Girls: What did she mean? "We are too close for anything like that to happen."
Q. Hi there, i'd love a lovely lady to please translate this into male speak, "We are too close for anything like that to happen." Was in relation to a date. To me that seems like a perfect reason to try dating but apparently women don't think like...
A. 22 October 2011: Youre quite possibly in the friend zone, no romantic interest :(... (read in full...)
Do I have trust issues? My G/f blames me for being upset at her, due to her exchanging flirty texts with guys.
Q. i just found out that my girl friend is exchanging dirty messages and flirts on the phone with a guy she says is her friend. i asked her about it and she got all defensive n blamed me that i had trust issues,plz help....
A. 22 October 2011: First of all if you two are together she shouldnt be sending messages like that to another guy. Should she be placed in your shoes she wouldnt like it either, and if it truly wouldnt bother her Id say shes not committed to you. You may have tru... (read in full...)
I like my teacher but I know its a bad thing!
Q. Hello. I need some advice. I'm a teenager, and I SWEAR I have the HUGEST crush on my teacher. Its like a crush from elementary school, that's what kind of crush I have. I looove his personality. He tells us a lot of stuff... But I think its a bad ...
A. 19 October 2011: Stay far away from that situation. It could ultimately cause much damage for him personally and in his career if anyone ever suspected something happening. You are much too young to be in a relationship with someone in that age group. Although you ... (read in full...)
He doesn't feel the same, I love him
Q. I want to tell a guy i,ve been dating I love him but I know that will finish us dating 4-5 months now and I really love him and I know he doesn't feel the same. How can I approach this with him or should I leave it alone...
A. 19 October 2011: Some people develop stronger feelings for the other quicker than others. If you know he doesnt feel the same way and it could end your relationship telling him you love him then I say why rush? You arent going to get the response you would like just ... (read in full...)
What do you think, is it over? What would you do?
Q. Dear Cupid My question links on from this previous question... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/our-relationship-was-amazing-and-now-i-need.html Basically I gave my gf space for five days. Come Saturday I left her a voicemail saying I ho...
A. 18 October 2011: I think you just need to ask her. Tell her your feelsings for her but if she doesnt feel the same way at least let you know and that you will respect her decision. Sounds like either shes unsure about having a relationship or doesnt want one. Either ... (read in full...)
B/f wants to give me oral sex but I feel insecure about it
Q. Hi :) So just wanted to talk about a problem im having and hope you guys can offer some reassurance.. Iv been dating a guy for about 3 months now and its all going great. we've been sleeping together for about a month now and really care about ...
A. 18 October 2011: I say go for it. I too had the same problem and thought it was gross for a guy to be down there. He would tell me the same thing, "i just want to please you" and honestly they arent lying. The first time you try it, it will definately be hard to ... (read in full...)
Is getting him back a realistic aim? My bf went back to his wife, will he ever come back to me?
Q. I am 29, 5 months pregnant. My bf left me after I called him COWARD because he was too afraid to show his face to my parents and stand up for our baby. After a day, his sister told me that he's gone back to his wife. I am in so much pain right no...
A. 18 October 2011: Okay so I agree to some extent with the other comments however I do think you need to give him the opportunity to be in your childs life without immediately dragging courts into it as that can also be a painful process...he may not want to be ... (read in full...)
Started thinking about a baby
Q. I am 26 years old with NO kids, recently like the past couple months i have been thinking of wanting a baby. But then i think 'not every women is meant to be a mother,' I still have at least 5 years of my life i want leave to myself and my man. I ...
A. 14 October 2011: You definately need to have a serious talk with him before deciding. Not one of those beat around the bush conversations where its implied or hinted. You need to be straight forward. The questions to ask on the first answer to your question are all ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I don't think its a good idea for him and his kids to stay in my flat without offending him?
Q. My boyfriend of 1 year has 2 kids, 9 and 11, who live with their mom and they are going to stay with him for the holiday in December. He’s living with his elderly mother and father for financial reasons – he had to give up his flat because he could ...
A. 14 October 2011: This can become a very sticky situation depending on the demeanor of your bf and how he reacts to things. He definately could take it offensive because after all those are his kids and its natural. I think regardless of the fact that there arent ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to trust him even though I have no reason not to
Q. This might be long so ill get straight to it. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, but I have serious trust issues. He hasn't done anything to make me not trust him but I don't. Truth be told o trust no one. Especially men. Today we spent the day ...
A. 14 October 2011: I definately think its okay to casually ask who was on the phone without sound like a jealous girlfriend. I think if you just casually said who was that sounds like he would tell you especially since he didnt hide the call. Most men that cheat try ... (read in full...)
Should I take a stand? It seems like she overreacted.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for three-years. Although about three-months ago, she had to move to Salt Lake City for her family (her mom is sick and she needed to be there for her). I was fine with it, even though I live in Portland ...
A. 14 October 2011: If you are that sick and on medication what would be the benefit of going down there just to make the little time you have together miserable. I say stay home get rest and Im sure when she calms down she will understand it is what was best. Us girls ... (read in full...)
She had sex before we met, now I can't trust her.
Q. Hi everyone. I need some advise on what I should do. I have been with this girl for the last 5 years. The problem is that I cant resepct her or do anything nice for her. She has a past, she lost her virginity when she was 15 years old and stayed in ...
A. 14 October 2011: Well it seems like the problem is with you not her. As you get older you will realize many women have had sex before they met you. Just because she made a mistake at a young age doesnt define who she is now or her feelings for you. If she has never ... (read in full...)
How do I stop looking for a problem when it isn't there?
Q. I've taken a partner back after he had an affair - we are on a new road and taking back to our relationship. My problem is trust I keep looking in his phone and checking texts messages, this is my issue and I want to stop it. I recently sent a txt ...
A. 14 October 2011: Getting past the insecurities and trust issues is very hard. I too was cheated on and I continue to struggle with it and check his phone, internet, etc. Counseling would be a good start to work through it and if hes willing go for it. In time trust ... (read in full...)
Am I not fulfilling him if he's watching this category of porn?
Q. Ok here is the deal. My fiance has an obession of black porn. I am asian and average looking women. All I see is ebony categories. There was one porn where he had watched a white guy and a black girl porn. I had confronted him about if he likes ...
A. 14 October 2011: I dont think that by watching a particular ethnicity of porn means you arent fulfilling. He may enjoy watching it but unless he is doing more than that he comes home to you right? My fiance watches alot of hispanic porn and Im white, Ive come to ... (read in full...)
Why is he talking to women online and getting nude pictures?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for 4 yrs now and have two young children together, one just two months. I recently found him on a website and his profile shows single looking to meet. i also found pics of another girl, some nude, on his phone. ...
A. 13 October 2011: Our sex life is actually good...it was the usual for some time but for a while now Ive tried to do things differently for him. We had a long talk about this and I think maybe he feels the need to still know he has "game" for lack of better words at ... (read in full...)
Why is he talking to women online and getting nude pictures?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for 4 yrs now and have two young children together, one just two months. I recently found him on a website and his profile shows single looking to meet. i also found pics of another girl, some nude, on his phone. ...
A. 12 October 2011: I am reading the responses and although I know leaving would be the right thing to do why am I having such a hard time?? I used to be a much stronger person and he found all my weaknesses...i fell hard for him and quickly four yrs ago. I confronted ... (read in full...)
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