I told fiance I was going to miss being with her while away and she started to cry. What did I do wrong?
Q. I am a 28 year old guy. My fiance is 24. We are separated for a few days as I had to go on a work related trip (in my hotel room now) and she could not come with me because of her own responsibilities. When we were in bed the other night, I told ...
A. 12 April 2011: Perhaps her tears were simply tears of joy. Women are emotional creatures and sometimes ‘nice’ things set us off. Don’t let it worry you. Why not email her now and tell her how much you are looking forward to getting back to her :)... (read in full...)
He ignores my texts and only contacts me when he wants sex
Q. I'm a gay guy. I met a guy a few weeks ago and we've seen each other a few times since.We always have amazing sex, and he always says how great the sex is.Thing is i text him and it gets ignored.Then maybe a couple of weeks later he will text to ...
A. 12 April 2011: Obviously to him, you are just a booty call. If he is ignoring your texts in-between he clearly isn’t interested in anything more. If you don’t like being a booty call and being ignored there is only one thing you can do – do not respond to him the ... (read in full...)
Why did my husband fondle me then go masturbate in the bathroom when we were at a friend's house?
Q. I do not have any idea how to title this question. I am 31 and my husband is 32. We were at some friends' house recently. He came to me and asked to come with him. We went into a bedroom and he closed and locked the door. He said to me to get ...
A. 12 April 2011: Hmmmm strange! My first thought is perhaps he had this idea to get sexual with you at your friends house – the thrill of doing something somewhere you shouldn’t, but then he chickened out and was worried about being discovered but perhaps was too ... (read in full...)
Should I send my ex a painting of the two of us?
Q. Hey y'all I'm in need of some advice. Me and my have been broken up for about 4 weeks now. I'm still frustrated about it but it is really getting better. Im going to wait a little longer until I contact her, I was wondering some methods to do this. ...
A. 12 April 2011: I would say no don’t do it! I suppose though it depends on the situation – who finished the relationship, why did it end and how has communication been between you since. It is a nice idea but perhaps a little too soon for that. She might find it a ... (read in full...)
What are the duties of a mistress?
Q. Hey there! So heres the thing, my boyfriend wants me to be mistress, I've never done that. We're both new to this idea but he is ready for anything. Please help me by suggesting what I should do as a mistress? I would appreciate it! Btw, he said he ...
A. 6 April 2011: How exciting :) Your BF is interested in BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism). If your BF is asking you to beat his dick (CBT - Cock and Ball Torture), clearly he is very interested in the pain factor. Being ... (read in full...)
I need money. Is gay porn the answer? I don't want to cheat on my GF.
Q. hello, i am in serious dept, i haven't got a job and have £103 every 2 weeks. with my balance being so high I cant make the next step with my girl friend. i watched a program on MTV about porn stars lives, there was a guy on there whom who was ...
A. 30 March 2011: It is understandable when you have financial troubles to consider a career or brief stint in the adult industry – I regularly encounter people who chose this path for one reason or another. ‘Gay for Pay’ is a very common term in the porn industry ... (read in full...)
Why did he make me wait 3 whole minutes before having sex?
Q. The other night I wanted to have sex. So I asked my boyfriend and he said "can we wait till tomorrow morning?" so I said okay fine then I got up to go to the bathroom came back and he was naked I asked him then, why are you naked? Then he said ...
A. 29 March 2011: It’s called playing games and building up the tension, frustration and passion. I think you are reading too much into this and by the sounds of it not only do you not understand his motives, you seem to think there is something negative behind it. ... (read in full...)
If I start the NC rule, will she realize she still loves me?
Q. I've been in a 3.5 year relationship with my ex-gf and she says she no longer loves me in a romantic way. I've contacted her occasionally (once or twice a week) the past 2 weeks since our breakup. If i start the NC rule now, will there be a chance ...
A. 22 March 2011: As the saying goes: If you love someone set them free – if they come back they’re yours forever and if they don’t they were never yours to begin with.
Time apart with no contact is always a good thing. It will give both of you time to evaluate... (read in full...)
My ex wife and I want to give it another go, but I have just found out she is working as an escort! What should I do?
Q. my wife and i broke up for just over 12 months after a 2 year marriage,seperation was mutual and we both met new partners,she moved some 200 miles away to be with her new man but relationship failed,as did mine with new woman as i stil love my ...
A. 21 March 2011: You definitely need to talk to her but it is something you should approach gently and with compassion and understanding. You certainly seem to be more concerned than angry which in my opinion is a good thing. She obviously has her reasons for ... (read in full...)
I love my girl but am scared of losing her if I admit to having kissed another girl while drunk
Q. Hi, really need some help, i have now been with my girlfriend for 6 months, i love her to pieces and think out relationship is absolutely amazing. However, i am at uni and she lives back home, during freshers weeks, while very drunk i kissed a few ...
A. 19 March 2011: I understand your confusion as what to do. While lying may seem like the best thing to do – you don’t want to hurt her and now that you’ve continually lied not only are you possibly going to hurt her with the initial act, you’ll also hurt her for ... (read in full...)
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