We broke up and now he's back...sometimes. I just don't know what it means!
Q. The short version I'm confused and need some advice. I'd been wiv my bloke for 9 years, known him for 22 He's 44, I'm 40 (we didn't live together). He lost his workshop (he has another job also that he doesn't like) and changed towards me getti...
A. 21 July 2005: No sweetheart it time to let it go. I think that if you cant take him on the phone with other women, then it to soon to be just friends. Give him all of his things and tell him that until you can get over him that he cant come by or call. Let him ... (read in full...)
I resisted him until I was sure...then he seems to have just stopped trying.
Q. I met a man about my age and we hit it off wonderfully. He lived about 2 hours away from me but we managed to get together for fun dates. He was handsome, polite, funny, charming and he treated me with utmost respect and he seemed genuine. We had s ...
A. 21 July 2005: I think that it just time to move on. Enjoy the memories of what you both share and move on. Remember that he was just an image of what you want and not the real thing. When the real thing comes along you will know it because he will still be there ... (read in full...)
We broke up, but my boyfriend still wants to sleep with me "to say goodbye"...
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and spent 3 years together...went through a miscarriage and lived together for a year. He worked overseas and after I lied to him about someone breaking into his car...he sought solace in a girl he met in his work place. Since ...
A. 21 July 2005: Do you think that if you sleep with him that it going to make things better? You dont have to say goodbye with sex. I think that you should tell him to loss you number and replace it with the one he is with now. Sweetie you dont have to do any thing ... (read in full...)
Once the baby was born, he realised he wasn't ready to be a father, but I want what we have to work!
Q. dear cupid I was with my partner for 3 years. We just had a baby seven months ago, which was planned. Now he has left me because he was never ready to be a father. We still live together, just until my new place is sorted. I really wanna...
A. 21 July 2005: Charmed,
I think that if he is not ready to be a father.. Then you should just let him go until he realized that he has a family that loves him and care for him. Until that time come sweetie you will have to be both mother and father. I not goin... (read in full...)
I texted him and asked if he'd be my boyfriend... but I haven't heard anything in 2 weeks!
Q. hello there I am 13 and I really like this guy who is 14. I recently asked him to be my boyfriend in a text message but he hasnt answered yet and it has been 2 weeks! Do you think he is too embarrassed to text me back or why hasn't he answer...
A. 28 June 2005: I think that it time for you to move on and don't waste you time waiting on someone! If he wanted to be your boyfriend trust me he would have called you by now.... (read in full...)
If he thinks I'm so hot, why won't he dump his girlfriend for me?
Q. Hi, Here's my problem, this guy I have known for about 4 years always flirts around me. He tells me I'm special, sexy, high up in his books and would make a great gf. He has even said he loves me but he has a gf. He has had this gf for the whole ti...
A. 28 June 2005: Why would you want him to dump his girlfriend for you? Don't you know that old saying?! If he did it to her he will and is going to do it to you? I think that you need to find your own boyfriend and leave other people's men alone. Remember that ... (read in full...)
Will my fiance's anger issues fade when he can get back to work?
Q. I am thirty-five, divorced, and I have three children and own my own home. I have a problem with my fiance. We have been engaged just over two years. Just after we got engaged, he moved into my house. He was then in a serious accident and was ...
A. 28 June 2005: No his anger won't fade! I think that it may get worse before it get better. Ask yourself: when he works is he a better person? I think that he is just hiding behide the fact that he is not work but there is something else that is really bothering ... (read in full...)
Neither of us wants to leave, even though I think our relationship is reaching its end...
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now but it has begun to feel like this relationship has reached its end but, neither of us want to leave or so I believe. Am I staying for the wrong reason when I just don't want to leave her and ...
A. 28 June 2005: I think that you should first see how she is feeling about you two. If she is thinking the same thing then I would say it time to end it and see other people. However just keep this in mind : You dont want to be hurt, and I hope that you dont want ... (read in full...)
He said he'd never get married again after his divorce, but where does that leave me?
Q. Hi. My boyfriend of almost a year is 35 and divorced (he married young and was divorced by the time he was 23). In general conversation the other day he mentioned that he will never remarry because he's 'been there and done that'. My problem ...
A. 21 June 2005: My 1st question to you is how long have you to been together? At what age do you want to get married? Ask yourself, what happens if I wait around? What am I gaining? I think that you should let him know that you are not her. 2nd give him a time f... (read in full...)
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