My family life is falling apart, I keep pushing the boy I love and I just don't know what to do anymore!
Q. sooo at this point im all over the place... my family life is falling apart and on top of tht i keep tryin to push away the guy i love! i just dont know what to do anymore.. ive been in depression for 3 yrs and can never seem to be happy. i gues...
A. 16 December 2008: thank you so much for your advice.. i guess my question is why i continue to feel so unhappy and why when i can be happy i dont let myself.. maybe it is due to me always being hurt by everyone i ever cared about but im not sure... (read in full...)
Neither of us is wiling to jump in first. So what do I do?
Q. I feel so pathetic coming to a website to blab about my life’s miseries to millions of strangers, but I made this account and I might as well go on with it. Well it all started last year in my Math class. I had this male teacher who was a ...
A. 6 November 2008: yea i understand. i think that ur parents will want you to be happy and i dnt think u shuld believe that they will ignore you if your with this guy... (read in full...)
Have I gotten myself into a distasterous situation?
Q. Okay so I am new here....and so confused.... So here's my situation...I married my childhood sweetheart after 20 years. It was a horrible disaster..long story. It ended badly, I totally lost myself in him, he was my every breath, and I th...
A. 6 November 2008: well i think u need to find closer with your ex. and decide wat you really want. wat would make you happier you should also keep in mind and also dont forget about your son his decision kind of counts too but utimately u need to be truthful with ... (read in full...)
Why won't my Mom let me go on the pill?
Q. the relationship between me and my mum is rapidly changing and i dont know what to do. me and my boyfriend of 6 months recently lost our virginities to each other, hes the best thing in the world, treats me like a princess and he and my mum do get ...
A. 6 November 2008: i dont think you should go against your mother because like you sed you are like best friends. i think your mom is just sad that you are becoming a woman and you are not her little girl anymore. i would advise sitting your mom down and talking to ... (read in full...)
Can someone explain so that I can understand where he's coming from?
Q. My boyfriend told me that he doesn't want to stop loving me because I'm so amazing but he just doesn't feel the same. He said it's tearing him apart because he doesn't know what to do. I don't understand how he can't choose whether or not to like me ...
A. 6 November 2008: im not sure because i dont know him but i think he might be falling in love with you and might be scared cause he never felt this way before. and with being scared he wants to "run away" from the situation because he is conffused and doesnt want to ... (read in full...)
He's emotionally tired and can't give me anymore! Any advice?
Q. I've been dating a man for 5 years. It's been great. This past August he moved out. I was out of town for 4 months, when I got back he was gone. He tells me he's still attractive to me. He is seeing another woman. I don't understand. We get along so ...
A. 6 November 2008: unfortunatly i think that he does not feel the same way to you as you do to him. this happens to the best of us. maybe soon enough hell realize that he misses you and loves you
sorry im not that much help let me know wat happens
good luck... (read in full...)
If it wasn't for her, he'd like me..I know it! What should I do?
Q. I first saw this guy when I was walking through my college's club fair, he was standing by his clubs post and I knew from the second I saw him that he was special, I knew I had to speak with him, and know him. Sooo I was too shy to go up to him... ...
A. 6 November 2008: well this guy could be telling you this because he feels confortable with you. this actually happened to me once and he said he liked me but never went with it and he would always tell me that he was in love with his best friend (she was a girl) it ... (read in full...)
Rumors said he's breaking up with her for me..but it hasn't happened yet? What's going on?
Q. I've had a crush on this guy for a while and there's rumors going around that he likes me back and he's gonna break up with his girlfriend for me but he hasn't and he hasn't said anything about the situation at all to me and nobody's brought it up ...
A. 6 November 2008: well rumors are a huge part of school and some are not usually true. i think that u shuldnt listen to these rumors and get urself all worked up. wait for him to come and talk to you or if he is a shy type of guy ask him wat the rumors are about. but ... (read in full...)
After all these years, should I ask him 'what he wants from me?'
Q. Ok here is the scenerio. I met my ex-boyfriend "Brian" 1989 in college. we dated for a 6 months then, I went to his home in TX for the summer met his family. When school resumed we continued our relationship until the end of that semester (around ...
A. 6 November 2008: i think inorder to find closer with brian you need to get everything out in the open.. i think maybe at the time he didnt really reliaze how much he loved you until you were officially out of his life. in all fairness to ur husband i think that you ... (read in full...)
I'm being bullied, does anyone know any good comebacks?
Q. okay, i am being verbally bullied. do you have any comebacks or insults???????????????????...
A. 5 November 2008: well i think the best way to confront a bully is to either ignore them
1. you should ignore them because bullies are usually just insecure and it makes themselves feel better to put people down. and to see u angry or hurt just fuels them to keep ... (read in full...)
Why is he telling me about all these other women if he supposedly likes me?
Q. I met a man through an online dating site. (First time I've used one) and he is very christian which I like. He was emailing 4-5 times a day and finally we talked on the phone for about a week. Our conversations were 3-4 hours long, so we were ...
A. 5 November 2008: i believe that there could be two possiblities...
1. he wants you to be jealous and appear that he is wanted so you will want him more
or
2. hes a jerk and does not appreciate women and you and see them as objects and trophies
i hope e... (read in full...)
Neither of us is wiling to jump in first. So what do I do?
Q. I feel so pathetic coming to a website to blab about my life’s miseries to millions of strangers, but I made this account and I might as well go on with it. Well it all started last year in my Math class. I had this male teacher who was a ...
A. 4 November 2008: hmmm well maybe you should wait until you are 18 therefore you can legally date him and you are free from your parents. unless if your parents opinion matters to you on who you date. does it?... (read in full...)
Neither of us is wiling to jump in first. So what do I do?
Q. I feel so pathetic coming to a website to blab about my life’s miseries to millions of strangers, but I made this account and I might as well go on with it. Well it all started last year in my Math class. I had this male teacher who was a ...
A. 4 November 2008: ohh wow this is a heavy situation. well i think that you should wait until after high school (if thats the grade level you are still in) and then make your decision. Why exactly do you friends and family dont like him? keep this in mind good luck ... (read in full...)
Best friend found a girl, but I love him !
Q. So ive known him for many years and ive liked him that entire time and we would flirt but we would deny liking eachother ive told him i liked him a couple of times and his reply would be that he didnt want to ruin our relationship because he ...
A. 4 November 2008: im very sorry about this and i know it must hurt. you are a very conciderate friend and i understand were you are coming from. but you shouldnt be mad at yourslelf that you havent sed anything sooner because telling someone that you are very close ... (read in full...)
How do I get her to like me?
Q. im trying to get this girl to like me, shes a year below me and im 16. i have met her once but we have been texting for a few weeks now. i think she think likes me a bit as well however the downfall is im not very good with women at all. could ...
A. 4 November 2008: hihi! i think the best way to get her to like you is to just be yourself. just be calm and take things slow. you dont have to change for her to like you. and if she doesnt like you for exactly who you are you deserve better... (read in full...)
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