Near menopause... help!
Q. Hello ladies in menopause or pre-menopause. Could you please help me, if you have any good ideas for me. Well, I still get my period, but getting close to finishing soon I guess. But I have 2 very disturbing problems, and I wonder, if anybody here ...
A. 23 January 2010: Some of my friends said they took saw palmetto and/or zinc when they were perimenopausal and they had very few problems. Saw palmetto and zinc both block the enzyme that converts testosterone to 5-hydroxy-testosterone (5HT). Testosterone occurs at ... (read in full...)
What is your definition of respect?
Q. I am in a relationship with a man who calls me the C word often for "acting like one". He feels this acceptable, am I missing something here? Men please describe your level of respect for and what kind of person fits the label? Ladies please let ...
A. 17 January 2010: Calling someone degrading names is never acceptable! There is absolutely no excuse for it. That he feels it to be acceptable is a warning flag of worse yet to come. Admit it now or be sorry later: He is an abuser. If someone called me a ... (read in full...)
I tried to help a victim of violence but she's left and I don't know where she is
Q. I need some advice. I met this random girl one day i saw her walking down the other side of the street and i called to her and told her she was cute and she stopped, so i went over and started talking to her, but when i got close i could tell she...
A. 15 January 2010: I don't know what is the "right" thing to do but here goes...Contact your nearest resources, crisis & counseling center to find out what services they offer. Pick up some of their literature & leave it around for your friend to see; maybe she'll ... (read in full...)
Can one cultivate a sexual attraction?
Q. Can one cultivate sexual attraction? If possible what steps need be taken and what are the odds of a positive outcome? ...
A. 12 January 2010: You can cultivate healthy self-esteem, confidence, a healthy sense of humor, interest in other people. Be interesting yourself, develop your own interests. Become a good friend. Be a good conversationalist. Take good care of yourself. These ... (read in full...)
Can stress and being physically and emotionally abused affect my pregnancy?
Q. I just found out that I am pregnant...about 5 weeks. Not in a healthy relationship, please don't lecture about the relationship, I know what I need to do. What I need is advice from people who have been through this before. I was hit in the l...
A. 12 January 2010: Yes. The stress of an unhealthy relationship puts you in an unhealthy hormonal state-for both you and the baby. This unhealthy hormonal state can, does, and will affect the physical and brain development of your child and can cause problems for ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with ANY guy?
Q. should i have sex with any guy. i am always horny and i am always chanting online with guys and it always end up with we talking about sex should i hook up with this guy....
A. 12 January 2010: No. Being horny all the time is a symptom of our modern sex-saturated culture. Everywhere, every day we are inundated with overt and covert sexual images and suggestions. But it's all an illusion. Learn to screen out the titillation factor and ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my online friend I like him even though he has mental issues?
Q. I have a good friend in Canada who I met online a few years ago. I would have to say he's one of my best friends, and as I've gotten to know him, I sort of developed a crush. Problem is, he's Canadian, and I'm American. He's 27 and I'm 18. He also ...
A. 12 January 2010: Schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, major depression...These are called MAJOR MENTAL DISORDERS for a reason. Schizophrenia is a chronic, deteriorating, debilitating disease. There is no cure. I feel sorry for all the schizophrenics out there (2% of ... (read in full...)
What do I do about this online, long distance guy that just wants friendship?
Q. I like this guy so much that I'm jealous. :( I've known this guy for a a year and he's helped me through so much, he's like a best mate, the only problem is that he lives in Edinburgh which is 200 miles away from me, a few months ago we started ...
A. 12 January 2010: I agree with the Dark Knight: You have a lot of growing up to do. Let this be a lesson to you: Never lie. Abraham Lincoln said "No man (or woman) is smart enough to keep track of all the lies he tells." It's just wrong and sooner or later ... (read in full...)
Signs of a player?
Q. I need advice!! I have pushed myself to get back into the dating world. I went online and never thought I would meet someone I would fall for and BAM! Two weeks ago I met a man and we have been emailing 24/7. We have clicked. We have exchanged ...
A. 12 January 2010: He sounds like my friend (see my Q why do guys lie on social network sites). Drop him like a hot potato! He's not honest & he's not ready to be faithful to one girl. Good thing you figured this out early! You are pretty smart yourself! You can ... (read in full...)
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