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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Should I meet him or listen to my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - i have met this guy online and have been speaking to him for about 9 months. im only 16 and hes 23. i want to meet him so much but im quite scared and my friend doesnt approve of him as hes 23 speaking to a 16 year old about a relationship. should i ...

Am I crazy for forgiving him for everything he did?????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - hey this may sound crazy but i could really use ur help!!!!!!! a couple of years ago i was friends with this guy and then he told me he hated me and wished i was dead!!!!! now even more things have happened between us. Last night i ran into him and ...

My friend and I have had a sort of a tiff!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - Me and a really close friend who have been talking for a while are in a sort of tiff... I have no idea what to do... I need help :( I have been told by one of my friends that I'm being a bit clingy and I should leave him a while but I'm finding ...

Is it worth that I chase after her for a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I've recently started school again where I left off so I can graduate (I had to drop out for a bit for personal reasons). I've met a beautiful girl who flirts with me a lot, but I feel like she's more into my muscles then myself somtimes. She's the ...

Do you think I blew my chances with this guy I like so much by calling him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Yesterday, I had the chance of calling this guy I have feelings for but haven't seen for a year and a half ago. He's military and just came back from deployment so I called him to check on him. I was so excited and nervous I mostly did all the talk...

Am I jumping to conclusions here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Should I jump to conclusions? At my job, everything is computerized. Everyone has a login and password to access information about patients. Personal information such as work schedules, residence, pay rate, etc is also stored on our web page. No...

Why should I live my life virtually alone while my husband spends most of his spare time with his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

31 October 2008 (?) - I have been married to my husband for 2 1/2 years. We have a 6 yr old, a 2 yr old, and a 2 month old baby. I am an at home mom also trying to help out with the business my husband just started. I have been having a problem lately with my husband ...

LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...

Will this "friends" thing work for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity to this guy (he didn't pressure me though) and after several months of being together" and not going out, I told him I couldn't do it anymore, which is when he asked me to be his girlfriend. We went out for a week before he told ...

Is friendship all that's on offer here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - Hey, I've met this girl I really like at my college. I've liked her since we first met and I really really want to be with her, but I can't tell if she likes me the same way or not. One day she practically ignores me but the next she'll ask me if I ...

Is it wrong to have this type of friendship with a married guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I made a casual friendship with a guy when I sold some radios for an air base (he's air force) He was very friendly, yet a bit too much back then. He left a week later. I had to contacted him a month after that by email and since then we began ...

What are your suggestions on completely letting go of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - so, at the end of june my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about 3 weeks before leaving for the navy. he couldn't make up his mind what to say to me or about me, although none of it was entirely bad, he was stuck between saying he loved me and ...

What do I answer to her sexual questions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - If a girl asks you how bad do you want her and how bad do you want to go down on her what do you tell her?...

Should I give up finally on him? Heartbreak!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I have feelings for a guy who I met when he was doing duty assignment here in MI a year ago. He never knew I liked him when I met him although he was very friendly, the flirty type. I fell in love with him but couldn't told him or showed him b/c he ...

Have I missed my chance with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - A few years ago a boy told me he wanted to be more than friends. At the time I didn't think I felt that way about him so I said no, he didn't give up though, and over the course of 2 years he asked me out about 4 or 5 times. The boy in question is ...

Do you think that you forgive someone who did something very wrong to you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Do you think that you should continue to talk to someone who did something very wrong to you? I mean this person tricked you but they still try to be nice to you and somtimes you go along with it.. do you think that person should leave them alone ...

How am I supposed to deal with my friend? She's getting very annoying!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have a girl best friend and a guy best friend. I hang out with the girl all the time but this past schoolyear I've gotten really close to my guy best friend again and now she gets really jealous and really mad about me talking to him. like I hung ...

I had my period in school and now everyone makes fun of me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - my name is mary and i almost died of embarrassment when i had my period in school and everyone called me bloody Mary for the rest of the year and some of them still do. i need help and/or advice!...

How do I get over my best friend's boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I feel a bit jealous of my best friend's relationship with her boyfriend. Also i used to like him and i sort of still do. I hate thinking of them together. But i want to get over this. I don't want to tell my friend how i feel because i don't ...

It's always me who rings.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - It's always me who rings!! I am keeping in touch with a guy I adore who is pretty down on his luck - his girlfriend has split with him temporarilly, he is out of work and hence does not have much cash!! This guy knows I love him and is happy fo...

"He doesn't want to cut in on his grass"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I was chatting to a guy at work today and he used a phrase, "he doesn't want to cut in on his grass" when we were chatting about another guy I work with. Has anyone heard this before and if so what does it mean....

My ex insists on coming to me for advice and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hey. My ex insists on coming to me for advice. He is basically obsessed with my best mate (talk about rubbing salt in the wound),and he never shuts up. so i told him that id find out if she would ever go back with him to shut him up. i know fin...

I like two completely different guys. Who should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - i like two guys , i cant decide unless i make a mistake The first guy i like is the lead singer in a populare local band, hes allright looking, got a great sense of style.. but he can act like an idiot sometimes which embarrases me, he is soo sk...

Dating a friend's ex equals insecurity

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I'm dating a fantastic girl right now. We've been good friends for years, we absolutely head over heels for each other, sex life is great, etc. etc. There's just one thing that's causing me a bit of a hangup: she's the ex of a really good friend of ...

Did I push him too far by putting him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have beein in a relationship for twelve years, and have children. My boyfriend and I were having problems and we broke up because of his flirting and he moved out. However we were back sleeping together soon after he moved out and I really ...

I feel alone and unwanted at school

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hello peoples, i have a question. Right, at school, we just got 15 new people in September, so you know i started off friends with evryone, and all my friends from the previous year too. But in the last 2 weeks or so, i just feel like nobody like...

