married, my husband and I ... (185 words)

I am totally stumped as to what to get for my best friend's birthday, any ideas?

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6 October 2008, 4 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - It's not exactly a question and I guess you guys see this type of question on here often, but I need help. It's my really close friend's birthday soon and I don't know what to get her. I was thinking of doing something based on our friendship to give her, but her other fr... (110 words)

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now and it seems as though we hardly talk or see each other anymore.

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6 October 2008, 4 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now and it seems as though we hardly talk or see each other anymore. He graduated from college last semester and I graduate next semester and he was just put in charge of ROTC at our school. I definitely understand how b... (168 words)

Artist block: how can I compromise?

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6 October 2008, 4 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - It's been a couple of months sense my boyfriend has moved in with me. He loves my art and I appreciate that very much, but if I don't draw for one day he'll get a little sad, well more like a pouty sad. Basically in my opinion he wants me to draw every single day. As an artist ... (200 words)

Holiday Options!

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6 October 2008, 4 hours ago (F)

age 51-59 - I would appreciate some feedback on a problem my boyfriend and I have concerning holidays. We are both very mature adults with grown up children and I can't believe we can't sort this out ourselves. We have been toegether for 8 years but don't live together, we see each other ... (357 words)

Should I tell my sister that her husband made a move on me? If so, how?

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - Yesterday, I was so tired and my sister and her hubby arrived to the hospital to see my step-dad. So my sister said, go home and rest. We'll stay here for couple of hours. So her hubby, hates the hospital and he offered to take me home. So i was like ok (even thou, i had my c... (500 words)

His family don't want him to be with me and are making our lives hell.

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (F)

age - well I am back on here. I told you last week about my man and me. He is 69 years old and I am 65 years old and we have been dating 3 years and 10 months. His kids have never liked the idea of us dating. They want him 24/7 to meet their needs. Well we had a fight week ... (316 words)

Will he ever commit or is this just for fun?

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (F)

age 36-40 - How can you tell if a guy is scared of getting hurt or never has plans to take it to a serious commitment? Are there ways of making him make a decision like jealously or should you give him more time? I've given it 5 months and don't want to waste my time but I enjoy being with ... (87 words)

Could I have given my boyfriend genital herpes?

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - Yesterday night I gave my boyfriend oral sex. I get coldsores, and he knows, and we never do oral sex whilst I've got one. But I woke up this morning, and I had the beginnings of one. I hadn't felt the tell tale tingling though. I'm really worried that I could've given him geni... (93 words)

She keeps popping into my life all the time, should I ask my mate's girlfriend to tell her I like her?

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (M)

age 22-25 - hi, I was meeting up with a girl a few months ago that had just broken up with her boyfriend. We really liked eachother but I could tell she wasn't over her boyfriend. Although I could tell she really liked me I could see that she would probably go back 2 her ex as he's h... (240 words)

Is it friends or something more?

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Theres a guy who I work with, he calls me and texts me every day, and we speak on the phone for hours. We went for lunch one day, and were going out again this week and he says he's gonna take me shopping for clothes and stuff. He's asked me things like 'what do I go for in a... (73 words)

I love my boyfriend but he takes drugs and I don't know what to do.

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, I really don't know what to do :( for the last month or so I have been seeing a guy. But on weekends he takes cocaine with his friends, I totally disagree with any illegal drugs, so I had a go at him about it. Saturday night I was supposed to be seeing him but when I t... (194 words)

I'm starting to get headaches listening to my boyfriend's venting all the time.

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (F)

age 41-50 - I want so badly to hold things together with my boyfriend. Things HAVE been well lately, in fact, except that he's been having a terrible time at work and I'm starting to feel a bit psychologically bludgeoned as he goes on and on about all the things wrong about it: I totally ... (129 words)

I am having severe difficulties overlooking my girlfriend's past sex life!

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (M)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I'm going to get strait to the point, I am having severe difficulties overlooking my gf's past sex life. She has told me that she slept with around 20 people, mostly within a couple of years. She has also told me some of the details to great extent: drugs, a... (925 words)

Don't want to lose new boyfriend over racist family and friends.. anyone else had this experience??

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - hi ok my problem is I'm Irish and I've started seeing a Polish guy who's living in Ireland. We work together and get along really well and he's the first person I've had real feelings for since I split with my ex 2 years ago.. I've kept it quiet so far but we're starting to see ... (225 words)

I would like to have a relationship with her but I don't know where to start...

