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I won't come/release orally or during intercourse... please help

Q.   Hi, i've read about this question in another topic but then it was a female who asked what she was doing wrong. I'm 22 and currently seeing my first girl, she's really amazing but when it comes to sex... well i won't come. I can make her come bo...

A.   12 April 2009: This really is a medical issue - talk to a doctor about this. In the meantime, try to relax. Is something inhibiting you from enjoying yourself? Good luck.... (read in full...)

Found a lot of his ex wife's things in boxes - what do I do?

Q.   Well this is my story. I told my boyfriend that I'll be more then happy to look after his dog and fish well he goes away for a few days, he has his own business and does not always get time off, i work for him. Anyways, for the first time i have ...

A.   10 April 2009: Just because he is your boyfriend he is supposed to remove every vestige of his past life? Give the man a break. He will clean up when he is ready. Perhaps he needs some of these things because they are part of his history. Give him time to get over ... (read in full...)

I feel so sad right now. Why isn't he calling like he promised?

Q.   I have been seeing this guy from my university for almost a month. We act couple when we are together and he says he thinks I'm so sexy all the time. I asked him what exactly we were and he said that he really likes me and wants to see where this ...

A.   30 March 2009: I hope he has called by the time you read this!! I feel sure that he will. He has probably been caught up in the whole moving thing. Enjoy the excitement of waiting for him to call! Let us know how you go.... (read in full...)

16 yo virgin and I have stretch marks on my stomach

Q.   Hi, I'm 16 years old and I have stretch marks on my stomach, and i dont know how to get them to go away. me and my best friend want to loose our virginity to each other, but im scared to take off my shirt. can you help me? ...

A.   30 March 2009: If you have privacy,light some candles or turn down the lights. Put some of your favourite music on. If the marks continue to be an issue for you, talk to a doctor about it when you next see one. It may not be as noticable as you think! Good luck.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has stopped talking about it but I cant seem to drop it

Q.   Hey guys. Im a bit stuck... Ive been going out with my boyfriend for just over 10 months and things have been amazing! we've been so close and I really do love him. But about a year before he went out with me he broke up with this girl that he ...

A.   29 March 2009: First, I am pleased that you have a nice relationship with this new guy. I am sure you feel that it is worth protecting. You don't have to feel bad about the other girl, since you don't know her except through her link with your boyfriend. If he... (read in full...)

We get along perfectly but I don't know if he's the one

Q.   I don't know if my bf and I are working anymore. Our long-distance relationship has drug on for a year and a half now and we've broken up more times than I can count. He loves me so much and he treats me so well. He always says he doesn't think he ...

A.   26 March 2009: You are clearly going through a difficult time. This is not helped by the distance issue. It is hard and costly to keep a relationship going when he is not there all the time. You mentioned your ex. It is usual to compare your new bf with your ex. ... (read in full...)

Does he or does he not like me back?

Q.   I'm 19 years old and the guy is 20, so I'm getting pretty annoyed by his 'high school-like' behavior. Anyways, I'm really into him and the problem is that I have no idea if he likes me back or not. We can be all flirty one day: touching each othe...

A.   26 March 2009: It is difficult to assess what is going on with this guy. He may enjoy the power he has over you and does not intend anything more serious than flirting. Or he may not be sure how he feels with you yet so he holds and cuddles one minute then acts ... (read in full...)

I have never felt very confident in my body

Q.   I have recently starting seeing this bloke and he is always very touchy feely and wanting more than just a kiss. My problem is that I have never felt very confident in my body and I don't mind touching with clothes on but I hate it when he touc...

A.   26 March 2009: Boys often try to test girls' boundaries to meet their sexual and emotional needs. Trust the way you feel and don't let him do things you are uncomfortable just now. When you know him better you may be more relaxed about what you do together. You ... (read in full...)

Is it really "space" or just an "out"?

Q.   ive been with my bf for a yr and recently his dad's been diagnosed with leukimia, he was in the hospital for about a month and he's home now. our relationship has always been very well handled but just recently my bf said he needed space, he said he ...

A.   25 March 2009: Why would your boyfriend need space from you just now? Wouldn't he need the closeness and support your relationship provides? It is difficult for me to comment when I don't know either of you, but in my (male) experience, the need for space could be ... (read in full...)

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