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Hiya, I'm a female from the UK, and I'm quite young, so I guess I'm not really qualified to help anyone; but I'm quite understanding and I'm often told I give good advice =)

I like to talk to people, I like to listen, and I like to know how people feel; I'm a psychology student so I find peoples reaction very interesting =)

Let me know if you want a chat!

Why do men treat women like this?

Q.   I was with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I got treated bad (I know,I know why didn't I leave). I always felt something wasn't right about him. I tried to make him happy, wore my heart on my sleeve and tried even harder even though I couldn't do ...

A.   11 December 2010: Ok, first, it is NOT your fault! I can't believe people have been saying this is your fault for staying! When this happens to you, they take away your confidence, everything you have and you feel like you cant ... (read in full...)

Naked women...

Q.   I've been in a happy marriage for over twenty years. I've always known my husband has looked at some naked women pictures when years ago someone handed him a book and now with the internet, he receives emails w/jokes w/naked women, some of the ...

A.   11 December 2010: Cerberus I kind of agree with you, but I can understand why this woman is insecure about it. Girls; don't even pretend we don't masturbate over actors or tall dark strangers; because we do. Even when we're in ... (read in full...)

14 and never had a boyfriend! Help!

Q.   Please help! I'm a 14 year old girl, blond and brown hair, slightly attractive, nice figure, killer personality and yet I've never had a bf. I always fancy someone but I'm far too shy to ask them out and I won't let my mates ask them out for me. ...

A.   7 December 2010: Mate, I'm not gonna lie to you; you have got to slow down! I didn't have a boyfriend til I was 16 and I don't regret it at all! The older you are the more mature you can be in the relationship and the ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants me to have multiple orgasms

Q.   My GF seems to have some concerns over my semen volume and my orgasms lately. She says I sometimes do not cum very much, while other times I cum a LOT. I think she is being a little naive, as many of the times she says I dont cum a lot it is the ...

A.   7 December 2010: First; ignore all the advice from those males. How on earth would they know what's going on in a females mind?! I had this exact problem (the volume/orgasms, but not the multiple part) with my boyfriend when we ... (read in full...)

Should I lose my virginity? I hear so many horror stories.

Q.   Hi, i have a questions regarding the loss of my virginity. My Girlfriend of 9 months has asked if we can have sex, she knows i have always wanted to since we first started going out, now the oppertunity is here i dont know if there is any reason why ...

A.   4 December 2010: I think tennisstar has 2 valid points there. Obviously; some people do have sex under 16; because sometimes they're just ready. You need to sit down and have a SERIOUS think about whether or not the two of you ... (read in full...)

Is this a case of good girls finish last?

Q.   My boyfriend (and all my exs) have gone on and on about how wonderful my personality is, or how easy it is to just kick back and relax with me and how wonderful I am as a girlfriend. My current one said I made him feel like a king- thats how ...

A.   4 December 2010: I think thats inconsiderate of your boyfriend. I think you need to leave some very obvious hints; let him catch you looking at expensive jewellery online, or show him pictures of clothes you want; with an innocent ... (read in full...)

We are on date 6 plus having sex, I think he might be using me?

Q.   I have been seeing a guy for a month. We met on the internet, he's been to my flat, i've been to his. We have been sleeping together every time we meet up. We have also been going 'out'. dinner, cinema, art gallery, etc We have lots in co...

A.   4 December 2010: I understand how you feel; you feel like you're in for the long run, and he's in for the sex? Yes, you're perfectly entitled to feel used, and I think that the answer from "the walkin dude" was a little bit ... (read in full...)

Unsure of my sexual identity

Q.   I am so confused and i dont know how to handle this issue.i dont know if im straight gay or bisexual and i cant ask my friends becausetim afraid of what they will think.please help i dont knw what to do.can you help?x...

A.   4 December 2010: Ok, love, first of all, breathe. You are NOT alone! We all go through this =) It's a sucky time, your head is totally messed up and you're so confused by what you want and what you think is "right" or ... (read in full...)

Spit or swallow?

Q.   When giving a blow job is it better to spit or swollow? My boyfriend of 4 months has recentley asked me to give him a blow job, but im not sure whether to spit or swollow. I've heard it tastes horrible but if i spit, where do i spit? I really dont ...

A.   4 December 2010: You kinda have to reserve judgement until you start actually doing it. If he tastes average, or even nice, carry on and swallow if you feel like you can! If you don't want to swallow, ask him to let you know ... (read in full...)

I made a terrible mistake...

Q.   I made a terrible mistake... I got together with my classmate, who was my best friend, and I really really liked him. But my relationship with my ex didn't end "completely" because he said he would come back to me later, and I thought about him ...

A.   4 December 2010: Ok, sounds like you did make a bit of a mistake there my love; but you're 16/17. It's a bit early to be talking about soulmates isnt it? I know it feels like the biggest thing in the world right now; but you ... (read in full...)

Is Jason trying to get her jealous?

Q.   Ok well, first of all im using code names. Josh is friends with both katy and jason. Katy sometimes messes with josh in a friend way. So katy and jason told each other that they liked each other a week ago. So me, jason and katy hung out. While we ...

A.   4 December 2010: Ok, firstly, it sounds like Katy and Jason are a little immature. I think you need to talk to him; and ask him "who do you want; me or her?" And if he can't make up his mind, I think the both of you girls ... (read in full...)

Teenage Relationships: Girls

Q.   THIS INFORMATION IS FOR GIRLS!!!!!(and boys if you really want to). Girls if you are in a relationship you might want to read this. When in a teenager relationship girls tend to be pressured to do what they don't wish to do i.e sex. if you have ...

A.   4 December 2010: Ok, I think you may be being a touch dramatic abut some of that =P most schools wont automatically throw you out of school; most of them are very supportive of young girls that get pregnant. Also, if you are ... (read in full...)

Should I give up? Or give it time?

Q.   So there is this boy and he has a girlfriend, and we hooked up one night. And he is always smiling at me, and he told me he likes me, but he's still with her. And, she found out about us, and him cheating.. and she took him back again. And we hooked ...

A.   4 December 2010: If he's anywhere near good enough for you; and if he really wants you, he'll break up with her. If I was you; I wouldn't risk the reputation of hooking up with him again; a lot of girls could feel threatened ... (read in full...)

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