How can I help my boyfriend overcome his resentment toward me?
Q. Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 17 months. We were living together for 6 months but i just recently moved out because since october, he has been resenting me and has lots of anger towards me. The only times i can think of him bein...
A. 6 February 2012: "Its gotten to the point where he thinks we aren't right for each-other because during our time apart he hasn't missed me like he usually does, and he doesn't feel like hes in love with me." What part of "get lost, I don't want to be with you anym... (read in full...)
A married man continues to pursue me even after I decline
Q. I am working on a divorce. My husband cheated on me with another woman. I'm being honest, it hurts bad. I did meet a friend only to find out he is married too. I am angry and of course we are not together anymore. This stupid married man keep...
A. 6 February 2012: "Why do men [who cheat] cheat?"
Lack of self-esteem, lack of balls, lack of brains, warped perception of how a true man carries and conducts himself.
"Everytime this marrried man calls or texts, I feel like going over to his house and spitti... (read in full...)
Guitar solos turn me on? Does anyone else have any strange turn ons?
Q. Oh gosh, this is kinda strange but I've just recently realized that guitar solos really turn me on.. more than porn or anything else. It's so strange.. does this sort of thing happen to anyone else? Not just with guitar solos, but anything? lol I ...
A. 6 February 2012: Glad we could help. You are right, everybody has something weird that turns them on, usually wired in as a response to a particular random unexpected stimulus. Nothing to be ashamed of, glad you see the humor in it, we all should.
But as I said p... (read in full...)
I try to do what he says but it's getting on my nerves!
Q. i've been dating a guy for 3 months now,.... he is very smart, very nice, kind hearted ... loves his family, and friends... he gives me a lot of attention... supposedly loves me... and i feel the same, but since we started dating everything that i ...
A. 6 February 2012: For God's sakes you've known this guy for three months. You can't "love" him, you hardly know him, he's a stranger, obviously you already have major differences. Hasn't anybody under forty ever heard of the concept of BREAKING UP when things aren... (read in full...)
I've been hurt and don't feel like dating!
Q. Why do I feel this way? is it normal? did it happen to you too? I have no interest in guys or relationships. My ex really hurt me. He cheated, lied and dumped me and asked to remain friends and of course I said no. It seems like everyo...
A. 6 February 2012: "It seems like everyone around me is looking for the one. The good guys are getting treated like shit by other females and the good girls are getting treated badly by horrible guys." As a guy in his fifties, I completely agree. I simply can't fat... (read in full...)
Guitar solos turn me on? Does anyone else have any strange turn ons?
Q. Oh gosh, this is kinda strange but I've just recently realized that guitar solos really turn me on.. more than porn or anything else. It's so strange.. does this sort of thing happen to anyone else? Not just with guitar solos, but anything? lol I ...
A. 6 February 2012: I won't say guitar solos "turn me on" sexually, but they've always invoked a visceral reaction and as a 50-something I still get the same feeling listening to "Purple Haze" or "Dazed and Confused" or "Sunshine of Your Love" at full volume as I did... (read in full...)
My married lover is flirting with another woman in front of me
Q. I am a 34 year old female and I have been with this guy for almost 9 and a half years. He is my colleague and we still work together. However, when I met him, he was already engaged to be married, and although we loved each other, he still got ...
A. 6 February 2012: Gee, you suspect your boyfriend who has been cheating on his wife with you throughout the entire course of his marriage is now going out of his way to hurt you by flaunting his budding relationship with another woman while keeping secrets and ... (read in full...)
Surprise 50th birthday party and his wife didn't invite his Mother, how to deal with her!
Q. Hi Guys I have a situation which isn't about a relationship, it's more a family situation and I was just hoping you guys might be able to help me. My brother just turned 50 years old, and his wife put on a surprise birthday party for him, and she...
A. 6 February 2012: "I have no respect for anyone who can treat their husband's mother in this way, it's selfish, cruel and very immature. So what can I tell my Mum as to how to handle this?"
Tell your mother you have no respect for anyone who can treat their hu... (read in full...)
I lied to my boyfriend but now that I have come clean and am telling the truth he doesn't trust me
Q. I lied to my boyfriend about my online- activities prior to us moving in together. When he found out, I denied it, then I changed my story and told him what I was doing (emblishing the facts as I thought it was what he wanted to hear), I then took ...
A. 6 February 2012: "What do I do? how can i regain his trust."
Well, technically you can't "regain" his trust when you never did anything to earn it from him in the first place.
Semantics aside, nothing you can do to "regain" his trust. All you can do is not gi... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend back!
Q. How do I get my Ex-Boyfriend want me back? My boyfriend broke up with me last Saturday when I called him and asked is that you don't want to be with me anymore and he simply said 'no' and said he had to go. Then he removed his relationship stat...