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 15 and i'm a girl. I have never had a boyfriend before and it has never bothered me. I've had a few 'crushes' before but they have never meant much to me. I am now in my last year of high school, it was around last year i developed an attraction for one of my friends. P... (178 words)

Please help!! Does he need more time or does he not like me?

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - We were friends with benefits for months but i couldnt handle just having a sexual relationship. I told him and he asked me to be his girlfriend. He even introduced me to his friends as his gf and we made plans that day. But then he broke them and said that now he feels ... (226 words)

Single 18 year old girl, completely infatuated with 32 year old married man who feels the same...

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I recently moved to a new town for college, and found a new job, etc. I broke up with my boyfriend of over a year because we were fighting a lot and he wouln't do anything with his life. Well, at my new job, I found that I felt attracted to an older man [he is 32, i am 18] I ... (566 words)

Is she really stringing me along,what do you think?

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6 October 2008, 5 hours ago (M)

age 26-29 - My ex wife, for the last five month's has been saying she still loves me and wants us. Last time she told me, she was trying to get to me, but her car tax has ran out, and hasnt got any money. I think now it is exscues she is just making, havent really got a clue where she is ... (242 words)

Help me understand how this is my fault! Why is she mad at me?

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6 October 2008, 6 hours ago (M)

age 26-29 - About a week ago my fiancé through tear filled eyes told me she had just tested positive for HPV and had to get a biopsy for cervical cancer. Turns out she had tested positive for it before we met, but it hadn't shown up on any tests for a while so she thought she was ... (459 words)

I do love him but should I stay with a man just because he is nice and doesn't abuse me? What about love and feeling wanted?

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6 October 2008, 6 hours ago (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 7 months now and been together with my husband for 2 years. I feel my marriage is very boring and I am missing and longing for more. I never got a real wedding proposal from him, we were sitting on our computers when he said.. will you marry me. No ... (257 words)

I'm 18, my family would be mad to know I am dating a man 22 years my senior! What to do?

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6 October 2008, 6 hours ago (F) - I have a hugh problem i have been seeing this guy who is 22 years older than i am. im only 18 but i love him so much. we have been together 5 months but keeping it a bit of secret from my family. they would go mad if they found out i dunno what to do? ... (57 words)

I'm a very shy girl, need tips on first kissing!

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6 October 2008, 6 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - ok i have a boyfriend and he wants 2 kiss me and i want 2 kiss him but i dont know how 2 kiss someone on the lips so can someone plz help me!!!how long should the first kiss be(its only a lip kiss)? what do i do with my lips when they meet his? and should my hands be runn... (102 words)

Why couldn't he have just told me the truth?

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6 October 2008, 7 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend broke up with recently. The reason he gave me was that when he thinks back to his career he wouldn't have time for me and that he rushed into things. I told him how I felt and everything but he said his decision is final. It hurt me so much but then today I found ... (200 words)

Jerk or nerd - which do I choose?

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6 October 2008, 7 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - ok here we go... well im 17 and leaving school soon. i have been going out with a guy in my school since i was in grade 9. but recently i have noticed my feelings for him arent that strong anymore. When we kiss i dont feel anything-at all. And iv'e realised he has been ac... (172 words)

She's a rape victim - how do I help her and get our sex life back on track?

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6 October 2008, 7 hours ago (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend was raped when she was 14. She is 27 now and we have been dating for 2 years. Our sex life was wonderful until she bumped into the rapist at a bar almost a year ago. Since then we have made love 5 times and 4 times we stopped because she was so freaked out. I ... (216 words)

Do we have a future together?

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6 October 2008, 7 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating my boyfriend for the last 8 months, he is a very good guy, he does everything to make me happy and the sex is honestly great, we both get along really well... At the beginning of our relationship we was living 2 hours apart, and as we are always very buss... (442 words)

How do I find a way to love my sister-in-law in an appropriate way?

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6 October 2008, 7 hours ago (M)

age 36-40 - I am struggling with my relationship with my wife's sister. I have been with my wife for ten years. We are happily married, in that we love and support one another and are united in our goals and hopes. We have some minor disagreements and issues, but our marriage, I ... (619 words)