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reader, dwmusic +, writes (25 July 2010):
I am gay but watched straight porn once or twice when there was no gay available. I got turned on by the guys and all the cum, but I never buy straight porn for myself. That did not make me in the least straight. I had sex with a girl for a while, but was gay the whole time - I was experimenting, much to her eventual distress. A lot of actors in gay porn are straight men doing it for the money. I have had sex with straight but curious men, who are still straight, and are even better friends after than they were before. We share a new bond, yet have known boundaries.
Bottom line is, what counts is whom you want to love and have love you back - and that may be not connected with your sexual fantasies, however when it comes to having sex, you'll need to be up front about this from the get-go, because there's nothing surer than that it will be discovered in the fullness of time.
I have straight married hetero friends who use gay porn as part of their entirely hetero love making - the female finds it a turn on. They're straight as toothpicks, but it's fun discussing our tastes in gay porn, no matter how bizzare that may seem
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): only if you find it a turn on or you might just be bisexual or bicurious
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): what defines a gay person is if they love men and want sex with them as long as you have no feelings towards men but only get turned on by gay porn then your NOT gay
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): NO not unless you actully want sex with men in real life or u have feelings towards them
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): simple answer no ive watched gay porn just for curiosity but im straight
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008): Wow! So many different answers. Here's the easy answer:It's not gay to watch gay porn, even if you do it all the time and you masturbate while you're doing it and you fancy some of the men in the porn.Here's the complicated answer:Being gay is an identity. There are no rules about who qualifies for the identity because it's a man-made idea. There is nothing at all that all gay people have in common. Some people who call themselves gay get turned on by people of the same sex. Some don't. Some feel an emotional attraction. Some don't. Some don't feel any attraction whatsoever, they use the identity politically. Some also feel attractions for members of the different sex. Some enjoy sex with members of the different sex. Some people who identify as gay never have sex. Some people who have an attraction for members of the same sex don't consider themselves gay, or bisexual, or even bi-curious. Basically, it's a free-for-all. And who's to say who's right? Even sexologists can't agree.Most important thing is that you feel okay with what you do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): It's easy for people to say your gay cos u watch gay porn but that dont mean nothing, you can,t be straight watch gay porn then be gay if your straight youre straight thats it dont worry mate ive watched gay porn and im not gay
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): That depends. The best way to figure out your true sexuality is to go by sexual desire. If you are fantasising about the men in the porn films, images etc then the chances are you're gay or you could possibly be bisexual. Whatever you are embrace it. Black, white, gay, straight, fat, thin. Accept yourself and others will accept you. Hope this helps
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reader, gayguy16 +, writes (3 December 2007):
 I just dont get all of those ppl it can be curiosity, because you wonder what gay sex involves, or maybe your bi-curious like jm81690 says, or then again u didnt say whether youve ever had feelings for a guy, that might mean you are bi sexual but are still confused a little, but hey man dont worry about it, its normal anyway,
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 Its off of curiousity so dont get over-whelmed with your worries. You know yourself better than anyone.
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reader, vodka-tearz +, writes (1 December 2007):
 I'm wondering the same thing, I found gay porn on my brother's computer and he's never been in a relationship until recently, with someone called Rachel.
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reader, JohnR +, writes (30 November 2007):
 Well if it is curiousity then I guess once would be not-gay, but if you like it or watch it more than once because you're curious, then Hell Yes, it's Gay. Nothing wrong with that if you are gay, but then as SamuraiRick says 'get out of the closet and live your life'.
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (30 November 2007):
 I don't watch gay porn even for curiosity, so yeah if you watch gay porn you are gay. I concur with the others who say that the mere thought of it is repulsive and disgusting. If you watch it just for the curiosity you must be bi-curious. And if bicurious means you might go for it in the right circumstances...then basically you are gay.
If you are afraid to be labeled gay, then dont watch it. But if you do watch it, why are you still in the closet?
Being gay is more acceptabke than ever and you shouldn't be ashamed. Get out and be your gay self dude.
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reader, harshbutfair +, writes (29 November 2007):
 Yes.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (29 November 2007):
 I don't think it makes you gay. If you watch it every single time and gay porn is the only kind of porn that you enjoy then yes... I'd say you might be gay. But, if you just watch because you're curious, if it's just an occasional thing I'd say that you're either
a) curious
b) adventurous
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c) a little bisexual
None of those options are bad in the least. Girls watch lesbian porn all the time, but it doesn't make them lesbians.
You're fine.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): I'm as straight as they come. The very thought of it turns my stomach and I've never had the slightest inclination to watch it.
So to my mind anyone who does, isn't just curious, they've got inclinations in that direction.
Phil
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (29 November 2007):
 No it just means you're curious but to be honest most straigh men are completely disgusted with man on man action. At your age I don't know if you are just experimenting with this or not as you seem too old for this as experimenting with stuff like this usually happens in your teens. However, have you ever thought why you enjoy watching it? Could you be gay yourself, or bi sexual even?
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 I think it'd make you bi-curious, but doesn't officially make you gay.
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