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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend seems to have an usually low libido. When we do have sex it is always passionate, but we have it very infrequent, sometimes only once a month. When I ask him he'll say he doesn't want it to loose it's meaning or that he doesn't want to the roommate to hear (even though there is another room between his room and the roommates'). It makes me feel so ugly and unspecial. How do I help his libido?
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reader, tkay1032 +, writes (7 March 2007):
 I have the same prob but we live together!! I wish I knew why. Mine clames he isn't sure why and every time i try to talk about it or anything that might be buggin me we fight. I know this may not help but knowing your not the only one does for me. Maybe we can help eachother
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (7 March 2007):
 You are not ugly or unspecial but I can understand how you would feel this way. Often things just get into a routine and maybe he is afraid this will happen with your sex life. Maybe you should try and spice things up by trying having sex in other places or when his room mate isnt around. Maybe he is tired or stressed out which wouldnt help. Explain to him exactly how you are feeling and that you dont feel special. Maybe this happened in a previous relationship and he is trying to prevent it happening again.
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