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Can someone explain so that I can understand where he's coming from?

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Question - (5 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend told me that he doesn't want to stop loving me because I'm so amazing but he just doesn't feel the same. He said it's tearing him apart because he doesn't know what to do. I don't understand how he can't choose whether or not to like me still. Can anyone help explain so I can understand where he is coming from?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009):

Thanks to both of you...It's been a while since I even remembered I posted this. Anyway, he's long gone now and I've moved on. He's been with about 3 girls since we were together (it's been almost a year) but all were very short relationships. I think you were right when you said he was afraid to fall in love.

Thank you both!

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A female reader, xxhoplesslyhisxx United States +, writes (6 November 2008):

im not sure because i dont know him but i think he might be falling in love with you and might be scared cause he never felt this way before. and with being scared he wants to "run away" from the situation because he is conffused and doesnt want to get hurt

please keep me updated

good luck =)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008):

I think what your boyfriend is trying to tell you, but doesn't have the guts to say the truth is that he wants to call it a day.

He is trying to tell you that he still adores you as a person but does't think there is a future together. You best option is to ask him. Guys do and say wierd stuff when it comes to ending a reltioship. Tread carefully and don't get hurt, maybe you need to walk away before he breaks your heart.

good luck hun x

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