20 year old straight employee got sexually involved with me, took money and favours from me, and now his wife is pregnant and he's changed his job. I feel terribly used, betrayed and hurt
Q. OK, here's one that has to top it all. I am a boss, I met this straight man 20 years old. I am 50. This is so crazy that it is hard to believe it happened. At any rate, I told him about me, and when I did, he said, well anything is possible for ...
A. 30 July 2011: Learn these lessons:-Never ever get into a relationship with anyone who is already in one.Never ever get into a relationship with someone you work with especially if you are the boss and vice versa.Life and love is hard enough without these ... (read in full...)
Dating for a year and never gone on a "date" yet!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We get along fine and time with just ourselves is great. We have never gone on a date yet. I've tried to plan 3 but always something came up with my bf and the date would be called off. Afte...
A. 30 July 2011: I have been in this situation once a long time ago.I was seeing a man I had known for years.We never went out on dates and he never took me home to his family.After many years i became pregnant and we moved in together.It was not a really good ... (read in full...)
Torn between two women...I don't know which one to choose and how to let the other one down
Q. Ok, I'm a 22 year old college student. I am torn between two women. I don't know which one to choose and how to let the other one down. They both have feelings for me and want to exclusively date. So I have classes with one of these girls 4 times a ...
A. 24 July 2011: Oh to be so wanted.Go for the one who is not moving away and you can talk to.Its obvious... (read in full...)
With him 10 year but he's a controlling man... how do I get out?
Q. Hi, my bf and I had been together for quite some time. First, we were long distance, then I moved in with him about 2 years ago. When I first moved in I didn't have any friends or family. I still don't have any family here, but I manage to find ...
A. 24 July 2011: Get out now dont waste a moment longer.Seriously why would you go to work and when you are off work go to his work.What kind of life is that.Thank goodness you havent had children with him.All the best.... (read in full...)
She is a snake and a liar, now she wants to ruin my life again. What do I do?
Q. my ex-sister in-law had an affair with my ex-husband while we were still married - now after i have been divorced for 10 years, my ex-sister in-law is now dating my new father-in-law (i remarried in 2006) and he is recently widowed (december 2010) ...
A. 24 July 2011: Let you father in law know about the history.Dont ever have her in your house.Dont go there if she is there.It wont last I believe.Stick to your guns but dont be nasty.All the best.
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I should be moving on but I can't!
Q. I can't get over my ex! We were together for so long and it ended to suddenly. Right now, I can't see myself moving on at all. For some reasons, he hates me right now. He's cut me out of his life completely and won't let me talk to him at all. He ...
A. 23 July 2011: You are wasting your energy on the past.Get out with your girlfriends and live.He is wrong to tell you what he is up to.It shows what kind of person he really is.Move on.... (read in full...)
What should I make of this? Is this going to lead to trouble?
Q. My boyfriend of three plus years and I have been broken up for 2 and a half months now because of a lot of stresses in our lives. I left him alone for a while and he started texting and calling me. We then started hanging out with each other and ...
A. 23 July 2011: Sounds like a wishy washy relationship to me.Is this all you want.You wont meet a person with more to offer while you make do.I have been in this situation myself and was unavailable for 2 years plus.In the end i couldnt even tell my friends why i ... (read in full...)
Did he really cheat on me?
Q. Hello! I am a female, 39 years old. My husband and i have been together over 23 years. We started dating at 16, and married at 25. I never cheated on him, and I believe he never cheated on me. We grew up together, experienced all,and we were so ...
A. 23 July 2011: He had an inappropriate relationship with a much younger woman.I cant imagine that they had a lot in common.He must have felt justified.She should also have known that you were being hurt by her involvemnt with your husband.You need to ask her about ... (read in full...)
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