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Archived questions from: 18 October, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Broke up with my boyfriend for this other guy... now he doesn't want to know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I don't know where else to turn. I was with a guy for a year and 7 months. I'm 17. Hes 25. meaning I got with him when I was just gone 16. I believed I was mature enough to handle him, his daughter, and all his baggage. He cheated on me several...

What can I say to make him feel better and get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Okay people yall really did help on my last question but now i need help with somthing else... Okay i have this guy friend who is gay. He has just recently came out of the closet to his close friends but ive pretty much always knew he was gay....

NEUTRAL? What on Earth Is That supposed to Mean?????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I met this man on holiday and we didnt sleep together -i liked him and he was trying but i didnt-we e mailed a few times but I think he has found someone close to him and in his last e mail he said he wasnt attracted to me (so why keep on trying ...

I've had offers to be with other guys but I want to stay with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I've been with this guy for over 2 months now and we got on so well at the very start and we have told each other that we love each other. I dont no if i do love him because i have never felt love with a man before but it feels real. He is 25 and i ...

My boyfriend ditches me for his friends. How do I talk to him about it without making him mad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is always ditching me to see his friends. I see him at most 3 times a week, when i used to be able to see him everyday but now he's at collage, things have changed as the only reason i saw him every day was due to scchool. He always...

Is it okay to confess to this girl that I like her? We're a little close but not that much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Hello. I need help. Anyway, I'm a tomboyish girl but many doubt my preferences. Some of them thinks I'm a normal girl while others think I'm a lesbian or bi. In truth, I'm into both but 70% of my attraction are into girls. Anyway, I still don't know ...

Is my 'gay' best friend falling for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5588 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - My best friend acts gay, so I didn't care when he hugged or snuggled quite intimately with me because I didn't believe he could have been attracted to me. However, he just told me that he's straight, and has hinted several times about making out. ...

Best friend or my ex???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and I've got a bit of a problem. Earlier this year I had sex with my boyfriend. We only did it once and I broke up with him shortly after because I felt that the relationship was developing way too soon and he didn't want to slow things down. ...

I want to get to know my neighbour better as I have a huge crush on him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I've got a real crush on my next door neighbour but I am quite a shy person and don't know how to approach him. I also have a daughter so I often think that guys won't be interested! I have spoken to him but only briefly and I don't know if he...

Is there any way of putting an end to this relapse of depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Hey, For the last 2 years I suffered a lot of depression. But this year, I got over it as soon as I got a boyfriend, OB, who is absolutely lovely. But the thing is now, I'm having a relapse coz two of my supposed best friends, SM and AG, are bein...

Why does my friend try and hurt me? We're not kids, we're grown-ups!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I have ben friends with J for 5 years now and the past 2 years she has been quite horrible to me. Not all the time but sometimes. We are both in a relationship and she always compares my partner to hers. She comes out with 'How come you got the ...

My husband's best friend who is also married wants to have sex with me, I refused yet he does not listen to me, what to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - my husbands best friend wants to have sex with me.he is also happly married. his wife is my friend.i have already told him to control his emotions cause it will ruin our marrieges.but he is not ready to listen to me.what should i do?i dont want to ...

He's giving me mixed signals... What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I have a crush on a guy, but I can't be sure if he likes me or not. Sometimes he is really sweet, he's teasing me a lot, he smiles and sometimes it seems like he doesn't care. I'm really confused and I have to do something to understand if he likes ...

I am scared of sex!!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I am actually 13 and one of my friends has been having sex (or so she says she does) and I was thinking maybe I should but I'm scared and my parents are overprotective -- not toooo much but I want to, now will I be a virgin forever if I'm scared to ...

My boyfriend likes his female friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Me and my bf have been going out for a year and a bit more.. but recently.. he's had something going on (not cheating)his uni friend.. he likes her, like next potential gf. a few weeks before today he was suddenly cold to me.. from a buildup o...

My friend gave this guy my number but denies it when I asked.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Yesterday I got a call by a guy I don't know. He said he was giving a good friend of mine shit for not being a virgin and my friend said 'I screwed this chick!' and gave a bunch of boy's my number. My friend denies it but then how did they get my ...

My boyfriend is suspicious about my friendship with his friend, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Recently, me and my boyfriends best friend has been texting, nothing about love or anything like that, just harmless chatting, we have become best friends and other people think we are cheating. My boyfriend has found out and is cross with the ...

Best friend trust or love for the boy we both loved as kids. Truth or lie now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I need advice asap! Okay, there this boy we'll call him Tom and there's my best friend in the world Kim. We tell each other everything and are super close for so many years now she is also my blood cousin.Well here's my problem when I first met Tom ...

How can I get her away from these abusive dates of hers? I really do care for her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - i have a problem with a girl i want to date. it seems that she wont even notice me. im nice to her, ive even asked her out once. i have listened to her problems but she keeps on going out with total dirtbags. she's abused in these relations - both...

She has a boyfriend but I have far more in common with her than he does!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I want some advice about a girl I have known for about a year and a half now, she's called called R and I'm C. She's 19 and I am 20.. we both met through a friend of ours. We established a really good friendship.. we talk about lots of things ...

Best mate's father... and me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I don't know what I should do as I'm in an awkward postion here.. I am actually in love wih my best friend's father, and I know he feels the exact same way. We always talk to each other about our feelings but how we can't do much being around my ...

I want to be his first but I'm terrified I'll lose him if I have sex with him!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - There's a guy on my school's football team and his body is close to perfect and he is absolutely gorgeous!!! I've liked him for a while (I've had band with him for 2 years, I see him everyday) He's 17 and I'm about 2-3 years younger than him. A lot ...

His wife is in denial about the divorce and keeps harassing me online.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my wonderful fiance' for nearly a year and we planned to get married by the end of next year. However, his ex found out about him getting married by hacking into his email account and she went livid. (She is really obsessed with ...