Swallow or not? Pros and cons please!
Q. Ok, this area REALLY worries me - Blow-jobs!! Firstly, do you have to swallow after giving a blow-job? Secondly, would anyone think less of you if you didn't? What is it like? And finally, is it actually a good thing to do?...
A. 10 December 2007: Hey there babe, there are also different positions in which you can give blowjobs. Lying down, standing up, kneeling, etc. The easiest for your first blowjob would probably having him pressed again a wall with his back to it, and you on your knees ... (read in full...)
I am too young to feel depressed, aren't I? What can I do?
Q. please help recently i have been going through mental break down and been becoming very depressed i am only 14 and i really am too young for the depression, i am feeling the reasons why i have been depressed is i had a dream on mond...
A. 2 December 2007: Spontanaity can be the key to happiness, clear your mind, get plenty of sleep, don't worry about everything especially minor things about being excited about christmas - it's nothing. And if you feel that you are, it's not a tragedy, nothing to ... (read in full...)
How can I confirm to his wife he is having an affair with me without anybody knowing it came from me?
Q. I am having an affair with a married man who doesn't love his wife any more but loves his children. He thinks he needs to stay in the marraiage just 4 the kids. His wife thinks he is having an affair and asks if he his having an affair but he won't...
A. 2 December 2007: Suggestion: An anonymous letter? If you have thought this over, made your decision, go through with it. She deserves to know, but it's a tricky situation as the children need to know that their father will be there. Is the wife the type to try ... (read in full...)
How can I make a girl laugh without trying too hard??
Q. I've never had a girlfriend but I'm building up my confidence thanks to some counselling. I just have a set back. Every time I ask what girls like in a guy they said 2 things, 1 - Confidence 2 Someone who can make them laugh I'm starting to im...
A. 2 December 2007: To be honest babe, some people are naturally funny and some of them aren't. The thing is, that question 'what girls like,' is so difficult that they tend to answer what everyone else answers. Instead of someone who 'makes them laugh', it normally ... (read in full...)
What makes a man choose one women over another??
Q. As a woman, it may seem strange to pose this question, but here goes. Suppose a man is torn between two women, both of whom he likes and even loves and appreciates in different ways. What would make up his decision to go for one or the other? (...
A. 2 December 2007: I know that men appreciate originality, but can also be scared by it. I would say that any influences you make should be discrete, as sneaky as possible. The bad route to take would be seduction, he might choose you over her but you'll find he has a ... (read in full...)
Condoms really hurt me, is this normal??
Q. My problem is that when me and my boyfriend use condoms, they really hurt me. Extra fine ones don't seem to, but I'm worried about them ripping or something. Please tell me: 1. If this is normal 2. If it's happened to you 3. The reason for it 4....
A. 2 December 2007: Thankyou for your answers. What you said, troubledtoomuch, sounds exactly the same as my problem. I've discovered that extra fine condoms don't hurt/hurt as much.
We have a lot of lubrication so I might seek professional advice, thankyou thou... (read in full...)
My bf wants me to have sex with him next weekend...please help asap.
Q. I am 12 years old and my boyfriend is 15. He told me the other night he wanted to have sex. I was playing around and said yeah ok then he was like do i need to bring condoms. I was like yeah then we didnt do it but still he wants to next weekend. ...
A. 1 December 2007: Sweetness... I'm guessing you can't tell him straight, but you really must not sleep with him. Age 14 is way to young to lose your virginity, age 12 is just ridiculous. Clearly you aren't ready either, and I understand that, perhaps you should t... (read in full...)
Am I rushing into sex??
Q. I have only known my boyfriend for two months,and we only got together a month ago. I am a virgin but he's not. I really love him,and i would have sex with him if he asked me. Am i rushing into things?...
A. 1 December 2007: I hate to say it sweethart but I'm guessing it's what you're expecting. I lost my virginity at 14, never regretted it, however it makes an enormous difference if the guy is a virgin or not. He isn't, so can you be sure that he isn't just going... (read in full...)
Myself, my wife and her sister
Q. My wife wants her sister to sleep with us , she said she would love me to make love with her.... we have always been close with each other....
A. 1 December 2007: Most people are going to think that's dodgy, including me, I wouldn't go through with it. If she and her sister are having sexual relations I'm sure you know that it's incest, it's illegal, and it's disgusting. If she just wanted you to sleep with ... (read in full...)
He is my perfect man...except his penis is too small...should I overlook this??
Q. I dated John while I was in college about 10 years ago. He was gorgeous, intelligent, creative, ambitious.... everything you could ask for. The only problem was the size of his penis. Everything leading up to sex was mind blowing,but I was always ...
A. 1 December 2007: You sound like you like this man very much. May I suggest, being highly sexual, you should try a sex toy to satisfy yourself? As I'm sure you know there are other ways of satisfying sexually, not just intercourse. My personal opinion is to keep this ... (read in full...)
Is it gay to watch gay porn?
Q. is it gay to watch gay porn...
A. 1 December 2007: I'm wondering the same thing, I found gay porn on my brother's computer and he's never been in a relationship until recently, with someone called Rachel.... (read in full...)
We can't communicate because she's scared I will get mad.
Q. My gf and i are having communication issues and it's because shes told me things and ive gotten mad. It's because she tells me way after it happens and she gets afraid because she has an abusive father and stepfather so she is afraid to make me ...
A. 1 December 2007: You need to refresh the layer of trust between the two of you. Do this by: - Telling her you'll protect her - Assuring her to let you know if something is bothering her - Open up to her, it's likely that she'll reflect this attitiude Pleas... (read in full...)
Poll question. How old were you when you lost your virginity?
Q. Hey would like to know how old were you when you lost your virginity and also did you tell your parents about it or not till later? How were you sure it was the right person?...
A. 1 December 2007: I was 14, my parents aren't aware. What's the point in worrying about this babe? Go for it, be spontaneous, I don't see why people regret it. I definately didn't. Be aware that if he's not a virgin, it might not be such a good idea. Also if you know ... (read in full...)
Not sure where I stand after drunken sex with one of my friends/crush.
Q. Recently, when I was drunk, I had 'sex' with one of my friends that I really liked. I was a virgin before this and so it was so painful for me that we stopped relatively quickly. I guess though that in the short time my hymen ripped because there ...
A. 1 December 2007: Hey Sweetheart, Did you inspect the condom? Was there semen on the inside? Was there semen on the outside? If you stopped quickly, he might not even have come. They say communication is the key in every relationship, and believe me it ... (read in full...)
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