A. 5 February 2012: "How do I get my Ex-Boyfriend want me back?"
You can't.
And I stopped reading after that first sentence, knowing no sub-microscopic rehashes of trivial events contained in the following War and Peace-length scenario is going to influence the... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't tell everyone we are dating and has some flirtations with male friends.
Q. My girlfriend stays out regularly and sometimes comes back as late as 4am. Sometimes she goes to see a friend who has a flat a few miles away. I work full time so I generally feel tired as I don't sleep so well when I don't know where she is or ...
A. 5 February 2012: "My girlfriend doesn't tell everyone we are dating and has some flirtations with male friends."
"We do not have an open relationship and I do not date other women. She says it is harder for her because guys have always found her attracti... (read in full...)
B/f says he wants to marry me but talks about this girl every day
Q. My fiancé and I have been together for a little over a year. We have come to our "plateau" in our relationship. But he will not communicate with me at all. He thinks I do everything wrong and he does everything right. I want to just sit and have a ...
A. 5 February 2012: "I don't want to hear, leave him he's immature.. Or any of that bull. Please, an honest answer would be awesome!!"
Go ahead and marry a guy whom you know in advance doesn't respect you, refuses to communicate, puts you down as always being wr... (read in full...)
Is he really considering a relationship with me or just playing games?
Q. My ex and I have done one of those off and on long term relationships. Due to a family crisis, I was out of town for part of the last two years and his last words to me were harsh and I could not contact him. Last year, he started contacti...
A. 5 February 2012: Sorry, but you are displaying classic clingy needy chick ego and vanity. No matter how bottom-feeding a scumbag he is, introduce another even clingier needier chick into the equation and suddenly he's Prince Charming and you can't stand the thought ... (read in full...)
Why does my cousin treat her boyfriend so badly?
Q. Why does my cousin treats her man this way? is so sad? My cousin treats her boyfriend really badly. She actually treats him like her slave. He's not allowed to talk to other girls. She's constantly arguing with him. She's dumped him a million ti...
A. 5 February 2012: "Why does my cousin treats her man this way?"
She's a domestic abuser who thinks she can get away with abusing him and he's a domestic abusee who lets her get away with abusing him.
Nothing you can say or do to convince either party to change ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend becoming so mean and bitter!
Q. Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We have a great relationship and i love him with all of my heart. I do NOT want to leave him ever. He is the man i am going to marry and i know it. Or at least i thought i knew it. He ...
A. 5 February 2012: Listen to Latti. She speaks the truth. You can bank on everything she says coming true if you stay with this LOSER, LOSER, LOSER, LOSER, LOSER, LOSER.
Did she say HE'S A LOSER? Listen to Latti. She speaks the truth. HE'S A LOSER. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend becoming so mean and bitter!
Q. Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We have a great relationship and i love him with all of my heart. I do NOT want to leave him ever. He is the man i am going to marry and i know it. Or at least i thought i knew it. He ...
A. 5 February 2012: "I have no one i can talk to" I'm so sorry you have to deal with this all alone. You must have had a very unhappy, unstable home life as a child to be desperately hanging on to a "boyfriend" who comes across by your own account as a selfish, rude,... (read in full...)
Huge age difference, and now I'm starting to wonder if he even loves me...
Q. I am female,28...3 months living with 63 year old american guy,i am confused now because he is no longer treating me the same like before,it was clear before whats my future with him but now seems like i am hanging,i feel like not being love,i ...
A. 5 February 2012: "Does he really love me?"
No, of course not. He just said that so he'd have a regular easy free lay while he was out of the country. Why would he need to send for you when he can use the same line on any dumb American chick your age he can pick... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is going through chemo, and suddenly we're more like just friends!
Q. Ok .. complicated, but serious question. Just 5 months into a new relationship (which was going very, very well) my girlfriend was diagnosed with breast cancer. Through surgery .. then 4 months of chemo, she is now cancer free .. yet doing 6 weeks ...
A. 5 February 2012: Advice from a guy your age: If stay by your girlfriend's side and support her unconditionally through this ordeal, once she fully recovers the sex will be a thousand times better than you could ever imagine. In the meantime, God gave every guy a ... (read in full...)
He says she's his soul mate. Do I go through with the divorce or wait?
Q. My husband left my and the kids for his mistress. he met her online. She is 1400 miles away. He's been 1 1/2months. He tells me he loves her and she makes him happy but he still loves me. That he's just not in love with me. Not to mention ...
A. 5 February 2012: "he doesn't have a job so she pays for everything" That tells you everything you need to know about the scumbag; he'd rather live off another woman than support his own kids. "he was lying saying he wasn't living with us. Not to mention a... (read in full...)
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