Should I give them the money despite working so hard to save it to make myself more financially stable?
Q. Hi I'm facing a dilemma here. After leaving an abusive relationship of five years (which also ruined me financially; also during this time the situation was so unstable I was moving from job to job, state to state and just handing over my paychecks) ...
A. 26 February 2010: CaringGuy is right. you're mother should NOT be blackmailing you. and you are pretty much supporting yourself by buying your own food, buss ticket and so on. if they are having money problems they need to assess the situation, and not waste $3000 ... (read in full...)
Could you consider what happened to me as rape? I never actually told him to stop.....
Q. Saturday night I went out with some friends from work. After the bars, we went over to one of their houses for an after party. At about 4:35 I went to hang out with one of the guys alone. (No intention of sex, just wanted to make out). We were d...
A. 17 February 2010: if he was sober and you weren't you can argue rape as ur in no fit state to give a concious answer. but "pancakes rule" is right, it'll be hard to prove if u try.
anyway i suggest counciling, or if you'd just like to talk to someone who might unde... (read in full...)
I'm terrified of losing my virginity plus I don't like my body... Help!!!
Q. hellooo this is a question for girls only , im scared of losing my 'v' , Ive Been seeing this boy for about a year now on and off and he is 18 and ready to lose his 'v' but i worried about losing mine ? i reali dont know what to do i feel and know ...
A. 8 February 2010: first off, if he says he's ready to lose his virginity to you then he in all likely already likes ur body, covered with clothes or not. and if it really worries you that much, just turn the lights off the first time round. as to if it hurts or ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble trying to figure out my sexuality...
Q. I'm 18 and for a long time i've been trying to figure out my sexuality. It's a little confusing and frankly i totally believe that only you know what you want, but i would still love some advice on it i guess. so i do think that guys are cute, but ...
A. 17 November 2009: ok frankly my friend's opinion didn't sway me at all, it just got me to actually think. ok so ya i do think about the walking in the sunset with a girl and i do feel like i've given guys a fair chance. i'm not like trying to convince anyone of ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 17 November 2009: well the people on here seem to be giving u pretty much the same advice as me but i'd still like to help if i can :)
first off, there are a FEW relationships that survive long distance, but it takes a lot of work, commitment and trust. at the mome... (read in full...)
My mental illness broke us up, and I want her back! do I have a chance? Is there a way?
Q. I Dated my ex, the love of my life (I am sure)for 4 years, but my bipolar disorder (diagnosed) ruined our relationship (paranoia, delusions, rage, hypersexuality, and general mania). I am now medicated (lithium), and well. She has a new boyfriend, ...
A. 12 November 2009: i can understand her reluctance, but your choice has to be for you first...if it really bothers you that she won't tell her bf that you two have been hanging out then you should do something to fix it. let her have time sure, but don't let her keep ... (read in full...)
My mental illness broke us up, and I want her back! do I have a chance? Is there a way?
Q. I Dated my ex, the love of my life (I am sure)for 4 years, but my bipolar disorder (diagnosed) ruined our relationship (paranoia, delusions, rage, hypersexuality, and general mania). I am now medicated (lithium), and well. She has a new boyfriend, ...
A. 3 November 2009: I know...but you have to remember that you weren't being treated...in a way you lost her trust. You just have to gain it back....it'll take time. Trust isn't an immediate thing. ... (read in full...)
My mental illness broke us up, and I want her back! do I have a chance? Is there a way?
Q. I Dated my ex, the love of my life (I am sure)for 4 years, but my bipolar disorder (diagnosed) ruined our relationship (paranoia, delusions, rage, hypersexuality, and general mania). I am now medicated (lithium), and well. She has a new boyfriend, ...
A. 3 November 2009: well if she knows you still have feelings for her then there's not really much more you can do. if she's afraid that your being bipolar will mess things up then prove to her that it won't (although i really do not condone you trying to prove it to ... (read in full...)
Why does no guy want to get to know me?
Q. Why do I feel as if no guy really likes me? Its like I am not good enough or pretty enough for a guy to like me. Its hurtfull because every guy I like turns me down(not that I a couple at once it is through a period of time) What do I do, could it ...
A. 3 November 2009: don't put yourself down love...i don't know if you're just going up and asking them or if you're hanging out with them first but if it's the former then instead of going on the hunt to try and find a guy, be happy with yourself, make a life that ... (read in full...)
Does he love me or is just afraid to be alone?
Q. I broke up with my bf about a month ago for a week because i thought that i was too young to be in such a commited relationship. after that week or so though we got back together and are now dating long distance. i found out when we got back ...
A. 3 November 2009: well the only person that can say for certain is him...but guys are different from us females...if they hurt they may do stupid things like try to have as many one night stands to prove that they don't need you, or to try and forget they do for a ... (read in full...)
A few days ago he sweeps me off my feet. Now he wants to be friends. What happened?
Q. I posted this yesterday but gave everyone the wrong idea by using the word 'intimacy' - I didn't mean sex, I was just trying to describe the feeling of closeness we had, as though we'd been together for a long time... I don't know what happened!! ...
A. 3 November 2009: well i can't say this goes for all cases, but i have a personal experience like that, except we actually did get together, and trust me it is excrutiatingly difficult to break it off with someone that you're friends with. if he says he's attracted ... (read in full...)
Should I accept my boyfriend's continued friendship with his ex?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend is currently friends with his ex. However, they were NOT friends when we started dating. They dated for 2 or so years, and that was a couple years ago. But when our relationship really started to advance, a few months in, she ...
A. 31 October 2009: well you can't stop him from being friends with his ex but if it makes you that uncomfortable then you need to make him understand that it bothers you and the same thing has happened in the past so you don't trust it when she says she just wants to ... (read in full...)
Don't play with my heart!!!
Q. i love a korran's girl but i don't know how to say to her. Onece i tryed to say her but she refussed to be gf and bf i relized she is serious so i told her why i love so much and i will do evrything for u but she didn't say anything after that i ...
A. 31 October 2009: being loved is an amazing thing. you can't foce your feelings on her, you can just give them. if she says no you have to accept it. but the thing about her playing with you don't let her. you have a right to be happy to and she shouldn't use you to ... (read in full...)
If I leave him he has no one else!
Q. Hi, I'm in need of some help,I have been with my boyfriend for the last 3 years, and i now feel like i'm stuck because if I leave him he has no one else. this is because he changed universitys (to the one im at)and has made no other friends. H...
A. 31 October 2009: that was his choice to change universities. you can't blame yourself for your feelings changing. it's not fair to either of you to stay together if you don't have feelings for him. nore is the fact that he doesn't know anyone. he just has to ... (read in full...)
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