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He doesn't come and tell me what he's doing. Should we communicate more?

Q.   Hi...when you are in a committed relationship, do you think you should tell each other if you will be to work late, leaving work early, coming home late, or if you're going out to eat with a friend/business aquaintances of the opposite sex? My man ...

A.   5 August 2008: Well, I talked to him today and he told me what happened and he said he tried to call me but no signal. I'm sure there was an office phone to use instead of the cell. Well, I'm done whining about it so I need to chill and let things roll off me. ... (read in full...)

He doesn't come and tell me what he's doing. Should we communicate more?

Q.   Hi...when you are in a committed relationship, do you think you should tell each other if you will be to work late, leaving work early, coming home late, or if you're going out to eat with a friend/business aquaintances of the opposite sex? My man ...

A.   5 August 2008: Well, today it's past noon and he's not at work. Last night or this morning he never mentioned about having a meeting or whatever. I really want to get back at him and ignore him if he calls me today or come home late tonight w/o telling him, but I ... (read in full...)

He doesn't come and tell me what he's doing. Should we communicate more?

Q.   Hi...when you are in a committed relationship, do you think you should tell each other if you will be to work late, leaving work early, coming home late, or if you're going out to eat with a friend/business aquaintances of the opposite sex? My man ...

A.   28 July 2008: I talked to my fiance and he agrees that it is courteous to tell each other when there's a change in our schedule and he has no problem telling me this...there was an incident in question and he said he thought he told me he had a meeting...I was ... (read in full...)

He doesn't come and tell me what he's doing. Should we communicate more?

Q.   Hi...when you are in a committed relationship, do you think you should tell each other if you will be to work late, leaving work early, coming home late, or if you're going out to eat with a friend/business aquaintances of the opposite sex? My man ...

A.   24 July 2008: Hey everyone...were you guys responding to me or someone else? ha I probably wrote too much. Basically..we are in love w/each other and want to get married, but I get angry when he doesn't tell me he's going out to breakfast with his woman friend, ... (read in full...)

He doesn't come and tell me what he's doing. Should we communicate more?

Q.   Hi...when you are in a committed relationship, do you think you should tell each other if you will be to work late, leaving work early, coming home late, or if you're going out to eat with a friend/business aquaintances of the opposite sex? My man ...

A.   24 July 2008: Hi thanks for your response. when he leaves work early, he usually doesn't come straight home.He has a meeting or does errands or whatever and then he'll come home after it. Last night he left work early and never told me and when I got home he ... (read in full...)

My mother forced me into an abortion and banned em from seeing my boyfriend, how do I tell her I want a baby and I'm back with my boyfriend?

Q.   hi, I am 17 and my boyfriend has just turned 19. We have been together for 2 years nearly. I got pregnant december 2007 and found out on January 4th 2008. My boyfriend and i had been discussing how we wanted a family one day and marraige. We were ...

A.   12 June 2008: First I want to say how sorry I am this happened to you and your bf. It was a loss for the both of you, and the fact he is wanting to still stay with you after losing the baby tells me he really loves you. We can't choose our parents and back in ... (read in full...)

My BF is a very abusive person, swears at me and even tried to strangle me. Is he iterating his father's violent behaviour?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have always had a great relationship but recently he's started to sort of bully me..ie pushing me pull my hair etc, nothing to serious. However, the violence seemed to escalate further just last week as we had been out at a pa...

A.   12 June 2008: He's very passive aggressive, where one minute he's nice and the next he's abusive. You know, extremes. He's lucky that you're sticking by him, but he needs to work out his anger and drinking problems before you can have a relationship with him. ... (read in full...)

Do you think I should speak to my boyfriend about my lesbian fantasy? He has suggested a FMF before...

Q.   I really want to have a lesbian experience just to see if I am bi or not At the moment I'm with a wonderful guy but feel myself fantasising about women more and more. I've always felt this way really, when I was about 12 or 13 I used to play a g...

A.   11 June 2008: Ha..my fiance wants to watch me and another woman..and he suggested a lesbian he had sex w/before! I have to admit watching women is a turn on- hey we're sexual beings-but actually going through w/it could cause a lot of problems. It is a fantasy to ... (read in full...)

I'm only with my wife for the sake of my children. I don't want to hurt anyone, but...

Q.   Hi everyone, I have a big issue in my life right now, I am 45 years old and have been married for 15 years and have 2 wonderful teenage daughters, the thing is i no longer love my wife and we do not get on at all, i have stayed in the family home ...

A.   11 June 2008: Please give an update. Thanks... (read in full...)

Symptoms of pregnancy? Can anyone advise me?

Q.   I need Advice!! After my period last month, i got bleeding again which lasted 2days and then went away. It was light and not painful. I was 12 days late for my next period. I normally get my period on the 29th of every month, i currently have my ...

A.   11 June 2008: Go to the doctor and get another pregnancy test. You may be pregnant or you may be having other serious problems. Don't wait, get it checked out now. ... (read in full...)

Should he be friends with his sex buddy from school now that we're back together?

Q.   My current boyfriend and I have been together on and off for 4 years as of yesterday. I broke up with him a few months ago because we were in college and I wanted to pursue other things. School finished and summer started. One day he called out of ...

A.   11 June 2008: Sounds like he's got a friends w/benefits there. I wouldn't like him talking w/her either because it hasn't been that long since their last encounter. You guys have been on and off for four years and it doesn't sound like you two have been really ... (read in full...)

She begged me to forgive her and clarified he had only been a friend... now I act as normally but in reality I am very concerned!

Q.   Please help, I have been seeing someone now since around Jan '08, she is currently going through a divorce and has an 8 year old son who I get on with very well. I have never had any doubt that things were going well between us. In fact things h...

A.   11 June 2008: I have been w/my bf for only 8mos and we've been engaged for about 3mos. I only went out w/a few guys since my divorce, but since he's been single a lot longer, he's had many gf's and lovers, so I struggle w/wanting to check his messages and wanting ... (read in full...)

My BF is a very abusive person, swears at me and even tried to strangle me. Is he iterating his father's violent behaviour?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have always had a great relationship but recently he's started to sort of bully me..ie pushing me pull my hair etc, nothing to serious. However, the violence seemed to escalate further just last week as we had been out at a pa...

A.   11 June 2008: Very sad. Your bf needs help. I think the past is catching up w/him and you are going to get the brunt of it. If you really care about him and yourself you need to tell him you will not be treated this way and you two cannot be together unless he ... (read in full...)

My ex says he will marry me now but only if I let him have anal sex!

Q.   my ex bf wants me back now that I have a new bf, he is a good guy and while we lived together I had everything, except marriage and kids, he wants to give that now, but wants me to have anal sex with him, he says if I do not do it he won`t be able ...

A.   10 June 2008: He sounds like a loser. You deserve better than that. If you give into him, then he'll use you and dump you.... (read in full...)

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