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My friend wants me to have a threesome with him and his brother.

Q.   Um...my friend(who I really like) wants to try and have a threesome with him, me, and his brother. I agreed but now nervous. I really like him but I don't want him to think I'm just the type whose up from anything. He told me, he wouldn't mind going ...

A.   21 August 2012: A threesome with his brother? No way, don't do it, that's just weird and you will only ever be the chick they did a three way with. He'll never go out with you then. He sounds gross to me. He wants to do it with his brother? O_o Weird!... (read in full...)

I texted I love him and now he is ignoring me.

Q.   I have been with my bf for 2 years now and the other morning I texted I love you my friend and he is ignoring me now. Im so hurt why the hell would he do that. Its not like I asked hime ti marry me or anything. ...

A.   21 August 2012: That's weird! Did you call him or anything like that? Maybe he broke his phone? I dropped mine in the road a couple weeks ago, it took me 2 days before I could get in to get a new one. I posted on FB that it was broken. Can you ask him by email ... (read in full...)

What is wrong with him, if he wants me back, why does he keep doing this stuff in my house?

Q.   Maybe I'm crazy, but I always thought there was an unwritten rule that its wrong to get with one of your ex's friends. My boyfriend and I have been broken up officially for almost a year, but after six months we got back together and were seeing ...

A.   18 January 2011: Why don't you just move out? Then you wouldn't have to see him any more. You didn't answer any of my questions. Just leave when he shows up. Go to someone elses house or go clubbing or something. If you dumped him then he's trying to get back at ... (read in full...)

Mom, it's all about her!

Q.   Hi guys again! Ive been struggling a little with something and I just wanted to get some more brainpower at work on this, maybe you lovely aunts can help me out again. I’ve come to realize I really don’t much like my mother. She’s manipulative and...

A.   18 January 2011: Thank you all. @chickpea, I am sorry to hear about your mom. That is very sad. It sounds like you had a good relationship. My mom would find a way to make you think that it was something I did or didn't do, that gave her cancer, you know? Sorry for ... (read in full...)

This girl is hitting on me and I need more time, what should I do?

Q.   I don't know, to be honest I have no idea at all what I'm thinking. You see there was this girl hitting on me in the campus, she started with a little chit chat on facebook then advance to text messages from the number she got from my friend. ...

A.   18 January 2011: Dude, there's no way it's your fault the last girl freaked out and went on a sex romp. That's a pretty big ego thing you've got going if you think your saying no to a girl ruins em for life. She was just weird to begin with, just stop taking that ... (read in full...)

Should I try to start this relationship or wait until we can be around each other?

Q.   So here it is guys. I have been talking over the phone with this guy for a few years now and I have just recently realized how much I care about him but what can I do? we live 5 1/2 hours away from each other and to top it off I've never seen him in ...

A.   18 January 2011: Hey, how old is this guy? And how old were you when you started talking on the phone? Itd be really creepy if he was like 52 and liked girls really young. That would be seriously weird. And if he lives so far away, how did you meet up in the first ... (read in full...)

What is wrong with him, if he wants me back, why does he keep doing this stuff in my house?

Q.   Maybe I'm crazy, but I always thought there was an unwritten rule that its wrong to get with one of your ex's friends. My boyfriend and I have been broken up officially for almost a year, but after six months we got back together and were seeing ...

A.   18 January 2011: Why is your brother still hanging out with your ex? And why are you living with your brother? Are you in your parents house? Get out! Get your own place and you won't have to put up with this sh#t. Your ex doesnt want you back, don't believe rumo... (read in full...)

Should I tolerate this madness or just call it quits?

Q.   Help me. my girlfriend and I have been having so many problems. for one she had a lot of guy friends that flirted w/her on her facebook "that picture can bring a man to his knees" "I miss you, love you punkass" "those eyes I never get to see" etc ...

A.   2 January 2011: Get out of there! She sounds like a psycho and a cheater dude, run! There are so many better people out there. Bad idea to Be living with this girl , you wind up with no options. Go find another place to live and go back to just dating the girl if ... (read in full...)

Why do people think they can talk down to you, just because you're serving them food!

Q.   Hi guys just a random question. Since I was 14 Iv worked in fast food to aupport myself and help out my family. I'm currently in uni and online o graduate with a first. But why is it that people think they can speak to you like crap just cos your ...

A.   2 January 2011: Because some people need to make others feel bad so they can feel better about their pathetic boring lives! I know just how you feel. Don't let the b*st*rds grind you down! xx... (read in full...)

Family expcting too much? Free babysitting vs. New city!

Q.   Hi ya’ll, so here’s the question. It’s my first winter in my new city and I’ve worked long and hard to get here. I’m not making much money yet and it’s a struggle sometimes but I have a plan and I have a job and that’s saying more than a lot of ...

A.   2 January 2011: Thank you both, I held firm and stuck to my plan. The weather however made other plans! I got back 3 days after the original plan but what can you do. So the nephew was cute and I managed to enjoy it. Mom is crazy but I knew that. I am soooo happy ... (read in full...)

Says he's not having sex with her, is he using me for sex?

Q.   i have been dateing having sex with a man for 12 years he has been dateing his girl for about a year and a half he tell's me that he his not having sex with her but hs spen the night and go out of town with her is he useing me just for sex. ...

A.   20 December 2010: Twelve years?!?! And now he has a new girl?!? What are you, his ok'd girl? No, this is wrong! Does he know how you feel about him? If he does then girlfriend you have let him get away with this! If you want to be his only girl then you have to stic... (read in full...)

Are there clues to find guys who prefer small boobs?

Q.   How can I find guys who prefer small boobs over big boobs? I have small boobs, and I'm tired of always finding guys who prefer and like big boobs better, but who "don't mind" small ones. Yeah, I know I'm insecure, but I can't help it, and I always ...

A.   20 December 2010: Honey, where exactly is your country? Get your self to the biggest city, get your self the biggest job you can find and stop settling for ordinary! You need a good dose of some self confidence, bless your heart. Your not sexy if some dude declares... (read in full...)

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