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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

The older sister likes me but I fancy the younger one...

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20 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm nearly seventeen and I've recently met two sisters, one 17 and one nearly 16. I get on really well with them and I'm pretty much 100% sure that the older one likes me. The only problem is that I really like her sister, and I think she...

It's unrequited love on my side...

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20 October 2008 (F) - To all of you that take the time to read this, Right well i'm just going to jump straight into this one. Basically, I am in love but it's unrequited. It's a difficult situation this one, I have had feelings for this man for just near enough a y...

Why do I still feel jealous when he flirts or looks interested in another lass??

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20 October 2008 (F) - ahh omg just really confused i dont understand why i feel this way, i should'nt feel like this. Well supose i better get to the point. right well my ex and i broke up over 1 month ago now, and i have a new bf, but my ex still loves me and wants me...

Would it be right for me to agree given the age difference.

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20 October 2008 (M) - Hi I am 17 years old and I recently met this girl, we know each other reasonably well and I quite like her but she is over 3 years younger than me and has asked me for sex. Would it be right for me to agree given the age difference....

I want her to move in with me, is it too soon?

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20 October 2008 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for about 8 months. Things are pretty serious, we are best friends, and love each other. I hold a full time job, currently live with my parents, and will be getting my own place soon. Is it too early to ask he...

My teacher is really freaking me out!

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20 October 2008 (F) - I know you get many of these but I'm really creeped out to be honest- I've been taught by this teacher for three years now and he treats me so differently to everyone else. At first it was just funny, we just had a laugh, but then he kept making r...

I was only trying to help a friend!

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20 October 2008 (F) - You guys recently rejected a question because it was a duplicate of one already accepted. I, however, didn't know it was wrong. I posed as the person who needed the advice when it was really my friend's story. She told me a week ago that she's ...

I feel as if I'm in limbo right now...

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20 October 2008 (F) - This is a complicated, intertwined one, so be ready. It started about one year ago, when I started noticing this guy in the grade above me. I didn't like him, I just noticed him. We just had common interests, thats all. I didnt know him and the ...

Best friends become lovers.....

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20 October 2008 (F) - My best friend for over 4 years (a guy) and I have recently made the transition from "just friends" to "more than just friends." Over the past couple months, we have developed strong feelings for one another and have become intimate. However, we ...

Do you think I'm doing anything wrong?

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20 October 2008 (F) - Hi me and my husband got into it last night. I just recently got a facebook account. I mainly got it to keep in touch with long distance family since i moved out of town. However i saw a lot of people from my old middle and high school and i ...

How do I get out of this tricky situation???

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20 October 2008 (F) - Hey guys! I have a bit of an issue concerning boys. I'll keep it short. Basically, I'm in my last year of college, and there's a guy, James*, who says he's in love with me. He told me this around two months ago, and we had a bit of a thing because I ...

We compare notes together of dates we've been on but I want to date HIM!

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20 October 2008 (F) - Hi I was wondering if someone could please help me make some sense of this. I have my best friend who works in a city a few hours from me. I have only recently moved to this country and we met over a year ago when he was travelling. I have always h...

Should I STAY with my boyfriend even though it's not fair on him?

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20 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I had a really rough weekend, there was this party and it turned up really wrong. Friend invited some boys, there was alcohol and I ended up sleeping with one of them, twice. 30 mins after crying about my boyfriend. He doesn't live in UK, so we ...

What can I do to make him like me again?

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20 October 2008 (F) - How do I make him like me again? I had been seeing this guy for a couple of months and things were going well. We have known each other for a very long time and there had always been a mutual attraction between us so when we finally got toge...

Should I stay in my current (troubled) relationship or make myself available for my best friend?

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20 October 2008 (M) - Hello y'all. I have quite a delicate situation on my hands. I've liked this girl for over 6 months until she became by best-friend. After we became my best friend, I found out she had a boyfriend and I tried to cool down since I didn't want her to c...

Why does my boyfriend want to stay friends with this girl when he knows how she treats me?

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20 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and he is still good friends with a girl that used to be MY best friend. He used to like her in 8th grade, but they went out for just a few days (you know how it was back then). He told me she ...

Should I stop seeing him because I slept with his friend in the past? His friend and I loathe each other.

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20 October 2008 (F) - I have recently started a casual relationship with a really great guy, who I have known and liked for almost a year, we are keeping it casual even though we really like eachother as neither of us is in the right place for a serious relationship at ...

