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writes:I'm 19 years old and the guy is 20, so I'm getting pretty annoyed by his 'high school-like' behavior. Anyways, I'm really into him and the problem is that I have no idea if he likes me back or not. We can be all flirty one day: touching each other's arms, hugging, him saying I'm beautiful and I would say he's hot and then the next day, he'll be like 'What are you staring at?' when I try to get his attention by smiling and being coy and what not. My friends tell me I should probably start to ignore him because he doesn't seem worth the chase anymore, but that is beyond easier SAID than DONE when it comes to this guy! It's unbelievable what he's doing to me because I can't stop thinking about him and at the same time, he annoys the crap out of me! Also, I've never been in a situation like this because mostly the guy would just ignore me in the first place and I would eventually lose interest. Not this guy, though, I don't know what he's doing but he's totally screwing with my head! I want him to stop, but I want him to keep going with the flirty stuff. What's going on with him? Does he or does he not like me back?
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reader, UncleEd  +, writes (26 March 2009):
It is difficult to assess what is going on with this guy. He may enjoy the power he has over you and does not intend anything more serious than flirting. Or he may not be sure how he feels with you yet so he holds and cuddles one minute then acts like Mr Cool the next day. He could also be checking out how he feels about girls in general. Don't forget guys are usually less mature than girls of a similar age!Have you tried talking it over with him? Try sharing a soda or coffee and see if you can raise the issue. If he fails to acknowledge your point of view, you may be in for a bumpy ride. You really seem to like the guy but if he keeps treating you poorly you will feel pain or confusion until you are over him. Your friends may be right. If they have your interest at heart (and you can be the only judge of that), talk to them about what they would do. I would call his bluff. Sit down and try to talk. Then you will have a better idea of where you stand!
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reader, Natalie90  +, writes (26 March 2009):
 i think you should do what your friends suggests and play it cool if he likes you then he will notice you wont have been payin him any attention and then you will be able to see if he really is intrested in you however if hes like this when your not togther imagine what he would be like if you where ?? you may need to do yourself a favour and leave him now !! please let me know if this helps thanks
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reader, christina elizabeh +, writes (26 March 2009):
 i think he does like you. other wise why would he be flirting with u and telling u that u r pretty. he is just trying 2 look cool when he ignores u. i think u should try 2 start ignoring him and maybe he will notice and feel lonely. then u will have him rapped around your finger:D
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