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writes:Is it normal for a guy to like touching his girlfriend's boobs? I mean, in most relationships, is it normal? Cause my girlfriend apparently don't think so, and she forbade me from touching them after awhile. I used to touch them like once a week, but no more now. Much help will be appreciated :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay thanks for the help everyone. I know what to do now :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012): YouWish got it just right. There's a time and place for all things intimate. For example you wouldn't kiss her on the lips out of the blue, while she's talking or when's she's focusing on a task right? That's just annoying. Same with touching. You have to create the right environment FIRST. We have to be in the mood or put in the mood to want intimacy. Otherwise it's not romantic, random, and just a turn off. Like a child pulling on our hair, you're just in the way. Use some charm and skill.
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reader, PotF Fan  +, writes (3 June 2012):
 It is absolutely normal for a man to want to touch a woman's breasts. Obviously they should do it in the correct environment and situation with a consenting partner. There is nothing abnormal about it, its natural. It is weird that she thinks its abnormal. The questions that come to my mind are
Did you focus on her breasts more than her? because that is abnormal and never a good thing.
Is she religious? an odd question admittedly, however religion does color peoples opinions on these matters to varying degrees.
generally however I have to say you are not in the wrong. In a normal relationship breast touching is common so I don't see why she would say otherwise
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 June 2012):
 How long have you dated? How intimate are you with each other?
And in what "situation" do you touch her boobs? Is it a wonk-wonk as you walk past her or on the couch or is it part of foreplay/making out?
Maybe she feels like you are too focused on her boobs and not her?
Or if sex is something you aren't having yet, maybe you are turning her on in ways that she isn't comfortable with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd to add on, I only meet her like once a week due to certain restrictions(families and all). So for about 3 weeks, every week I met her I touched her once. And she told me she was afraid I was in the relationship only for the sexual part, hence she stopped me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@iAmHereToHelpYou So it isn't abnormal? Thanks for clarifying.
@YouWish Normally we'll cuddle and kiss and all before I actually ask her, but she finds it weird that I like to touch her boobs. She says that other guys can control their hormones and not touch their gfs' boobs, and why not me? FYI I only touch them once a week.
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reader, White_Lilly +, writes (3 June 2012):
 It's normal in my experience. My boyfriends have always played with mine, almost daily and I'm not big-boobed, I'm on the small side. In fact, I have mine being touched.
I think is depends on the girl - I think most girls love it but a few won't.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (3 June 2012):
 Do you just walk around groping them at odd times?? If so, that's not cool. Women don't go from zero to grope like men do. If you're walking into a room and groping her for the hell of it, of course she's going to stop you.
You shouldn't touch them until you've warmed her up passionately. Lots of kissing, cuddling, go for her "kindling" areas first. Her neck, back, shoulders, hair, face, arms, etc. Get the point?
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (3 June 2012):
 Breasts are a major erogenous zone for women, so it is PERFECTLY NORMAL for her to want them fondled and caressed, and obviously for you to co-operate in this! Pleasure all round.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@iAmHereToHelpYou She says it seems wrong to do that in a relationship. Oh and I only touch her when we're alone. But when I touched her I asked her whether it felt good and she said yes, so I assume it's comfortable for her. She said that in a normal relationship, the guys will not touch their girlfriends' boobs, so ours is abnormal. I'm really bewildered.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@iAmHereToHelpYou She says it seems wrong to do that in a relationship. Oh and I only touch her when we're alone. But when I touched her I asked her whether it felt good and she said yes, so I assume it's comfortable for her
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