Do I stand up and fight for what I believe in?

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20 October 2008 (M) - okay maybe im writing this because i want you guys to tell me what i wanna hear or see, maybe to get this of my chest i know I'm definity on here cause i got know idea what to do , ive done all the sums and all the possible senarios that could ...

Why is my man being weird about getting physical?

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20 October 2008 (F) - I'm feeling really confused. I've been friends with *Chris* for almost a year. We've been into each other since the first real conversation we had in January and never acknowledged it, thinking it couldn't work because of other forces complicating ...

My self esteem is crushed, WHY can't I get a boyfriend?

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20 October 2008 (F) - I am 14 years old and so many of my friends have boyfriends, and I haven't had one before. No guys seem to be interested in me, they just pass over me and look at my friend who has a nice face and dd cups. I hate my nose, it's sorta big, and I ...

I want to experience being REALLY loved by a guy...

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20 October 2008 (F) - Ok here's the thing, I am 21 and single and am wondering if there is something wrong with me... but before anything... I was sexually abused when I was in my teenage years for a long time by a family member. A few years ago I gave my heart to God. ...

Lesbian affair?

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20 October 2008 (F) - OK.. I am 17 and she's 17. We're best friends, and one day we were laying in my mom's bedroom and she said she has never had anyone feel her up (Squeeze her boob) So I squeezed her boob for her playing around and stuff and she was laughing and then ...

I am happy with my partner of 19 years so why does this other man almost consume me?

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20 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I have been with my partner for 19 years, we are both 35, have 4 children, a happy family life, very satisfying sex life, we are great "friends" as well as partners... I could not imagine spending the rest of my life with anyone ...

Do men say the opposite of what they think?

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20 October 2008 (F) - I met this guy on the last day of a week trip to Hawaii. He knew I was leaving soon but wanted to get me out for lunch. We did so and had a great time. Really good connection. Over the course of the "date", he suggested numerous times that we should ...

Affection to a gay-like.

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20 October 2008 (F) - There is this guy in the campus that looks like a gay but some says he's not, the proof is.. he admired a girl and tried to court her. The first time I saw him was I was amazed that there is a gay-lie guy that tries to court a girl. The girl said ...

She says I am like her brother!

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20 October 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a 'friend' who I have been seeing a lot lately whether it be a date, at my house for a swim or even we go shopping together. She has even called in sick at work just to spend the day with me (in my pool, lunch, then the movies)...

Will I lose my friend?

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20 October 2008 (F) - have a friendship question. I have a friend who I have known for years as an acquaintance, never really knowing each other much, but in recent months we have become closer and are now good friends, there is a good frienship connection the...

I don't want to be used again, opinions needed, is he into it?

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20 October 2008 (F) - I am 21, the guy I am seeing is 32 he is my friend's neighbour. He knew i had a boyfriend when he kissed me the first time, i made out with him because my boyfriend and i in a long distance relationship and were falling apart. it is two weeks la...

What do I need to do, to make things right again? Help!

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20 October 2008 (F) - My now-fiancée and I have been together for 4 1/2 years (We broke up one time for 6 months – back in 05) So actually only 4 years together. We had taken a couple small breaks in the past, but within the past year, we have stayed together and things ...

Forced to cancel my flight plans because she changed her plans. Should I talk to her about this?

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20 October 2008 (F) - In June I flew to Florida to visit my best friend, M. from High School. We hadn't seen eachother in 10 years but we always kept in touch. We had a great time and were so happy to be together. I live in NY and she lives in FL. We both have ...

My future is very important to me, but I don't think he understands that.

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20 October 2008 (F) - I'm a little confused as to what's going on in my relationship right now. Maybe it's partly my fault but I want you to tell me what you think. Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for four and a half years so far. I would look at it as being...

I'm developing feelings for him, but don't know if he feels the same, please help

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20 October 2008 (F) - i meet this guy about a month ago online but we only went out recently for a date. Date was ok ,wasnt fantastic, but we could carry convertsations well, which i found important, as chatting online with someone and in person is very different. Al...

I am attracted to my tutor, fours years younger than me, I want to be closer, how do I keep this going, until we can move forward?

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20 October 2008 (M) - Until last week I did a 10 week employment course which was so easy that I was bored. During this time I built up a friendship with one of the tutors who is 4 years younger than me. We'd have discussions about the course which led to flirty ...