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writes:Last night I tried to have sex with a guy who I really like. Every time he tried to get it up he couldn't. He went down on me which was good. He held me all night, but when he tried he couldnt stay hard for a minute without it slipping out.I was disappointed but I want to keep the relationship going. what can i say to him for the first time after lastnight. Should i call him first? What is his problem? I know its not me? Reply to this Question
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reader, WiredReds +, writes (18 September 2008):
Practice. I think he needs to feel more comfortable and his lil willy is a bit shy. Plenty of oral and "hands on" sessions should make Mr.Winky perk up more often and more consistently. If all else fails, a half tab of Viagra should do the trick until he can rise to the occasion better on his own.
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reader, CNKlives +, writes (17 September 2008):
There are lots of reasons this could happen to a guy...alcohol, nervous, tired...I would just chalk it up to the first time awkwardness and try again..if it continues then I would GENTLY mention it...maybe you just make him really nervous. :)
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