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writes: dear cupid I was with my partner for 3 years. We just had a baby seven months ago, which was planned. Now he has left me because he was never ready to be a father.We still live together, just until my new place is sorted. I really wanna make our relationship work. Please help me. He still loves me and he does not regret the baby.charmed Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, thats1foru +, writes (21 July 2005):
Charmed,
I think that if he is not ready to be a father.. Then you should just let him go until he realized that he has a family that loves him and care for him. Until that time come sweetie you will have to be both mother and father. I not going to say that it going to be easy at 1st but it dose get better with time. I know that if i can do it with 2 babys you can do it. Remember it take 2 to make a baby just like it take 2 to have a relationship. I feel if he is willing to walk out now, who to say that he want walk out when things get really hard??? I think it just time for you to love you and the baby. Until God say other wise! Just remember to pray at all times.
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