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I wish I had the life that my ex does

Q.   i feel lonely at times..my ex and i broke up and we had a year of no contact..i still had feelings for him so i contacted him and we have been talking for almost a year now. I make sure if we are on the phone--i sound nice, happy and busy most of ...

A.   31 May 2010: He's out doing what you should be doing. Living his life.... (read in full...)

Is this how scorpio men show love?

Q.   Please help! I have been dating a scorpio guy on and off for two years and I am still lost. At the time we met in May 2008, we had just left our respective partners. He told me he wasn't ready to get serious because his last one lasted five ...

A.   31 May 2010: Zodiac signs =/= Valid reasoning for behavior. If you don't like what he does, it doesn't matter if he does it out of love or not, he isn't for you.... (read in full...)

Help my girlfriend cheated on me and I need to know what to do I'm so sad!!!!

Q.   I have been dating this girl for 9 months. I am 16 years old. she is 15. i love her so much as she says she loves me just as much. at the beginning of our relationship she would talk to lots of guys and i would get jealous and tell her not to....

A.   31 May 2010: I read the original question, and I don't need to read the rest to know what to say. Break up with her Get over her Move on Eat gummy bears but save the green ones for me, ok?... (read in full...)

Could the problem be that he's gay?

Q.   I saw a guy recently and first time in the bedroom he refused to have penetrative sex or oral sex.Up until then lots of cuddles kisses.Could he be gay?He wanted oral from me all the time.He is from Syria but 44 and travelling around Europe for20 ...

A.   31 May 2010: Maybe he's looking for a more romantic; less sex oriented relationship?... (read in full...)

A tough love triangle

Q.   hey everyone! zeelyle here. i have a situation and i would really appreciate some advice. see theres this girl that im totally in love with and im positive that she is into me too but she is always dating someone else. there is an age difference o...

A.   31 May 2010: That's not a triangle, that's the whole dating your friends ex deal. Just decide weather you care what other people think about who you date, and you will have your answer.... (read in full...)

I broke up with him, and want him to fight to get me back

Q.   i thought my boyfriend was cheating on me he denies it. and i still broke up with him. me and my boyfriend has a on again off again relationship . we just cant seem to stay away from each other .. my boyfriend isnt an emotional person but i want him...

A.   31 May 2010: Don't throw the ball away if you don't want someone to catch the rebound. Really, grow up, mature men aren't going to beg for you, they will realize there is someone else, someone better, and will move on.... (read in full...)

Should he be saying this if he's not my boyfriend?

Q.   Well, me and this guy have been talking for about two weeks. He's really sweet, we get along really good. I like him a lot. We constantly text, all the time. He keeps the conversation flowing asks me questions. We have hung out a few times, we've ...

A.   31 May 2010: Well you are friends with benefits, what can you expect? ;) No, don't try and deny it, you make out with him even though your not going out, he clearly wants a less open relationship. Or he's just playful.... (read in full...)

After I masturbate, its hard to pee!

Q.   I'm a girl, after I masturbate it's hard to pee...Eventually once I do I have to go a lot. Is this normal? If not, I'm too scared to tell my parents. Please give me an answer....

A.   31 May 2010: As a male, I'm not too sure about female genitalia, but from the way it works with a male, there is a valve in the penis that makes sure when he ejaculates that no pee gets mixed in with the seaman, as it is acidic and would kill the sperm. I think ... (read in full...)

I don't have an hymen even though I'm not an athelete.

Q.   hii!iam not an athlete..but i dont hav an hymen layer..i found this when me and my boyfriend had sex..from that point of time he is suspecting me a lot..!!i was a virgin when i slept with him..but he is not trusting me b'coz of the absence of hymen ...

A.   31 May 2010: The hymen is actually very easy to break, just riding on a horse too hard can break it. Are you crying because you don't have a hymen, or because your boyfriend doesn't trust you?... (read in full...)

We broke up, got back together but he doesn't treat me right now1

Q.   My boyfriend and I just got back together,after a two month break. I don't drive,and sometimes it's hard to hang out. This Friday,I asked him if we were hanging out, and he responds with, "Umm I dont know?".."What are we going to do?" As if it ma...

A.   31 May 2010: For starters, off and on relationships never work. He likely doesn't feel the same about you after the breakup, either. ... (read in full...)

How do you break up with a "nice guy"?

Q.   I have fallen out of love with my boyfriend. he is a wonderful person, kind, considerate I just dont love him any more. My question is how do you break up with someone who has done nothing wrong? Iv only ever been in messy breakups where i have ...

A.   31 May 2010: Does he deserve to be in a relationship where you won't love him as much as he loves you?... (read in full...)

Could he be losing interest?

Q.   Ok i've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, When we first got together he used to not be able to keep his hands off me and we used to kiss all the time but recentlly he just isnt really kissing me i've asked him about this and he just ...

A.   30 May 2010: He has become so used to the monotone of your relationship. This likely stems from a lack of spice or flare thrown in every now and then. The reason he is still with you is because in the monotony of being in your relationship he has subconsciously ... (read in full...)

How do I handle the feelings I have for my friend?

Q.   I think I'm falling for my friend, or actually I may have already... It's so weird, usually when I have crushes it doesn't last long its just like a couple weeks and then when they get a girlfriend I get over it. But my friend has a girlfriend for a ...

A.   30 May 2010: You should ask him out. The worst he can do is say no. If you want to do it in a round about sort of way, just talk about it like its nothing and joke about it, to study his reaction. If he seems open to the idea, then go ahead, if not... well it's ... (read in full...)

Can oral sex be negociated, or will it drive us apart?

Q.   Well, I'm not sure where to start. I am very in love with my boyfriend and we have the best laughter together. Everything is good except.. He doesn't seem to care at all whether I orgasm or not. He refuses to give oral, and we've talked about it ...

A.   30 May 2010: I'm pretty sure that you can have an orgasm without oral... infact I know you can because their is nothing that oral has to do with it. Secondly, you need to really consider weather having an orgasm is a want or a need. Once you've decided that... (read in full...)

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