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I made the mistake of staying in contact with a female friend and didnt tell my GF, shes hurt I lied and ended it! How do I get the trust back!?

Q.   I met my girlfriend online and we've been together for about 3 months. When we first started going into an intimate relationship, sometimes I still hung out with another girl that I met online. I was not attracted to this other girl romantically but ...

A.   3 April 2007: Wow I just went thru the same thing with my fiance!! Except we have been together for almost a year. Look at my profile you will be able to read it all there. I still have no trust right now but he knows that and knows he has to earn it back. I can ... (read in full...)

I'll tell you what I think then you tell me what YOU think!

Q.   Well you know my other questions I asked. To add to that. My guy that only shaves once a week and gets the gray out of his goatee came home from work one day and stated he needed to dye it and shave. I didn't think much of it till he got up for work ...

A.   3 April 2007: Well things have been good so far. I do have the no trust wall up right now but I think he can earn it back. As long as he NEVER does this again we will be fine. I couln't and wouldn't put up with it a second time. Thanks for all your awnsers. It r... (read in full...)

He told me not to call, email, or talk to him in any way until he's ready. What shoudl I do about this?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. In the beginning, it was absolutely wonderful. We met online and talked for about 4 months before meeting. We live about an hour apart, and things were still great when we met, in fact things got ...

A.   17 March 2007: I was going to try and awnswer your question but I think irish49 gave you wonderful advise and I couldn't put it any better!!... (read in full...)

I am happy with him, but not with our sex life? What should I do?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for almost four years now.And our relationship is absolutly amazing except for one thing, we hardly ever have sex. If I'm lucky its 2-3 a week. I know it's been a while and i could kink the sex life a little but he ...

A.   17 March 2007: You have sex 2 to 3 times a week?? That isn't enough?? I only get it once or twice a week and I'm ok. I would be ever so happy with what you are getting lol Now on the seriuos side. Now If it isn't enough go get some toys etc. If you want to kink... (read in full...)

I am 4 years older than her and are only friends but would like to be more.... but don't know if it's wise?

Q.   I’m in a bit of a jam. I’ve been friends with a girl now for a couple of months and we get along real fine, she’s quickly become one of my best friends, but she’s 4 years younger than me and we’ve run into some issues involving our friendship. ...

A.   17 March 2007: Well you do need to stop as far as thinking you can be any more than friends. She is to young and you could end up in real trouble. As far as sneeking out bad idea. I have a 17 yr old daughter and if she was doing that I would be the one to go to ... (read in full...)

He fingered me and I noticed I was bleeding afterwards. What's wrong with me????

Q.   I just got fingered by my boyfriend, we have had sex a few time before but this time when I got home I found blood and we didnt have sex. I can't go to the doctors because I'm not allowed to be doing this. I'm really scared and would love it if ...

A.   17 March 2007: Ok I hope your being protected if you are as young as I am assuming. You need to calm down. It is normal if he was a little rough. Be careful dear.... (read in full...)

How can I tell him to wash more without embarrassing him?

Q.   I started dating a very nice bloke around 3 months ago, however lately I have started avoiding him as I cannot tell him what is bothering me and he is finding it very difficult as he doesnt think he has done anything wrong. I have found out that he ...

A.   17 March 2007: I think that he is dirty and it would bug me as well. As far as spending money he should not have cared if you spent some on family. You might want to sit and think.........Is this the kind of guy I could spend the rest of my life with??... (read in full...)

I don't know what to do for the best here, stay together or break up?

Q.   I want to go back out with him but I'm afraid that we are just going to keep breaking up. we've been going off and on for about 2 years and I've asked you several questions before and the answers really helped! Anyway should I just go back out with...

A.   17 March 2007: I think you need to have a long heart to heart before you decide anything. Get everything out on the table and then you both decide what to do together. Good luck!!!... (read in full...)

He blows hot and cold!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now.We live in the same house and are getting married. My question is Why does he not seem to care how I feel at times and other times he can be so sweet? I am not sure how to read him....

A.   8 March 2007: Ok I am wondering if saving our realtionship is worth the time. If something is bothering me I can't talk to him cus he just gets mad and yells.I got upset with him today and called him to tell him since we both have sunday off I would like to have ... (read in full...)

How do I get my man to get a higher libido!?

Q.   My boyfriend seems to have an usually low libido. When we do have sex it is always passionate, but we have it very infrequent, sometimes only once a month. When I ask him he'll say he doesn't want it to loose it's meaning or that he doesn't want ...

A.   7 March 2007: I have the same prob but we live together!! I wish I knew why. Mine clames he isn't sure why and every time i try to talk about it or anything that might be buggin me we fight. I know this may not help but knowing your not the only one does for me. ... (read in full...)

Shes always accusing me and saying Im lying, I want to safe this marriage, but how ?

Q.   My wife and I met about two years ago. After a few months, something told me "she's the one," and so I asked her to marry me. I am in the military, and I volunteered to be deployed a week after we were engaged. We got married and I deployed. The ...

A.   7 March 2007: Well I am not sue I am one to give advice but am in a simular realtionship. If you have lied to her in the past this could be why she don't trust you. If you have not then talk to her to find out why. I don't think you should go out drinking and ... (read in full...)

He blows hot and cold!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now.We live in the same house and are getting married. My question is Why does he not seem to care how I feel at times and other times he can be so sweet? I am not sure how to read him....

A.   25 February 2007: Not much better. I don't know if we are drifting apart or if it is just his job. How can loving sommeone so much hurt so much? Even when he has time alone with me he finds other things to do. Should I just give up? I don't know what to do. I am ... (read in full...)

He blows hot and cold!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now.We live in the same house and are getting married. My question is Why does he not seem to care how I feel at times and other times he can be so sweet? I am not sure how to read him....

A.   10 February 2007: Well he asked me to marry him and I said yes. Still have the same prob but I am hoping we can over come it. Like when we get upset with one another he will forget it the next day and I still want to talk about it. I am still upset sometimes. Shoul I ... (read in full...)

He blows hot and cold!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now.We live in the same house and are getting married. My question is Why does he not seem to care how I feel at times and other times he can be so sweet? I am not sure how to read him....

A.   17 January 2007: Thanks and answer to one of your questions is he asked me to marry him and it took a lot of talking to get me to say ok. I was the one scared. I have told him how I feel and it is ok for a month or two but then it starts again. I hope he knows how ... (read in full...)

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