I'm finding it hard to think that the kind, attentive, wonderful man that I fell in love with has disappeared at the moment or even forever.
Q. I'm having problems in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been going out for 2 1/2 years in an LDR. My boyfriend has been working really hard lately, so much so that I haven't seen him since the end of September whereas we were seeing each ...
A. 1 November 2009: I think his behaviour is pretty odd, and you really need to talk to him about it. I get that he's busy at work, and I know when my boyfriend is working hard, he tends to be very remote and tired, but your boyfriends behaviour is just plain wierd! Y... (read in full...)
He was the one for me, maybe?
Q. Do you think it's possible to date someone for a year, decide they are absolutely and never will be the one, be totally, totally certain of it, bet your life on it certain, break up with them based on this certainty, start looking forward to really ...
A. 29 July 2009: I think you've got a case of 'the grass is greener on the other side' If you where sure that this guy wasn't for you, then why do you think differently now? I bet it's just because you've broken up & now you can't have him.... (read in full...)
Any advice for a 16yr old dating a 37yr old married man?
Q. I am 16 years old.. and my boyfriends is around 37 years old and he has 2 kids and he is also married.... He is my coach in table tennis when i was in high school, we bond together, we go out together as friends.... yet unfortunately, as the yime...
A. 1 July 2009: Honestly, I think you'd be better of without him. How much do you really have in common, and how can you relate to someone who is from a completely different generation?
Secondly - he is MARRIED. He may say he doesn't love his wife - so why hasn... (read in full...)
Why masturbate in front of them?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to masterbate in front of him, but i'm not really sure what to do. I don't really masterbate often because honestly i'm not that good a it. He is just so much better at pleasing me than I am at pleasing myself. Also I have ...
A. 1 July 2009: Guys do like this - they're very visual, and get turned on by watching things.
If you don't feel comforatble doing it, then don't, but if you just need some ideas - why not get him to buy you a small vibrator (you could even go shoping for one togt... (read in full...)
Confused by his actions and talk!
Q. Hey My boyfriend and i live far apart.We have been in sexual relation.He don't call me daily. If i give missed call , he immediatelly calls back and ask me if i have some problem. But once a week only he calls me late night and talk to me for hour...
A. 1 July 2009: If you have a long-distance relationship, it's normal that he'd want to explore having phone sex with you. (Which doesn't mean that you should go along with it if it makes you uncomfortable)
But if you're not happy with him not keeping in touch regu... (read in full...)
Left with the tattoo, but not him!
Q. My boyfriend and I dated for like about three years, about five months ago, we got matching tattoos. I got his initals and he got mine. We both got it on the back of our neck. Now we are broken up and I am trying to get over it but everytime I ...
A. 1 July 2009: It depends - if you split up acrimoniously and you're still good friends, then if it's not too painful, you could keep the tattoo to remind you of the good times you had together.
(Although bear in mind that new boyfriends might not be too happ... (read in full...)
My vagina hurts after sex
Q. I've been in my relationship for three years and my boyfriend is great! When we started having sex (two weeks into our relationship) it was good! There were no problems at all. For about a year now, everytime we have sex my vagina hurts after it...
A. 26 February 2009: Do you have any bleeding after sex/abnormal or offensive discharge, or anything else unusual down there? Maybe you should go see a gyno, to rule out anything that may be wrong. In the meantime, take it easy, and go for positions you find comfort... (read in full...)
Can you become ill from giving a woman oral sex?
Q. Can you become ill from giving a woman oral sex? i'm not talking about STD's, just curious cause i'm a bit of a hygiene freak so to speak....
A. 12 February 2009: I don't think so, unless she has an STD or other infection you should be fine. However, you could either use a dam, or ask her to wash before you have oral sex - I think that's perfectly reasonable.... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex..strange symptoms & pregnancy concerns!
Q. hi. im 17 years old and had unprotected sex 5 times in the last week (stupid thing to do i know). im due my period in two days . i am now experiencing -nausia-fatigue-cramps-pimples-light headaches-etc.....someone told me that it could be my hormo...
A. 11 February 2009: It could be that you do feel abit like this sometimes 'cos of hormones but 'cos you think you could be pregnant, you're noticing every tiny thing and panicking.
I have times when I feel sick, bloated, tired, moody etc - all classic symptoms of preg... (read in full...)
How can I make V-Day not an "acid test", but meaningful?
Q. I am so in a fog about Valentine's Day! Last weekend, I just felt so very close to my guy, though our relationship is not very well-defined. I looked at cards yesterday, but didn't buy any... yet. And chocolate, too, have a better idea about that, ...
A. 11 February 2009: If you're not sure where your relationship stands, I would choose a card that says something like 'to my valentine' instead of 'to my boyfriend/partner/other half'and with a message that is cute, without being too schmaltzy.
If you know what choc... (read in full...)
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