Will he be put off by my telling him I am a virgin?
Q. I am seeing this guy, he is my first proper boyfriend and we have decided to have sex, should I tell him I am a virgin, or do you think this might put him off. He has had a lot of experience and I am scared incase he will be able to tell because I ...
A. 3 October 2008: When engaging in sex, he'll find out anyways, and besides, if he knows you're a virgin, he'll be happier knowing that you are clean, unless you go around sharing needles, but i don't know you well enough.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't have sex with me!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months and we do have a happy relationship, but my boyfriend still won't have sex with me! I have tried to be alluring and sexy for him but he just never seems interested in me. I'm still a virgin and i feel ...
A. 3 October 2008: Well either he is gay and he is just using your relationship to make others think he's a macho kinda guy. Or, he has enough respect for you and your body, that he doesn't want to risk you getting knocked up. He may be worried about the consequences ... (read in full...)
How can I get a guy to ask me out?
Q. How I can make guy ask me out?.. he likes me and i like him! but I'm really shy to talk to ask him out! we are gonna see tomorrow! I really need some helpppp! ...
A. 24 September 2008: Why should you wait for him to ask? You ask him out! You know you might regret it if you don't. Bite the bullet and just get it over with. Either he'll say yes and all is good, or he'll say no and you can ask to still be friends. It'll be ... (read in full...)
I am having a very hard time trusting him because twice he has tried to cheat on me, any advice?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 2 years recently I am having a hard time trusting him because twice he has tried to cheat on me. I forgave him because he said nothing will ever happen again it was all online conversations and he will never do ...
A. 24 September 2008: Save the chat logs, and take him to divorce court. Use the logs to get full custody. Do what ever is best for that child. Once a cheater always a cheater. And even if he hasn't cheated yet, just tried, that just means he hasn't had the right ... (read in full...)
He comes from a rich family, I come from a poor one...
Q. My boyfriend and I come from very different backgrounds. He comes from the perfect family, they helped him buy his home, he is still on their insurance, he is supported in all he wants to do. I come from a very different background. I get no ...
A. 24 September 2008: Are you in this for love or money? Ask yourself that question. Do you want to be with him cause you love him or because you are a gold digger?... (read in full...)
Would it be right to leave my daughter to go abroad with my girlfriend for work? But would in turn be right to stay and leave the girl I love?
Q. Hello Cupids, I have a problem. A extremely life changing problem. My girlfriend is moving to Australia for work next month and has asked me to go with her. We've been seeing each other for 2 years and we are deeply in love. But the prob...
A. 24 September 2008: This answer shouldn't be that hard to answer. If you have full custody of the child, it's a no brainer, go with your girlfriend and take the kid with you. If you do not have full custody, then you either get it or don't go. You are a father with the ... (read in full...)
Do guys lie to other guys about their sexual encounters with women?
Q. Ok, here's a great question, I think. Do guys lie to other guys about their sexual encounters with women? For example, if 2 guys like the same gal and the one guy has sex with her, does he tell the other guy that the sex was great, or that it ...
A. 19 September 2008: Of course we lie. We are men, and we feel the need to appear better than other males, especially sexually. You might get ready to sleep with a guy and he prematurely ejaculates all over your stomach with his 2 inch unit before he has a chance to do ... (read in full...)
I caught my boyfriend looking at VERY young girls online!
Q. so here's my problem I am 22 and my boyfriend 26 have been together for almost a year and we recently moved in together. I was on the computer the other day and I saw that he had been looking at sites such as veryounggirls.com and others related....
A. 18 September 2008: He is looking at modeling sites? Thus far, he is doing nothing illegal, even if he is masturbating to their photos, perfectly legal. What you need to do is see if he is using another program on your computer, perhaps a file sharing program like ... (read in full...)
He went down on me and wanted nothing in return - is this normal?
Q. Me and this guy that I've only met twice have hooked up each time we've been together while at a friend's house. Each time, he's gone down on me, but afterwards it didn't seem like he wanted anything in return. Does that seem wierd to anyone? Why ...
A. 18 September 2008: Blow and hand jobs are over in less than a minute, sometimes. With women however, a guy can go down a woman and be there for several minutes, half-hour to an hour if he's got some water nearby to keep salivary glands intact. It gives a man a sense ... (read in full...)
How long should you wait before you tell someone you love them?
Q. hello, i just have a question really as you know i havestarted seeing a lad 1 year and 37 days younger than me. my question is how long in peoples opinion should you wait before you tell someone you love them? please give me some advice on ...
A. 18 September 2008: Tell them, ASAP! You wait too long and they'll be wanting someone else, thinking you aren't interested in furthering the relationship. I know from experience that waiting too long will have you regretting it for a long time.... (read in full...)
He couldn't stay hard for a minute without it slipping out. What's his problem?
Q. Last night I tried to have sex with a guy who I really like. Every time he tried to get it up he couldn't. He went down on me which was good. He held me all night, but when he tried he couldnt stay hard for a minute without it slipping out. I was ...
A. 18 September 2008: Practice. I think he needs to feel more comfortable and his lil willy is a bit shy. Plenty of oral and "hands on" sessions should make Mr.Winky perk up more often and more consistently. If all else fails, a half tab of Viagra should do the trick ... (read in full...)
She hasn't spoken to me or returned any of my calls since she found the porn mag!! What can I do?
Q. My girlfriend is an ardent feminist who strongly advocates that all women should be totally independent, financially and otherwise. I agree with her but difficulties have arisen lately. Two weeks ago, she found a Playboy magazine in my room and went ...
A. 18 September 2008: Go to her, even if she keeps the door closed, she can still hear you. Apologize up and down. Beg for forgiveness. And tell her it's pure fantasy. Suggest that you two produce your own photo and video sessions. Then she will be more than pleased to ... (read in full...)
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