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anonymous
writes:I have only known my boyfriend for two months,and we only got together a month ago.I am a virgin but he's not. I really love him,and i would have sex with him if he asked me. Am i rushing into things? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): By asking this question, you are doubting yourself. If you were sure about this, you would not have questioned it. You can't rush these things. As much as you want to, make it clear to your guy that this is not a wham bam thank you ma'am. good luck and be safe!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (2 December 2007):
 If it feels at ALL rushed, then yes, you're rushing. I think it's best to wait for a long time because the anticipation is what makes it best. Once you have sex, then you're done. That's the most you can do. And then you can never go back to just making out, or just going to second. Every time you get physical, suddenly there will be these expectations for sex and that SUCKS. It really does.
Sometimes I miss the good ol' days where making out was the farthest I'd go. It was so fun. It was so rockin'.
Make him wait for at least another couple months. Make SURE that he's really worth your virginity because you only lose it ONCE.
Good luck, sweetness!
xxIndia
P.S. Remember that when you do have sex, make it safe sex! The best sex is always safe.
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reader, vodka-tearz +, writes (1 December 2007):
 I hate to say it sweethart but I'm guessing it's what you're expecting.I lost my virginity at 14, never regretted it, however it makes an enormous difference if the guy is a virgin or not. He isn't, so can you be sure that he isn't just going to use and discard? FANTA. ---- and never touch again. It's a heartbraker.Take care honey x
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reader, steve107 +, writes (1 December 2007):
 i can remember my girlfriend telling me once that she regreted losing her virginity at such a young age and i know myself i would of prefered losing it to her than who i did lose it to. this is a very important decision in your life and one that you will remember for the rest of your life. dont feel pressured into doing anything you dont want to do. do it when the time is right for you. and be safe
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reader, GreenTea +, writes (1 December 2007):
If you have to ask if your rushing into this then I'm going to go ahead and say that your still to young for sex. I think it would hurt you more than it would benefit you.
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