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I'm starting to feel like a paranoid psycho!!! Help!

Q.   Hi this is my first time using this and i stumbled on it looking for some answers to how i'v been feeling, to sum it up im currently feeling a bit like that song by katie melua closest thing to crazy!! Basically ive been with my boyfriend for almost ...

A.   26 November 2010: You poor dear. If you ever want to talk one-on-one send me a message on this. There are definitely some red flags there, and it was brave of you to talk to him about it, but it seems that rather than hear you out he seems to have disregarded what... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is amazing! Should I just accept her kindness and stop complaining?

Q.   I do not know how I got so lucky as to snatch up my amazing and beautiful girlfriend; I would be lost in so many ways without her. I've had a thing for her for a while now but all throughout high school, she would be my friend and nothing more. Then ...

A.   25 November 2010: As you're a guy I can understand that as awesome as it is to have your life completely turned around for the better, it will still bother you to feel that the girl is in control and that you will feel guilty for not being the one that takes care of ... (read in full...)

Has anyone experienced a date canceling twice, should I forget him??

Q.   I went out on a first date with a guy I met a party and we hit it off. We exchanged numbers and talked and texted every night for weeks before going out on a date. The date went well...as well as first dates can go. And he asked me out again that ...

A.   25 November 2010: You sound totally awesome, and like you completely already know what you should be doing and just want us to confirm it. Delete this guy from Facebook, it'll stop you from being updated of his nights out, and if he's at all interested he'll be ... (read in full...)

Moved to Ireland t/b/w long-term, long distance bf, home sick, no job, no friends, what do I do?

Q.   Soo... I've got myself in a bit of a pickle here. I've had a long distance boyfriend for a long time (about 2-3 years), and don't get me wrong, this isn't about him, he's wonderful. The problem is that I moved over to, of all countries Ireland ...

A.   25 November 2010: "Over here" you're required by law to get professional driving lessons to qualify for a full driver's license, and student fees are also being increased in the UK. Any government maintainence you would get to cover fees in the UK will still apply to ... (read in full...)

First boy that I've ever loved, but I think I'm gay

Q.   Hi, My problem is this. My boyfriend lives in England whereas I live in Ireland. I met him when I was there on holiday and he's the first boy I've ever loved. I love him deeply and we have plans to see each other soon. The only thing is. I alwa...

A.   24 November 2010: First off, what's wrong with being bi? If you're physically attracted to your boyfriend then you're not doing anything wrong by being with him while also finding girls attractive. The flirting would be the only issue there. Possibly also the ... (read in full...)

My ex husband is back to work it out!

Q.   I'm 23 and I'm beginning to realize that life really can suck. My ex-husband and I had been together for two years before we got pregnant. He was uber supportive through the whole thing. But right around when our son was six months old, he got ...

A.   23 November 2010: Oh my, I am so, so sorry that you went through all that. You sound like an amazing person, all you have accomplished through this is really impressive. I'm a bit anxious to give advice in this situation. I would ask what he claims his motives ... (read in full...)

Do I come clean about cheating?

Q.   i've been going out with this guy for 2 years now, he's a great guy sweet and carring but our relationship became dull and we lost the spark...so i began talking to other ppl behind his back... it was innocent at first but it went too far...i ...

A.   23 November 2010: If you want to stay with him and don't tell him then what you have together will not be a realtionship, it will be a lie. You will be lying to him for as long as you are together. When you tell him you can choose to do it either by: (a) it being... (read in full...)

I have to do everything for her!

Q.   i am 28 years old and i am married. i love my fiance but i have to do everything for her. I cook, clean, do all the laundry, pay bills, do all the house work and maintain the cars that we have. when i dont do something for her she starts getting ...

A.   23 November 2010: Have you asked her what her side of the story is? I'm sure that it is very frustrating for you and you feel disrespected, even emasculated. But pointing something out to her in way that seems like you're making her 'the bad guy' (even though she may ... (read in full...)

I cant let go of her! How can I get her back or at least find out what went wrong?

Q.   Hello everyone, I'm in great need of advice in contrast with an ex-girlfriend. Her birthday is right around the corner and even though I'm great with words I just don't know what I shall write in her card, there are reasons behind this. One of them ...

A.   23 November 2010: This is so sweet to read, I'm so happy for you! You seem like a really great, geniune guy and she's really lucky to have you!... (read in full...)

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