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female
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writes:Recently, when I was drunk, I had 'sex' with one of my friends that I really liked. I was a virgin before this and so it was so painful for me that we stopped relatively quickly. I guess though that in the short time my hymen ripped because there was some blood on the sheets, which i presume means that i lost my virginity even though it didn't last - is that right?We spent the rest of the night cuddling, kissing and comforting me. The next day he continued to hold my hand, stroke my hair and kiss me etc when his mum and my other friend who had stayed over weren't there. Though im really confused about where i stand as he is kind of dating this girl who lives in another country, and when I mentioned about me not being able to have him because of her- he appeared really distressed but he never actually gave me any real indication. Im also really scared about the chance of me being pregnant even though i saw the condom the next morning when i was sober.Im so confused and scared - is there any reason to be or am i being stupid? xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): Hondy,
You did want you wanted to do at the time. Wether or not this evolves into something more depends on how you feel when you're not together AND how he feels when you're not together. Are you all like thinking about him and wondering if he's thinking about you?? An is he out at the lake with his buds thinking how "she" would look sucking on his schlong?
Honey, you don't always feel as intense as the guys and visa versa, see how it plays out.
But remember, when in doubt . . .play hard to get1!!
Good luck.
The mama you wish you had!
And remember not to give it up to quick because you can never get it back!! Your virginity, your self-worth, your awesomeness, your purity, your innocence, your virtue, and don't forget . . . what would your mama say.
NO GUY IS WOTH GIVING UP YOUR VALUES FOR - EVEN IF HE'S REALLY CUTY AND DRIVES A CADILAC. YOU'RE WORTH MORE THAN FANCY MEALS AND FANCY CLOTHES!!
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reader, vodka-tearz +, writes (1 December 2007):
 Hey Sweetheart,Did you inspect the condom? Was there semen on the inside? Was there semen on the outside? If you stopped quickly, he might not even have come.They say communication is the key in every relationship, and believe me it is. I have no problems confronting people, and you need to ask your boyfriend about the night.As for the relationship, if he doesn't leave this girl then you should cut it off and wait until he's ready.Hope this helped xxx
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