I'm hurting because the person I love doesn't trust me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I come from a crazy past. I was an addict, i slept around and i just partied my ass off! Then just over a year ago i met a boy who helped me change into a much better perosn. I love him so much... I'd do anything for him. He's my best friend. But he ...

How can I make my girlfriend get back with me after I slapped her and beat my friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - How can I make my girlfriend get back with me after I slapped her and beat my friends coz I was drunk and I dont know what took me that night. I was always the one against women getting hit or violence period and I'm the one involved in it so please ...

I simply want to know... is he into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I am not sure how to tell when a guy is really into me. I started seeing someone who was into me a lot and wanted to spend tons of time with me right off the bat, but now all of a sudden, he doesn't feel like the same guy with that attracti...

We both love each other but she doesn't want to go out with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I'm 15 years old and I'm having a couple of problems. I have a best friend (a girl) and I've known her for 3 years but last year I started crushing on her, but this year I've been really obvious about how i feel. everyday i tell her i love her so ...

We broke up, now she's dating my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I'm 17 years old me and my fiance were engaged for 6 months, we broke up a few weeks ago but I still love her with all my heart. She still talks to me sometimes she told me when we broke up she wouldn't date no one else that she would wait on me ...

My friend hates my ex, now I'm back with him... do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Me and my ex were together for a while then I broke it off then we were just on off like most teenagers do. Well my best friend hates him, and he and I talked and took a few weeks and worked out all of our problems... i really love him... I'm scared ...

Why are my friends so mean to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hello people of this earth! I need desprate help with my friends. I love my friends with all my heart, but sometimes I honest to God just want to die. Well, I'm not the most popular girl in school. I am actually considered nerd, geek, wierdo, freak, ...

I'm not sure if he wants to take this further or not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for almost two months and have been on couple of dates. The thing is that I'm not sure if he wants to take this further or not.. A couple days ago we were texting and he said he didn't want to be kissing me if I wasn't his ...

Is she trying to imply that she just wants to be friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I've been getting close to a girl for the pst three months. Started off emailing and texting with the old paranoia of 'does she like me?'. then we started hanging out- cinema- meals etc. eventually i told her i liked her- she reciprocated. Then i ...

How do you get past 'just friends' into a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - So I have not had much luck with 'dating' girls, so therefore haven't really had a girlfriend. I think it is about time since I have been through 4 years of University, and still have not seemed to figure it out. How do you get past 'just frien...

Do I tell him the truth or let him think I don't like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I'm 15 years old I have this thing called D.I.D which is basically a fancy term for multiple personalities. I lost the whole of yesterday to a black out and when i woke up this morning i had a voicemail from my boyfriend Cameron asking why I had ...

I don't know whether the school heart-throb likes me or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hi guys. I started a new school in september and there's this really hot guy, who seems to be the school heart-throb, (loads of girls like him) but he keeps staring at me and I can feel his eyes on me (if u see what I mean), he's really shy around m...

I am torn between two girls I have fallen for....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I am completely torn bewteen two girls I am in love with. My first girlfriend of 8 years is the same as as me(31). Everything was amazing in our relationship... except the sex. It was very dull and I tried everything to spice it up(games, dirty ...

Do you think he just wants to take things slowly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I would like some advice!! I was married for 5 years and separated 6 months ago. I have no experience in dating and I met this guy online. I met other guys but the first guy I dated we got on very well. What I found strange is that, we go out for ...

Is this married guy looking for trouble with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - OK, this guy is a friend of mine. A long distance one. I met him in a deal from my office. Turned out we became keeping in touch as friends he told me he's married so we became friends since day one. He's military so we never lost touch out of what ...

God she's amazing... I think I love her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Hey I just went to go see this musical production called Les Miserables (( AMAZING )) It was from the local stage school. Anyway there was some friends in it.. One called (Anonymous)... Shes amazing.. So i have been talking to (Anonymous)...

What is the difference in feelings between real love, and infatuation or lust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Kind of a general question. What is the difference in feelings between real love, and infatuation or lust? I ask as there is this one girl who on two occasions I have stopped feeling attracted to and then am again at a later point. Througho...

The pain will never stop

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I've been seeing my current girlfriend for exactly 6 months now. I love her more than life itself, and she's everything I could ever ask for. However, there's one thing that absolutely tears me apart on a daily basis and feels like the pain wi...

It feels weird having sex with him because we are so close.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Okay im confused. I have this friend named chris. I have been friends with him for 6 years. He is gay. But i have had sex with him twice. I see him more then a friend. Like a husband, cus i can always tell him everything. I don't know if i'm in love...

Why does he wait for me in parking lot, but says nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I'm in a FWB situation with a co-worker (we work in separate departments). One day he asked me what time I usually arrive at work so we could meet at a location inside the building in the morning. Well, I ran a little late and I saw him waiting for ...

I Still Love Him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Basically, i lost my virginity to this boy. At the time we really liked each other. After about 2 weeks i met his friend that i really liked but the next day he went out with my best friend but i didnt mind cos they were gonna go out anyway. When ...

Is my best friend jealous of my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I'm in love with this guy and he loves me but my best friend or supposedly, keeps making remarks about him and saying that she doesn't like him. When she doesn't even know him, also on my birthday he came round to wish me happy birthday but she made ...

I know that I am gay but love a woman very much.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I am a gay guy who loves a woman very much. She is so much my equal with humour and wonderful style and a lady who is sensitive to all around here. She seems to often have another perspective from which to view the world which seems more loving than ...

Was I too desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I met a really good man that had been broken up from his fiance of 3 years. I met him 2 weeks after their break-up. He and I had so much fun together. We are both 45 and his fiance is 37. We had more in common than she and he did. We did have ...