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Things were getting serious -- until her ex FWB introduced himself

Q.   Dear Cupid I have been dating a great women for three years and we are making plans to buy a house move in with each other and open joint savings and cheque accounts. We have been open with each other and neither of us have any skeletons in our ...

A.   16 March 2013: I think I also agree with Tisha. I hope that it works out for you though.... (read in full...)

Is he being friendly, does he like me, or does he just want to sleep with me?

Q.   One of the guys in my class is really nice and friendly, he keeps asking me to leave my hair out and always compliments me when I do. The other day, I had my hair out, and he complimented on it when we were walking down the hall together. His ...

A.   16 March 2013: I have a guy friend like that, and I've known him for a long time, about 3 years and he's very, very nice and always pays for dinner, always pays for the cinema tickets, walks me home, buys me gifts, cooks for me and so on, and he's never tried ... (read in full...)

A really nice guy - does he want something more??

Q.   Hi, I have a friend who is just super-nice to me and that is what is bothering me. He is just so nice. He's a friend, and we've been friends for about 2 years now and we met through mutual friends. A few months ago, he relocated near my area, ...

A.   15 February 2013: Hi everyone, It's been over a year since I posted and the guy is as nice as ever, and does the same things as I mentioned in the original post. He's such a caring guy. I asked him if he wants to date me, but he said that he's asexual and likes me f... (read in full...)

Husband obsessed with teenage girls, trying to be ok now but I feel depressed I keep getting images in my head

Q.   I am 28 next month, my husband is 30, we've been together 13 years, we have 2 children and he has constanly cheated on me!, all of them much younger, mostly teenagers!, I have gone through his phone and emails and facebook and found out there's ...

A.   19 January 2013: Hi, other people have given you good advice, you just need to leave him. I hope you find a more decent man and I hope for the best for you.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has been using casual hook up sex sites and I cant seem to get over this! Help!

Q.   Dear all. Please help. I can't sleep as I found out my BF has been using casual sex websites to hook up with different girls for no strings sex. I feel sick. I have been very intimate with him and was deeply in love with him. We have had a rough ...

A.   24 August 2012: I agree with Karlos5021, not much to add.... (read in full...)

My husband wants nothing to do with sex

Q.   My husband has very low testosterone and does not use the hormone replacement patches or creme prescribed. He has no desire for sex and does not even want to want to have sex. I wonder if it is a psychological problem because of his being molested ...

A.   5 June 2012: Hi, There is something called asexuality, and there are people who just aren't interested in sex at all. Here's the website http://www.asexuality.org/en/ They say it's 1% of the population.... (read in full...)

Don't most men like to touch their girlfriend's boobs?

Q.   Is it normal for a guy to like touching his girlfriend's boobs? I mean, in most relationships, is it normal? Cause my girlfriend apparently don't think so, and she forbade me from touching them after awhile. I used to touch them like once a week, ...

A.   3 June 2012: It's normal in my experience. My boyfriends have always played with mine, almost daily and I'm not big-boobed, I'm on the small side. In fact, I have mine being touched. I think is depends on the girl - I think most girls love it but a few won'... (read in full...)

I'm confused! what do men want in dating?

Q.   Can someone help me out here, please! I'm divorced had been with my husband for 10 years and have been single for 18 months, not looking to get into anything that will suffocate me as my marriage did. I've dated two guys in the last 6 months, well ...

A.   27 May 2012: I hear what you say, and I've recently had 2 female friends break up with their boyfriends for exactly that reason! They say they are afraid of commitment, and they were worried that the girls were able to stand on the own feet. I get the feel... (read in full...)

Before we dated she revealed that she used to meet up with strangers for sex. I'm disgusted. Am I being too judgemental?

Q.   I have been dating a girl for the last 6 months. Last week she told me that she has used internet sites to meet guys for sex. This was before we dated and has not done it since. I am having a problem accepting it. It was not my business, I ...

A.   21 January 2012: Hi, Well, there are a few female friends of mine and acquaintances who from time to time have sex with stangers off the web, or one-night stands with people they don't know. It's not as uncommon as people may think. My advice is talk to her about... (read in full...)

A really nice guy - does he want something more??

Q.   Hi, I have a friend who is just super-nice to me and that is what is bothering me. He is just so nice. He's a friend, and we've been friends for about 2 years now and we met through mutual friends. A few months ago, he relocated near my area, ...

A.   8 January 2012: I hear what you say. Thing is, it bothers me that I find the whole thing to be 'too good to be true'. Friendship is two-way i agree, and he always insists on taking care of me, though when I buy him gifts back he accepts them and tell me how grat... (read in full...)

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