Everything's broken...
Q. Hello, Just to warn you, this is a long one. Bsically I am in a weird place right now, I was with my ex girlfriend since the age of 16, we spent over three years together,some happy and shit times. We were both each other's fist love and sexua...
A. 11 August 2009: a first love lost is always the hardest, especially the first sex. it's an unexplainable bond. a buddy of mine always told me when a man takes her virginity, she will always remember that person in a special way. i think i understand that, but i've ... (read in full...)
Boobs.
Q. My boobs are the size of a 15 yr old is there something wrong with me?...
A. 11 August 2009: some guys like small boobs believe it or not. some guys care more about a girls ass than her boobs. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I see many girls that i'm shocked that they stay single, because most guys won't even bother looking at her. i ... (read in full...)
Help! My girlfriend's transforming into a sack of lard!
Q. Alright, I've been going out with my girlfriend for about five years now, since we were sophomores in high school. We've survived the transition to a long distance relationship in different universities and are completely committed to each other. I ...
A. 14 July 2009: the best way is to take time to cook healthy meals together. if she does eat something fatty, don't make her feel bad about it. when i was growing up i ate a lot and got very heavy. i was 280 at one point. im down to 210 now, still got a little ... (read in full...)
Is he being friendly, or is it something more? I don't want to risk rejection
Q. Hi there. I feel that im in a confused state. I got to know this guy, age 29 back in 2008. FYI: im 22. We officially became a couple in jan,2009. But we broke up a month later because i was still having flings with my ex bf and he couldnt accept the ...
A. 14 July 2009: I'm under the impression he saw you weren't ready the first time around. He did contact you again, which tells me he gave you another chance. He definitely feels something for you, so tell him how you feel. If I had a guy smelling my hair when ... (read in full...)
First time sex. Underage but how do I come across it with my boyfriend?
Q. Im ready to have sex with my boyfriend. I know am 'underage' but I have spoken to my bf about it and we are both ready for this kind of commitment. I didnt come on here to be told am to young and i shouldnt be doing it because I KNOW this okay. ...
A. 13 July 2009: although I do have to say you may me a little young, and i don't condone underage sex, but here's a few pointers so your first experience doesn't become your worst experience I would have jumped on it if i had the chance when I was your age.
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Girlfriend was raped when she was a child, and does not like me to hold or touch her, what can I do to change this?
Q. My girlfriend was raped when she was a kid, and now it affects her. She hates been touched in any form. I really like to hold her but she nevers allow me to hold her. What should i do?...
A. 13 July 2009: sounds like she could be going through post-traumatic stress. It won't be easy, especially if you haven't been through it.
My father was a pedophile, my sister was abused 4-5 times a day for a few years. she was only 8 when it started(... (read in full...)
When does teenage life start to get better?
Q. I'm sure no-ones had a perfect life as a teenager and I've heard it is one of the most difficult times in life, but I'm always getting told that it does eventually get better, but when? Ever since being around 11 or 12 I've just hated life in ...
A. 13 July 2009: I had very difficult teenage years. I spent most days after school in my room. i was on medicine during that time also. it does get better after high school. kids in school are mean and usually immuture. I had a lot of childhood problems which ... (read in full...)
Did these guys like me... and other questions?
Q. Ok, so where I work I am a cashier. So I run into different types of people. But I was curious with these two customers. Do they like me? Please answer all my questions! Here is what happened: Guy # 1: I actually see this guy come through the fron...
A. 13 July 2009: I wish everytime i made eye contact with a guy it meant something. unfortunitly most people are straight. in this imbreded redneck town where i live if i flirt with the wrong guy i would get punched in the face. also i have seen some guys love t... (read in full...)
My troubled life and I'm not sure what to do about it
Q. I've remained anonymous because it is for the sake of my family, not me. I think I have a very unbalanced view on men. I have not had the happiest of childhoods. My dad (I don't usually call him that) was a woman beater. Plates, fists, anything....
A. 12 July 2009: I do have to say 90 percent of people whether man or woman are dirtbags. There are also very very nice people out there. growing up is very difficult this day and age. I've had some very difficult problems growing up. my father was a pedophile and ... (read in full...)
I've accepted that I'm gay but I'm still confused
Q. Ok i recently accepted that i'm gay, but im a little confused. I still see a lot of beauty in girls, even with girls that most guys wouldn't be attracted to. but the thought of sex with a girl turns me off. Yet the more attractive the girl is, the ...
A. 12 July 2009: I do kind of consider myself to be bi i'm just not sexually attracted to girls anymore, at least at this time. I'm not totally ruling out the possibility of women at some point down the road. I do have a lot of issues in life itself to deal with, as ... (read in full...)
Partner has become extremely jealous
Q. i've been with my partner for nearly 3 years. things are pretty great at first but after some time, he's jealousy starts kicking in. he became paranoid, and cannot stand if i was even talking to a guy in uni. he can't stand if i have male partners ...
A. 11 July 2009: does he own you? you are allowed to talk to anyone you want. if he cant deal with it thats his problem. he gets mad because you go to see your friends? if he is gonna start a big argument because your going to see a friend for a birthday dinner? ... (read in full...)
He's insecure and tries too hard all the time!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. I love him and we get on well, apart from the fact that his insecurity and need to overcompensate is killing the relationship. I need someone to help me understand it all. My boyfriend is someone who tries too...
A. 11 July 2009: he sounds munipulative. personally it almost worries me. if a guy never backs off when it's clear i don't want to be cheered up, and always buys stuff when asking him not to, it sounds like he would be controlling once he has munipulated enough to ... (read in full...)
I'm a 22 year old virgin and I just want someone to love
Q. Im a 22yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I hang out with a large group of friends and i always feel like the 5th wheel that cant roll with the group due to the fact ...
A. 11 July 2009: I am 22 years old and was in a similar situation. one thing i can say is always look your best when leaving the house. clothes don't make or break a person, but try to dress presentable without overdoing it. don't worry, she'll come along when you ... (read in full...)
Virgin, think about sex all the time.
Q. iam 24 years old and I am virgin and I want to know if its good to think about sex all the time?...
A. 11 July 2009: don't be ashamed to be a virgin. don't take any ole wham bam thank you mam just for the sake of having sex. I am 22 years old. i just lost my virginity a week ago. it was actually very meaningful. im glad i waited until 22 years old, but i never ... (read in full...)
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