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He seems to be hiding something.........

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and for about the last year hes been very secretive about his phone. He never used to care if I messed around with his phone but now all of a sudden he does. I have questioned him about it a few ...

A.   7 July 2011: Thanks Angel! I am trying my hardest to get through it the best that I can.. I will never let myself be so naive in a relationship again.. But love makes you do some crazy things.. I am trying to make sure to keep myself as busy as I can.. I tryed ... (read in full...)

He seems to be hiding something.........

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and for about the last year hes been very secretive about his phone. He never used to care if I messed around with his phone but now all of a sudden he does. I have questioned him about it a few ...

A.   29 June 2011: HI everyone... Just wanted to give sort of an update. Well I never even had time to mention the phone thing before I got a text with a picture of his cat from him and the text showed it was also sent to someone else. When I asked who it was he ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if I love him for the right reasons. Should I marry him anyway?

Q.   Here's the thing... my fiance and I have been together for a year and a half, and have lived together for a year. We are planning on getting married in October on our 2 year anniversary. But... I have many doubts about marrying him. It's not wedding ...

A.   13 May 2011: I think you should never marry someone you dont love. I definetly dont think you really love him I think its more of an obsession with helping him. You need to worry about yourself and no one else. The fact that you cant even bear to be next to him ... (read in full...)

How can I feel better about my appearance?

Q.   So I was recently talking to my boyfriend and I mentioned that I don't like myself and feel fat. He then gave me a big speech about how much he loves me and that I look beautiful and attractive, even though I am overweight(though not obese, I'm 5'2" ...

A.   13 May 2011: You just need to realize that looks are NOT everything. I have this same problem my bf tells me I'm beautiful but I constantly feel ugly and fat (im around 5'6" and about 130 pds so im not a big girl just feel that way). He always tells me I'm not ... (read in full...)

Guys, after a fight with a girl, how would you act?

Q.   I had a fight with this on again off again guy of mine (he was being hypocritical and two-faced) half a year ago and we haven't spoken to each other since. Yet, if we're ever at the same place (we have a circle of mutual friends)he'll al...

A.   13 May 2011: I think that hes wants to talk to you. He probably still has feelings for you but is afraid to talk to you first. I would maybe try talking to him on the phone or something first just so its not awkward.... (read in full...)

I am crushed. I read what she wrote about my size and don't how I am going to work this, or our new LDR, out with her.

Q.   I need help with a difficult situation. I met a girl about three months ago through a work friend and we hit it off. We have been dating since then and I feel as if the relationship is the most amazing thing that has ever happened to me. ...

A.   9 May 2011: I say talk to her about it. She may be mad about you snooping but she still did something wrong. If she loves you and is just frustrated with the sex (sex is not everything so dont let it be) then you should maybe try pleasuring her other ways ... (read in full...)

He says slaggy looking girls are adding him on Facebook, but that's not true. Should I say something, again?

Q.   I've being going with a guy for nearly 7 months. We met over facebook. He lives in the same area as me, but I didn't know him. Hasn't being the easiest of relationships. He really gets to me about his facebook habits. He is adding girls all the time...

A.   9 May 2011: Even if it is just girls adding him he doesnt HAVE to accept he request. If this guy cant respect your wishes and quit accepting the request than he doesnt deserve you. You deserve better than a guy that doesnt respect you. You should talk to him ... (read in full...)

Please, can anyone suggest something I can do to get over him because I cant stand feeling like this.

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have split up. His ex kept getting involved and tried to split us up so many times and then started getting his babies mother involved and it got to be too much for him so he ended it. We are still in contact and he still say...

A.   9 May 2011: I would suggest finding something to keep you busy. Dont give yourself to much time to think about the situation. Go out with the girls again and just have fun. A rebound always helps to. And I have heard people go after a guy just as a rebound ... (read in full...)

Does everything need to be close to perfect before you propose?

Q.   I am in love with my girlfriend and she says she is in love with me. However, our relationship is not without problems. There are still a few complex issues we are working through with the help of a therapist, some of which are not directly...

