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hey! im phoebe

i live to hep people rellyitsalways been my dream. At the moment i am currently taking an advice colllumn class along with psychology at college so i can understand more of your problmes to relate better.

If you need my help at all email me personally on

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failing that why not right to my page here at DearCupid! Im caring and considerate however i must inform you i only deal with relationship problems and advice on friendship and love. Im what you might say a romantic i live for love im all about love and i want to help you people

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How do I tackle this problem of watching too much porn?

Q.   hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, ...

A.   20 November 2009: You have nothing to worry about, it is perfectly normal for a guy to have an erection in the morning....in fact it is healthy if you do. As for lookingat naked women and porn thats normal to a certain extent. If you want to stop,, get rid of t... (read in full...)

I'm going out with someone new but I'm still in love with my ex!

Q.   Ok well I have posted a lot about a guy and its been over for a while now but I met this really good guy and he treats me like I deserve but I still feel that I really was in love with the last one. And real love doesn't come every day. I'm not ...

A.   20 November 2009: Now heres something i can relate to.... firstly, you will fall in love again, guareented. Give it time. Time is the greatest healer. Secondly, ask yourself do you have any feelings that could lead to more with this "good guy". I can tell you... (read in full...)

Should I come clean and tell him the truth?

Q.   Ok, I need some general help here, I am really into this guy, who says he's into me but nothing too heavy, I didn't want a FWB but it's what we have, all we have done is kissed and some oral, he now wants sex but I have told him I am not ready yet ...

A.   20 November 2009: Ok worries, heres the thing... you sound like too much of a nice person to lose something so precious as your virginity to someone guy who's guna treat you like a notch on his bedpost. You may be 27 but you dont want to waste time with someone ... (read in full...)

Please help me ask this girl out!

Q.   i have knowen this girl since 2005 we was good m8s in may-2007 i think she liked me and i like her but was to shy to ask her out then i left my school in the summer holidays(august). and saw her stil but not as much but as time whent on i saw less ...

A.   21 May 2008: firstly, if your already friends then you could maybe ask her as a friend and take some other friends with you, this way it sounds casual. If she enjoys the time she spends with you then maybe you should then ask her if she wants to go again ju... (read in full...)

Is there any way to boost my confidence and actually talk to him?

Q.   Well, I have getting over a lad who has a girlfriend for a while now. I still find him attractive but im doing all the things to stop me thinking about him which is gd :). Well, i have recently started noticing another lad in one of my college ...

A.   11 January 2008: Aww i wish i could tell uwhat you want to hear and tell you that there is a magic cure for lack of confidence but shamefully there isn't. you say your in his class? then do your friends know his friend, or is there a more confident friend of yours... (read in full...)

I have realised I love my ex but he is a friend of my boyfriend's so he would not cause him discomfort. Any future for us in these circumstances?

Q.   am going out with somebody currently he is good friends with my ex i just recently realised i think i love my ex and i dont think i like my boyfriend in tht way :S i was the one to break up with him. people say he still likes me still but ...

A.   11 January 2008: oh dear, that is always the way! you never realize you truely love someone until there truely gone. and the fact that their good mates doesn't help at all! really i think you need to talk to the guy you love and explain to him that you love him not... (read in full...)

She was taken aback when I revealed I was a transgender. Is it possible she still have feelings for me?

Q.   I really dont know where to start. About 2 years ago. I met the love of my life online, i told her i was man. We talked almost everyday, and emailed each other everyday. I never knew what was love was till she came into my life. A year and a half ...

A.   11 January 2008: don't worry im sure shes not ignoring you. and if she is, did u ever think that there may be another reason. Relationships can be hard enough to work alone without added surprises on the way... but if it is the true reason that she isn't talkin... (read in full...)

Why is he stringing me along? Is he using me or just being a player?

Q.   ok i really like this boy put it all on paper we are a perfect match but he likes this other girl he put in his msn addie "u can search th world but you can never find a girl like mine" i am heatbroken. but the thing is he says i am good looking ...

A.   11 January 2008: my heart goes out to you, it isn't fair what this guy is doing at all! but by what it sounds you have to face teh truth whether you like it or not, this guy sounds like he is looking for constant attention and your giving it to him. It doesn't ... (read in full...)

Did I do something wrong or are we just growing apart?

Q.   Hello. I'm 13, and I really like this guy I've known him since I was in kindergarden, but I don't know if he likes me, even as a friend anymore. We used to be to txt all the time but ever since my 13th. birthday he's been acting wierd. I had a huge ...

A.   11 January 2008: i remember being that age and i remember how it feels to really like them and to not know what they feel! it is frustrating! it sounds to me as if at your party he wanted to ask you something? whether it be asking you out or another personal... (read in full...)

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