How old were you when you started dating?
Q. ok. im 14. i have never had a proper boyfriend before and i have never been on a date. some of my friends are starting to date and get bfs and im not. when did you start dating?? what can i do to get guys to ask me out?? please help!...
A. 16 September 2010: I was 18 and in my first year of University when I got my first boyfriend. It's not something you need to rush. I know when I was 14 I was in no way ready for a relationship. The first time I kissed a guy was 16! Just because all your friends are ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants an open relationship! What should I do?
Q. Apologies if this is too long! So... heres my story. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a month. and I'm not going to lie, it has been a heck of a roller coaster. I guess I'm clutching at straws in this relationship because ...
A. 5 August 2010: Thank you all very much for your advice. You're all right... I need to break up with him, it needs to be done it's just getting the guts to do it. Hes like crack, hes bad for me but I always go back! Must stay strong. Will update you later once I ... (read in full...)
How do you have anal sex painlessly?
Q. my boyfriend wants to penetrate me from the 'rear' can anyone offer advice on how to do it painlessly?...
A. 9 July 2010: The key to anal sex is lube. Never skimp on the lube! As a special treat to my boyfriend I like to indulge him in anal sex and it took me quite awhile to get used to the sensation. You should start off with some gentle anal play, lube the area, ... (read in full...)
I hate performing oral sex, but I like receiving it. Am I selfish?
Q. I have tried oral sex numerous time, but I still hate it. I don't understand how anyone can enjoy performing oral sex on a man. I feel sick, I get a sore throat, my jaws hurt, the taste is awful and the sight of semen make me want to vomit. My b...
A. 3 July 2010: hey there!
I can completely understand about not liking it. I never used to in all honesty. I had never really given a blow job properly until I got in the relationship that I'm in now. He taught me how to do it essentially but then I was willing ... (read in full...)
I cant believe my fiance saying he may have gotten another woman pregnant. Do you think he is just testing me?
Q. My fiancé told me that some girl told him that he might have gotten her pregnant. It does not seem like him at all--- cheating and not using protection. According to his tone of voice on the phone, I think he was kidding, but I was crying when I ...
A. 5 April 2010: I think first of all you need to find out if he is telling you the truth. Why would he be testing you, and if so why this way? Talk to him about it first, find out if what he said was true and if it wasn't why would he say that to you in the first ... (read in full...)
How often on average to people have sex?
Q. Just another question out of interest. but how many times a week is it considered normal to have sex? I heard a guy at work the other day say He and his partner had sex at least 4 times a day. I thought that sounded pretty excessive? I realise...
A. 15 March 2010: My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months and we have sex on average 2-3 times a week. ... (read in full...)
Is pubic hair on a guy more acceptable than on a girl?
Q. Well, I have been very close to my boyfriend and we talked about sexual things. Not sex though. We talked about fingering and hand jobs and I gave him a hand job. He hasnt fingered me though. Not to share this to the world but he has pubic hair and ...
A. 2 March 2010: you do realize that everyone has/gets pubic hair right? If he is put off by you having pubic hair then thats ridiculous. ... (read in full...)
Had sex with someone new, and now have pain while urinating! Sign of pregnancy?
Q. I had sex with a new partner 2 weeks ago, and since then i have felt bad pain when urinating and felt the urge to urinate much more frequently than normal. What could be causing this? Is it a sign of pregnancy?...
A. 29 January 2010: Sounds like you have a Urinary tract infection (UTI) go to the doctor and they will put you on antibiotics. They are very unpleasant and horrible and you have to go asap because if you ignore it it can lead to a kidney infection which can put you ... (read in full...)
Is this my head that's affecting me and my mind?
Q. yesterday me and my girlfriend were making out and i got semi hard. it was my room and it was like 12 pm-5 pm and everyone was home at the time and i just kept hearing people talking and footsteps of people and my parents calling my name and i just ...
A. 15 December 2009: I assume perhaps your age stated is wrong? are you 26-29?
Anyway, go to a quiet place with her or wait till you have the house to yourself. Put on some nice music set a good atmosphere. Its always annoying to try and get it on when you have heap... (read in full...)
