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I'm almost 20 years young, have the most amazing boyfriend of 2 years, have known each other for around 11 years. I am a very happy person, and love giving advice. I am really family oriented, and would give my life for them. I love nothing more than watching the moon and stars at night time. :)

Why does my boyfriend think it's sexy?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been trying new things in bed and a few nights ago I joined in with him fingering me. He said it was sexy and he loved it. And I asked him why and he couldn't give me a straight answer. I don't understand why he liked it so ...

A.   12 February 2011: How would he explain why it is sexy? Theres not much to say other than that. Just take it as a compliment and don't hound him about it. Men like what they like!... (read in full...)

Should I push her into a relationship with me?

Q.   i like this girl, we have a lot of fun together but she does not want a romantic relationship right now b/c she is still getting over her ex. i want to know if i should push her into a relationship? or just take it slow and just be there for her. ...

A.   12 February 2011: She clearly told you what she wants, so definitly don't push her into it. You need to wait for her and let her know that whenever she is ready, you will be right there. If you push her into anything, she will resent you in the long run.... (read in full...)

Is 19 too young to get engaged?

Q.   My boyfriend and I are almost at a year in our relationship,happier than ever, each day feels like the first. We have been friends going on three years now. We are 19, sophomores in college. I was just wondering, in anyones opinion, is 19 too young ...

A.   12 February 2011: I think if you both feel it is the right thing, and really what you want, why not? Me and my boyfriend are 19, almost 20 also, and have been together for 2 years now, and talk about it also. You can be engaged for as long as you want or need! Good ... (read in full...)

Stretch marks at 13! Will they ever go away?

Q.   Hey so I have VERY sensitive skin I mean in 6th grade I coughed so much I got bruises on my face! So I'm 13 and I have stretch marks! I'm not obsesse not even fat really i think I just grew to fast and with sensitive skin it reacted =\ is there any ...

A.   12 February 2011: @ Veronica, sorry to tell you, but stretch marks do not go away. They can lighten, but not go away.... (read in full...)

Tall Woman Syndrome? Mommy complex?

Q.   Here's one for the tall ladies, 5'10+. Please explain the tall-woman-syndrome and the "mommy" complex. Is it true that taller women feel like a mom standing beside a shorter guy? What exactly is the difference in inches that makes a taller w...

A.   11 February 2011: I don't think it is you, its usually the girl. I'm almost 6'2" and my man is taller than me. I think taller girls just feel weird with a shorter guy because its their own thing, like it might be a self esteem issue for some girls. Good luck!... (read in full...)

I've got the French maid costume, but what do I do after I put it on?

Q.   My boyfriend has told me before that one of his fantasies is for me to dress up as a french maid. As we are at different universities we hardly see each other at all any more, so I thought I'd surprise him when I go to visit him next. The thing is...

A.   10 February 2011: I'm stuck in your situation also! I think that we think too hard about it. I don't think you need to be super extravogant and go all out with it. I think to guys, its pretty simple, and a very pleasant supprise. I'm sure he loves you, and if so, he ... (read in full...)

Will having sex with my friend help me get over my ex?

Q.   I can't get over my ex but I'm good friends with a guy who treats me like a queen and wants me to be his girlfriend and wife one day but I'm still messed up in my head about my ex. If I have sex with my good guy friend, will that make me get over my ...

A.   10 February 2011: Having sex with someone just to get over someone from your past (which isn't even guaranteed), at the expense of possibly hurting someone that really cares for you, is not right.... (read in full...)

Fiance cheated, take him back or not?

Q.   I recently broke off my engagement with my fiancé who I have been with for three years. I found out about a month ago by going through his computer (looking for a paper I had written, not to spy) that he was looking at other girls online; not porn ...

A.   10 February 2011: Never. If you take him back, mentally, that's telling him that he could do the worst, with no consequence. ... (read in full...)

In love with my principal...

Q.   I am in high school and I'm in love with my principal. Over the past summer i started messaging him on fbook and after about 2 months of no replys i decided to tell him how i really felt. So the messages went from "hey hows it goin?" to "I Love ...

A.   10 February 2011: The phrase "in love" is tossed around way to much. You have a crush. You can not be "in love" with someone who you have not even crossed the emotional path with, let alone write you back on facebook. You should think about his position and how ... (read in full...)

After the kissing... what next?

Q.   So i have a problem. I kissed my bf for the first time ever last night and we even made out for a bit and now im wondering what the next step is. i know im not ready for sex but i dont wanna kiss him then leave him hanging... please help. im going ...

A.   10 February 2011: If he really loves you, he won't get mad if you do leave him hanging. Good luck!... (read in full...)

Stretch marks at 13! Will they ever go away?

Q.   Hey so I have VERY sensitive skin I mean in 6th grade I coughed so much I got bruises on my face! So I'm 13 and I have stretch marks! I'm not obsesse not even fat really i think I just grew to fast and with sensitive skin it reacted =\ is there any ...

A.   10 February 2011: I think you are way to young to be worrying about it. Your body is going to do whatever it will do as you grow, and you can't help that. To many girls grow up with the wrong images in their heads of how they are "supposed" to look. There is no right ... (read in full...)

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