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anonymous
writes: When me and my long term boyfriend have sex, when he cums, he laughs and is often forced to stop the stroking motion. He says it's not a bad thing at all, but doesn't seem to be able to explain it... or maybe he just doesn't want to. Why does he laugh? I think it's hot when he does, but I'm just wondering. Has anyone experienced this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): OMG!!! my sex partner laughs after he cums every time. when have been messing around for three years and he still does it. it is so annoying
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reader, Alygocha +, writes (6 February 2009):
my BF and i both laugh.We laugh from the excitement we have in that moment
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): Yeah...I'm involved w/ a guy that laughs like that. Kept thinking he was laughing at me, but after the first 10 seconds of uncontrollable giggling, I figured it out. :)Unique, but amazing...never knew that was possible. I cry when I have a monumental orgasm...so that's gonna look crazy...he'll be laughing and I'll be crying....
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): I'm not exactly sure why, but it's happened to me a couple times when i'm orgasming. I can't explain it. It's wierd, but amazing...
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (7 February 2008):
Lol. I have never encountered a laughing cumming man but I sure want to meet one. Lol. My boyfriend grunts when he cums and I think its so sexy. I dunno how I would feel if a guy was laughing when he came but if he finds that much joy when he's cumming with you, I think its wonderful.
Lucky girl!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): Well though it can be normal if it doesn't turn you on or is weird to you, you can always find a mate that DOES it for you. No one said you have to settle for second string if you don't want to.
I am not saying he IS second string but say you prefer blond or red hair, then you should have that. . Be in a relationship that you like 100%
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): I start laughing about 5 seconds after, and it's pretty uncontrollable. I get super sensitive too so yeah, sometimes I have to stop stroking, not cause it hurts or anything is wrong, but because it feels TOO good. I chalk it up to lots of happy chemicals getting released in my brain. Like getting a shot of uncontrollable giggles, and it can last for a few minutes. So, it's normal for some peeps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): Well I rather prefer a "straight face" then, as opposed to laughing. Of course, neither reaction is enough of a reason to give up somebody, it's just a matter of preference and then... tolerance to the partner's manifestations. To explain my preference, I see the act as very intimate and deep... Hehe there was a tell-tale that men particularly would prefer for women not to tell jokes during the act, as they should be too impressed by what they do in order to be able to concentrate upon something else. However, to conclude, each of the two should be able to react in his natural ways, and this should be of no discomfort to the other. All the best.
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reader, Cherriepie +, writes (6 February 2008):
I think its a wonderful reaction. Sex should be enjoyed and why not express your happiness with laughter. I've experinced that kind or reaction and it makes me smile back and laugh too! Smiling and laughter is very sexy and should be part of the experience. I would rather that reaction over a straight faced stone cold orgasm.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (6 February 2008):
i've heard of this, maybe from sex and the city or something, i don't remember, but yea i don't think he's laughing at you or anything, it's just normal reaction some guys do !
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (6 February 2008):
I often laugh at my boyfriend before sex, I think its just nerves. Well thats what I tell him anyway.
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