I get a sinking feeling when I realise it will never happen again
Q. My husband is circumsized, and lately I've found myself CRAVING sex with an uncircumcised man. I've been with both cut and uncut men before, and hands-down I've found sex with uncut men to be more pleasurable. My husband knows that I've been with ...
A. 15 December 2009: My two main relationships I've had was with one cut and one uncut. I honestly didnt notice any difference during sex. I agree with other posters and really curious as to what made it so much better for you?
I have no personal preference. Its the ... (read in full...)
My ex and I are still friends and have sex, he is not sure he wants to get back together, what should I do
Q. my exs and i broke up..we are still friends and he tells me that he misses me alot and thinks about us and we still have sex. but hes not sure if he wants to get back with me. what should i do? ...
A. 10 November 2009: I was in this EXACT same situation not that long ago. My ex and I broke up, still friends then started having sex again. He said he still had feelings for me and maybe we should get back together...I was still in love with him. Long story short- ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says I am the only girl he has experiened an orgasm with, is this unusal?
Q. My bf says I am the first girl to ever make him cum. He says no girl has ever been able to do that for him before and hes always had trouble keeping it up, but with me he hasnt had either of those problems. I am wondering why this is? Im not even ...
A. 10 November 2009: hmmm well my boyfriend lost his virginity at 13 and wasnt able to cum till he was 16. I didnt ask for details though. Hes 22 now so maybe it was a puberty/frame of mind thing.
You dont say how old your boyfriend is so I cant really make a soun... (read in full...)
What does first time sex feel like? Are you nervous?
Q. Just curious is all....my girlfriend and I have been going out for two years and the topic of sex was brought up, something we talk about alot, but never actually plan to do it for a long time. So, anyway, what does everyone feel the first time? ...
A. 8 November 2009: well sadly my first time wasnt exactly the best. I was 16 and drunk and slept with a guy I didnt love. Yes I was nervous and wish I had saved it for the right guy.
I had an "Omg what am I doing" moment, hah.
However 5 years later I have had a co... (read in full...)
I have a "pimple" down there... what could it be?
Q. Okay so I had sex with only 3 ppl and and shave when I know im going to have sex..the question is that I have this so alike pimple on my private area that seem never to go away.I don't know what is it cuz I shaved down there and I think i cause a ...
A. 3 November 2009: sounds like it could be an ingrown hair since you shave. But just to be safe I recommend that you get checked out. Better safe that sorry! ... (read in full...)
Is his text evidence that he is cheating?
Q. I saw my boyfriend texting this other girl, and I thought nothing of it until I caught a glimpse at the end of the text, and he wrote love you to her. I know that she is not a family member and he told me that he was talking to a guy and not a girl. ...
A. 2 November 2009: well... I disagree with the he should only say 'love you' to you. Why cant he love his friends? I dont think you should be making a big deal out of it. Have you asked him? Why not just talk about it?
I say love you to my guy friend that isnt my boyf... (read in full...)
What are some specific kinds of birth control that make boobs grow?
Q. What are some specific kinds of birth control that have made boobs noticably bigger. Me and my best friend want to know. we both have been on birth control for over a year.. and no boob growth.. we need help!!! ...
A. 30 October 2009: It doesnt matter what size your boobs are! Just accept your body the way it is. Birth control pills are not designed to enhance or grow breasts its for what its called -Birth Control. ... (read in full...)
Did I cheat on my boyfriend, and if so does that mean I'm not happy with him?
Q. I'm very much in love with my boyfriend, we've been together for 7 months and it feels very right, like I've found my soul mate. I've been through enough abusive/controlling/violent and generally unhappy relationships to know that I'm definitely ...
A. 29 October 2009: I've done exactly this same thing when I was with an ex. I met this guy and we just clicked he was totally into me and I was also attracted to him but we couldnt do anything as I had a boyfriend and loved him. However I did tease him and flirted ... (read in full...)
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