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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Chosing between my friend and this guy I like...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - my problem is that there is this guy who my friend likes. but the thing is that she knows i like him too, and have liked him for two years since i was in the seventh grade and he was in the eighth grade. now i'm a freshman and he's a sophmore. well ...

I'm not allowed hugs from my friends yet my boyfriend is???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - This is just about my boyfriend. He flirts and slaps other girls bum's, and hugs them and expects me to be fine with it, but then when it comes to me always hugging other people he gets really jealous and comes up and pulls me away and starts ...

Now he won't go out with her and wants to date me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Something happened today which is totally going to ruin my last year at school! My best friend swept me away from everyone else to ask me advice about he and this girl. I'm very protective of him but have decided, despite feeling a little jealous...

Why is my boyfriend's mate saying he loves me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hey, I need help. I have been dating my recent boyfriend for 11 months and am very happy with him, however recently we had a stupid argument and split up for a couple of days. During those couple of days one of his best mates started texting ...

How would you interpret his comment in your point of view?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I went to dinner at somebody's house where there was wine. We met a new person (older man) who we had to walk with on the way. My husband didn’t like his company and I didn’t mind his company. After he left on his way and we on ours ...

Should I date him to find out if I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I am 19 and a thirty year old graduate student at my school went with me to the movies. I wasn't sure it was a date but he paid and kissed me on the cheek afterwards. He acted like a perfect gentleman and suggested another movie we could see and ...

Is he just a friend or can he be more? How can I find out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Sorry - this is a long one but I need a hepful opinion really badly! I met a man (I'll call him 'L') nearly 3 years ago and we've gradually become firm friends; he works in offices that I occasionally visit as part of my job (so we don't work ...

I'm falling for my flatmate and unsure of his intentions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I've never used a site like this before as I've always prided myself on being a sensible level-headed person who can work most things out by myself. However at the moment I am just irrationally fixated on this one problem and I really hate ho...

He hardly talks to me at school but is talkative and friendly at snowboarding, why could this be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I have a bad problem, im totally in love with this boy, he does kind of know it seen as all my friends told him, but this was a few months back. He is really really shy and he is a professinal snowboarder and does not want a girlfriend. Although ...

I'm finding it hard to act naturally around my best friend and his girlfriend, because I fancy him! How to cope with the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I am feeling a bit confused right now. I have recently returned to my home town after an extended period away in America. I have met up with lots of old friends, including my old best friend. The problem is that I feel more than friendship for h...

I love her, but am now questioning how the relationship began...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - May of 2006 I stayed at my friends apt for three weeks until I found my own apt for the summer. She is a girl, and we both liked each other at different times in our three year friendship. Almost immediately before I moved in, she was broken u...

Am I being stupid by making all the effort?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi me and my boyfriend have been split up for about 8 weeks and hes now involved with someone else anyway we agreed to try and stay mates even tho the girl hes now involved with dosent like me one bit, so he says for me to ring him which i do but t...

Any ideas on how to handle my self centered girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - A lot of my friends (mainly my female friends) hate my girlfriend because shes too self center (she is working on it and trying to be nicer to everyone). My female friends can be really mean maybe even almost disrespectful to her. They even star...

He was a bad boyfriend - what makes him think he'd be any better as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Could someone please tell me why my ex boyfriend is so keen on being friends? We broke up one year ago- after I found out he'd been lying to me and seeing other women. He calls several times a day, calls when he has good news. I just don't see the ...

Does he have a right to be jealous of my guy friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - This guy and I have been hooking up for 8 months. He knows that I have feelings for him, but he said that he doesn't have feelings for me and is still in love with his ex. When he saw me walking/talking with my ex-boyfriend and other guy friends, he ...

Does hanging out with more than one guy make me a bad woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - hi..i have recently just hang out with three guys.we all had a drink together.i was told to hang with more girls than guys.but before i hang out with them i told them that I wasn't a hoe or a slut.they accepted that but i kinda felt left out at ...

I'm in love with a gay guy!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - What do you do if you love a guy...and this guy is gay? I told him i loved him AFTER he told me he was gay.....so im tellin him theres no point to say what i want to say. I gave in and said what i wanted, when i did a few minutes later he said he ...

Do I do him a favour and let him lose his virginity with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - ugh, so i used to do alot of stuff with this one guy right? okay well, we were like seriously so close to goin out like it could've happenend but didn't. drama happenend. so we never went out just did sexual stuff..and we haven't talked for a while. ...

Friends and guys and yea

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - so i have these stupid friends, or so called"good firends" and they treat me as if they dont know me during school. but when we hang out its like we are bff's and its really pissing me off. i feel like i might be annoying them in a scince but i dont ...

Take a chance & ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I've known my friend for about a year now. We've grown really close in this time and love each other's company. I've liked her since the time we started talking and I know that she liked me as well. We've both have had hard times and this has brou...