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I'm depressed after my abortion.

Q.   im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ...

A.   5 November 2009: i had an abortion last week im still bleeding and cramp on my low abds, i need 2 ask you a question, how long did you bleed after ur procedure is it normal to bleed for more than 7 days, its light sometimes stops then comes again, dont have ... (read in full...)

Did he cheat with his child's mother?

Q.   sorry to write such a long story. i believe my bf cheated on me with the baby momma on saturday, i phoned him late that nyt the lady picks up and said my bf was asleep and cant speak to him, i hang up.. he called me the following day to say that ...

A.   28 October 2009: tx for the advice 1 i dont stay with him, he lives 2 hours away from me, he always phones me when he gets home, i will phone him in the middle neva heard,seen anything suspicious..it is the 1st this has eva happened in our relationship. i cant tok ... (read in full...)

I have cheated on my husband resulting in 3 abortions and now he wants a baby!

Q.   its been 10 weeks since my abortion im trying for a baby but it keeps coming negative.iv had 3 abortions. Due to careless behind my hubbys back.but now my hubbys really desperate for a baby.please help....

A.   27 October 2009: First and foremost you've put yourself and your husbands health at risk, havent you heard of condoms, havent you heard of hiv, sti, aids from one woman to the other clean up your ways. take responsibility of your own actions, before you do anything ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's beng beaten by stepfather

Q.   Hello I'm seeking advice I am 17 and my girlfriend is 15 we live about1,000 miles apart so we have a long distance relationship right now I'm moving down in roughly 6months. We are alot alike and I love her zoo much but lastnight she told me her ...

A.   9 March 2009: Mhh that sounds really hectic. But i think your girl rather go and open a case against her momma boyfriend, and again she should ask to stay with a relatives or child protection institution,hope they have one of those. those are 2 first steps sh... (read in full...)

My guy is very stressed about his life..how to help him?

Q.   Hello pips Sorry for the long story. just need to let it out here is the story. me and my ex got back together like 2 months ago, he is the one who actually initiated the get together thing, however i knew that he had a girlfriend, the intenti...

A.   9 March 2009: Thx for the response i guess i have to rephrase the question, him and the baby momma broke up long time ago(2yrs), before we got together, now the girl was someone he was seeing at the time we got together, who he met through friends... (read in full...)

He said we shouldn't date because he's friends of my ex

Q.   SO I have been seeing this guy for a while now.. last night we were making out and it lead to us almost having sex... we didn't have sex cause he couldn't get it up .. this has happened before where he has issues with staying erect.. I think this ...

A.   9 January 2009: 1 wrong for getting mad at this wonderfull guy. obviously he cherish his friendship with his buddy. secondly dont you know it is always a bad idea to get involved with a friend's ex, one is he might be thinking that you wanna date him to get b... (read in full...)

I just don't feel right being in a relationship right now, how do I let him down?

Q.   PLEASE HELP!! well i dated this guy in the 7th grade, we dated a little under a year.. we just started talking again, and he knows i have not been in a relationship in over a year, because my daughters dad left and i havent been ready.. well he ...

A.   9 January 2009: i went through the same as you, my baby daddy and i broke when i was only 6 weeks pregnant, that was in 2006, i felt that i needed to concentrate on my son, reason being when you are a mother things stops being about you but your baby. i t... (read in full...)

My g/f isn't over her ex

Q.   I am confused help with girlfriend? So basically my girlfriend has told me, im almost perfect and its weird almost unreal that i have came into her life so shortly after her ex,she says she likes me alot, and she doesnt want this to be a rebound,...

A.   6 January 2009: no this is definately not a difficult situation at all, well i think we all know the rule of not opening another before closing the other one, i suggest you just take time out and probably start off at a begginers stage take it one step at a tim... (read in full...)

Do I stay with her or do I run?

Q.   There's this amazing girl, mind blowing girl that I have fallen for. I was her first love and she was mine, without going into detail, she now has a boyfriend who she loves and I'm back out of the blue. She has admitted that she loves me and can...

A.   5 January 2009: love is the hardest thing that any human being can ever come i aross, im currently in a same situation as you, it is just that the person that is involved is the one who is iniating a relationship between us, i love him to bits he was my first ... (read in full...)

We agreed that the only way to stay together is to have a baby... should we do it??

Q.   ok ummm im 13 and my gf is 17 weve been together for nearly a year and i love her with all my heart ........do you think that its a big age diffrence for us? also her parents hate me so much! i cant talk to her anymore kuz they caught us having ...

A.   2 January 2009: what kids, you Aare still a kid yourself, look if you were meant to be fate will always keep you guys together, having a child doesnt mean you will always be together, thats definately a bad idea, dont have kids to hold on to them,if they want to ... (read in full...)

I know I need a new boyfriend. I am just never attracted to anyone. Am I depressed?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have dated off and on for twenty years. At some point, he married a woman and had more kids with her while having one with me. Needless to say, this has caused some rocky times. Basically, he has been juggling both of us this ...

A.   2 January 2009: that sounds more like what im going through, its a new year that means a new start, look people leave you because they are not joined to you and if thats the case,you cant make them stay, just like td jakes says,if someone cant see you worth,if ... (read in full...)

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