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How long is this empty feeling inside me going to last, after breaking up with by bf??

Q.   Me and my bf broke up a month ago, and I am so heart broken. We were on and off for 3 years (today would have been our 3 yrs anniversary) and this is the second time we've broken up for real. We broke up last year too for 8 months and then got back ...

A.   3 July 2008: To be honest, no one can tell you chick how long you are going to feel different. It may be a month, it might be 6 months, it might be a year. I was having a lot of trouble to get over my ex. It took me a year! One day i just realised i have to ... (read in full...)

I'm really nervous about my date and need some advice

Q.   Hello aunts. Its a long story so hold tight. Well first things first. I split up from my Ex of 3 years in August. Well he split up with me. Ever since then we were seeing eachother day and i had hope for us getting back together. That was ...

A.   26 June 2008: Hiya people. So i went last night and........i really enjoyed myself! :) as soon as i got there i was fine and he made me feel like i wasnt nervous (if that makes sense) and we had a cheeky kiss when i left! xxx... (read in full...)

Do you always bleed after the morning-after pill?

Q.   If you take the emergancy contraceptive pill do you always bleed? - because i havent....

A.   25 June 2008: Hi chick. I have had the emergency contraception and i didnt bleed after i had taken it. All it does is either stop an egg being released, delay ovulation or it might also stop a fertilised egg settling in your womb. It might make your periods ... (read in full...)

I feel i'm being pressured into sex.

Q.   hi there, i think im being pressured into sex! i mean im only young! and i have my periods and dont realy want too do it but im scared he will brake up with me i have asked him if he would mind if we didnt do it so soon and he went offline!...

A.   11 August 2007: sex is a massive commitment. your first time should be special. dont feel pressured into having sex when ur not ready it isnt worth it, wait until you find someone who respects the fact that you want to wait. it will mean so much more. dont let this ... (read in full...)

Is virginity important and how old were you all, when you lost it?

Q.   when is the average age to lose your virginity becuase most people these days are losing it younger and put you in a position where you think of how far you went with a boy. How old was you when you lost your virginity? Is virginity important? i am ...

A.   6 February 2007: There is no 'right age' to lose you virginity. However long it takes you to feel ready is the right time. I was 16 but wished i had waited until i was 17 when i met my bfriend who i am with now. But you cant turn back time...remember that! Dont ... (read in full...)

Is virginity important and how old were you all, when you lost it?

Q.   when is the average age to lose your virginity becuase most people these days are losing it younger and put you in a position where you think of how far you went with a boy. How old was you when you lost your virginity? Is virginity important? i am ...

A.   6 February 2007: There is no 'right age' to lose you virginity. However long it takes you to feel ready is the right time. I was 16 but wished i had waited until i was 17 when i met my boyfriend who I am with now. But you cant turn back time...remember that! Dont ... (read in full...)

Our relationship is great! It's his mate - he hates our relationship!

Q.   i've been with my boyfriend for a while. We are really happy together. The problem is his friend. He is extremely hateful toward our relationship. He tells people my boyfriend just wanted a girlfriend so he could get sex and I'm probably giving ...

A.   24 December 2006: Dont let it get to you, the same thing happened to me!!! This guy liked going out and hooking up with one girl for one night, thats it. He got his own way and me and my boyfriend recently split up. :( The only advice i can give is when your ... (read in full...)

SITE NEWS: Happy Xmas to everyone, from DearCupid!

Q.   It has been a busy year here at DearCupid! We celebrated our 2nd birthday in November and had our 20,000th question and 70,000th answer published... Thanks to everyone who contributes to the site: Those who ask questions, those who answer, and ...

A.   22 December 2006: whoops made a mistake, start again!!! Merry Christmas everyone, Have a good one!!! xxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

SITE NEWS: Happy Xmas to everyone, from DearCupid!

Q.   It has been a busy year here at DearCupid! We celebrated our 2nd birthday in November and had our 20,000th question and 70,000th answer published... Thanks to everyone who contributes to the site: Those who ask questions, those who answer, and ...

A.   22 December 2006: Merry Christmas E... (read in full...)

Last year at xmas, my married boss and i got together. Part of me wants it to happen again, but I know it's wrong! Help!

Q.   Hi there... I posted nearly 12 months ago... last year xmas time, me and one of my bosses were getting on really well, flirting and everything, we both didnt think it would go any further as he is 13 years older than me and married. Anyh...

A.   20 December 2006: Dont do it, it just isnt fair on his family...really!!!! Would u like it if someone did it to you!!! Fight temptation, i doubt u will listen to this advice but i dnt like cheaters, and people who mess up families!!! Please dont do it! Go out and ... (read in full...)

I have pubic hair problems!

Q.   Im only 14, but Im really paranoid about my pubic hair. Ive got loads. Should I just trim it with scissors? I cant talk to my mum about it. Will she be mad if i get rid of it? Please Help!!!...

A.   18 December 2006: I agree its up to you what you do with your body. Your mother doesnt need to know! x ... (read in full...)

My gf is great, but her ex has started calling her b/c he's upset about their split. How do I handle this?

Q.   Ive known my girlfriend for bout a year now and i was crazy about her from the moment i saw her. She liked me to but she was going out with somebody at the time. She eventually broke up with him and went with me. She broke up with him bout 2 months...

A.   18 December 2006: A tricky one. Its great that you trust her, and she obviously has nothing to hide as she is being so open about it to you! You sound like a genuine guy, dont be scared to share your feelings with her. Let her know how much you trust her, but also ... (read in full...)

Does he want me back and is he realizing that he let something good slip away? Any advice?

Q.   My ex and i broke up about a month and a half ago. Him and i were talking to nite and there was alot of flirting going on between us. Like when were talking we were holding hands and weaving our fingers though each and others we hugged alot l...

A.   11 December 2006: Girl, the exact same thing is hapening to me right now. I split up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago and he does exactly the same to me. How confusing is this? Its like we cant move on! And i dont even want to, i bet you dont either! I think you should ... (read in full...)

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