A.   9 May 2011: I dont know how bad your relationship is currently. But just keep in mind there is not one relationship that is perfect. The perfect relationship exists only in movies. I say if you truly love her propose and let her decide she wont say yes if she ... (read in full...)

My best friend of seven years didn't want me at his 21st birthday party!

Q.   Hey guys, I am going to be as brief as possible, because I don’t want to take up your time. Basically, my friend turned 21 last week, he had a party with his flatmates, people from his course and a girl he has had a crush on, but he didn’t invite m...

A.   9 May 2011: I dont think your wrong for wanting to be there. I think it probably had something to do with the other girl. I mean think about it would you want your boyfriend hanging out with another girl alone, I know I wouldnt. He may have considered that and ... (read in full...)

He seems to be hiding something.........

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and for about the last year hes been very secretive about his phone. He never used to care if I messed around with his phone but now all of a sudden he does. I have questioned him about it a few ...

A.   9 May 2011: Thanks to all those who helped so far. I will give an update when possible..... (read in full...)

Stunningly beautiful girl, 28, never had a relationship: red flag??

Q.   Dear Aunts: I met this girl who seems real nice, sweet and down-to-earth from Europe (Poland). She seems to like me, flirts a hell of a lot, and I been thinking of asking her out. She is stunning, does some modeling, is here on a work visa. On...

A.   9 May 2011: Just because she is so beautiful doesn't mean she has to have a lot of boyfriends. She may have just never found the right guy some people are good at reading people early on. She may also be really self conscious and insecure which would make her ... (read in full...)

He seems to be hiding something.........

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and for about the last year hes been very secretive about his phone. He never used to care if I messed around with his phone but now all of a sudden he does. I have questioned him about it a few ...

A.   9 May 2011: To angel: Yes for the most part since he got a phone he has always pretty much kept it on vibrate, he says its because he has to keep it on vibrate at work and doesn't want to forget to put it on vibrate before work. The whole hiding the cell phone ... (read in full...)

He seems to be hiding something.........

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and for about the last year hes been very secretive about his phone. He never used to care if I messed around with his phone but now all of a sudden he does. I have questioned him about it a few ...

A.   9 May 2011: Thats exactly what I am worried about, cause I would hate to make a huge deal about it and its just something like him watching porn or something. As far his general behavior. I have noticed a lack in him wanting sex. Which I just thought had some... (read in full...)

He seems to be hiding something.........

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and for about the last year hes been very secretive about his phone. He never used to care if I messed around with his phone but now all of a sudden he does. I have questioned him about it a few ...

A.   9 May 2011: Omg. He ALWAYS keeps his phone on vibrate and alot of times when were cuddling or something I'll feel it go off in his pocket and he just says he will look at it later but I never see him look at it. Now I am even more worried. He always keeps it in ... (read in full...)

He seems to be hiding something.........

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and for about the last year hes been very secretive about his phone. He never used to care if I messed around with his phone but now all of a sudden he does. I have questioned him about it a few ...

A.   9 May 2011: No, my birthday isn't till september and it seems unlikely since this has been going on since before my last birthday. Thanks for the advice!... (read in full...)

We had a big fight. I need advice on what to do next.

Q.   Hey! Today we fight, me and my boyfriend "It's a big One." He started yelling and swearing at me. I didn't say anything. I told him I wanted to go, and he told me if you go, you will never talk to me AGAIN, and I told him THAT'S WHAT I WANT. Th...

A.   9 May 2011: Alot of times we say things out of anger. I dont know what this fight was about but things should never be left open ended. You should at least talk to him about what happened and try to see if you can work things out and if they cant be worked out ... (read in full...)

What should a girl my age look for in a relationship? I'm 14-15.

Q.   what should a girl at my age(14-15) look for in a relationship?...

A.   15 May 2008: I think you should take things slow and be really careful. Not to say all guys are douche bags but guys especially the ones at your age are very "excited" and they will do anything to get what they want. Even if this means breaking your heart. So I ... (read in full...)

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