I feel like I am already married but I want to be free. Do I end this relationship?
Q. Hi everyone. Please bear with me and try to read this, or at least most of this, because I need some objective advice. I am a nineteen year old girl and I have been dating my bf for a year. We see eachother once a month although he lives 15 minutes ...
A. 16 March 2013: Hello Fatherly Advice, i tried to break up but he burst out crying saying how much he loves me and begging for a second chance. I gave him one. He says i never clearly told him what i feel, and he said the reason he wanted to work so hard on his ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's female friends had got us to break up before and I am constantly stressed out.
Q. Dear cupid, I'm in quite a confusing and sticky situation. I love my boyfriend dearly and we have a great relationship, although I'm completely stressed out all of the time. I'm not necessarily stressed out because of my boyfriend, but more so ...
A. 14 March 2013: Unless you are doing something wrong in the relationship, your bf must never listen to jealous female friends, who probably want him(they flirt with him sometimes). To be honest, i have thought of breaking up with a bf I had because a guy friend ... (read in full...)
Does he like me? I really like him!
Q. Hi, So I really like this guy and he knows because my frend told him he talks to me as if nothing had happened and he is really sweet. Today I was talking to him and he laughed at all my stupid jokes and the rest didn't. He said today that every ti...
A. 14 March 2013: Hi there:) so far, his behaviour seems very friendly, and its hard to tell whether he likes you or not.. Seems like he likes you as a friend for sure though because he treats you very nicely, and usually,guys dont treat a girl that way unless she ... (read in full...)
My married boss and I have feelings for each other. How can I end this without leaving my job?
Q. Dear Cupid ,this guy at work we have the hots for each other. Problem being he is married and he is the boss to a certain extent. He and I went on conversating with one another talking about the ages of my kids and so on so forth then all of a sud...
A. 16 February 2013: Be strong and persistent in your decision, work against your lust, he is a married man!! His wife will be the one he sleeps next to at then end of the day, not u! This lust is just a phase, it will fade away when you adapt yourself to thinking that ... (read in full...)
How do I end this love, which I discovered is not "love" at all?
Q. Dear agony aunts I have been feeling very miserable for 2 weeks now, and I'm afraid I have no more tears to spare. I have been in a relationship with my bf for one year now, and I have loved him for 2 years. What I thought was love, appare...
A. 16 February 2013: Thank you very much, however i felt the need to clarify further. He has been sweet and nice to me when we started the relationship, although he is controlling..he was never violent with me, but i feel that he is manipulating me emotionally, and ... (read in full...)
How do I end this love, which I discovered is not "love" at all?
Q. Dear agony aunts I have been feeling very miserable for 2 weeks now, and I'm afraid I have no more tears to spare. I have been in a relationship with my bf for one year now, and I have loved him for 2 years. What I thought was love, appare...
A. 16 February 2013: Agony aunts, where are you when i need you? As you can see in my column, i take my time to answer several questions, i really need any kind of explanation or encouragement, please. Thank you... (read in full...)
My ex has a new girl in his life, but I really can't help how I'm feeling right now after we flirted. What can I do?
Q. My ex boyfriend now has a new love interest, which is fine by me. My ex and I are still good friends. On Valentine's day, we was playing fighting over this teddy bear, so we was in close proximity, the closest we've been in since we broke up and ...
A. 16 February 2013: Hi, your ex has a new girl in his life, so it appears that he successfully moved on. Well, naturally, he misses you and still cares about you, and so do you. However, do not allow him to flirt with you or manipulate you. Firstly, put yourself... (read in full...)
Should I just flirt with this other woman and tell her it can't go further? Trouble is I love my partner but the sex could be better.
Q. I need advice for a problem I'm having. I. engaged to be married to my lovely partner. She looks after me, is caring, loves me, and I love her lots too. There is no doubt in my mind that I am doing the right thing marrying her. The only thing ...
A. 16 February 2013: I understand you and your partner are both open minded in the relationship, and I am sure she would feel pretty hurt knowing you feel like this, but are not telling her. Be true to your partner. Do not even contemplate cheating. Please. Talk to ... (read in full...)
After his friends bailed on him, b/f decided to spend Valentine's Day with me. I'm hurt that I'm his 2nd choice!
Q. My boyfriend made plans for valentines with his friends, and forgot to tell me. I found out, and asked him to re-schedule. He said he is busy with friends the whole week. I got upset. He said we could do it next week. Then he called, saying h...
A. 14 February 2013: Im sorry, but you have quite an inconsiderate unthoughtful bf at your hands. How could he choose his friends over you on valentines day, and especially when he knows that valentines day means so much to you? Valentines day meaning nothing to him is ... (read in full...)
Should I be upset that he wants to go out for our Valentines dinner at the weekend?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for about 6 months. Now its valentines day..i know he is trying to save money for a house and i am not materialistic in the sense where i expect us to go out to dinners all the time..i even contribute towar...
A. 14 February 2013: Hi, i agree with the person who answered before me, it is natural to feel a bit disappointed, but do not make a big deal out of it. I am a girl in a relationship, and I'm alone today because my bf and I have finals tomorrow and we have to study, a... (read in full...)
My partner cheated on me 6 months ago and I cant get over it, will the pain ever go away?
Q. hi my partner of 20 years cheated on me with a woman he met on the internet, we live in Australia she lives in America. they used to play cards i would walk past and they would be chatting i would try and look at what they were saying but when i ...
A. 14 February 2013: Hi, i am extremely sorry to hear what you have been going through, and i can truly tell you that he does not deserve a woman like you. You have been in a relationship for 20 years, and he obviously needed a change, but sadly, he sought it elsewher... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was cheating on me online and has some fetishes I never knew about, how do I get through this so we can work things out? I'm so scared of getting hurt again....
Q. Wondering if anyone can give me some much need advice and reassurance, I am really hurting and not sure where to turn for help! My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years we have a 7 month old baby girl, I love this man desperately and want to ...
A. 14 February 2013: Hi, im sorry to hear about your apprehension and fear but here's what. Apparently your man has a high sex drive.. Are you satisfying him sexually? Are you creative and not routinal in bed? Is there something new you havent tried? Are you keeping ... (read in full...)
Would you help your ex raise a child from another woman? He says we can't get back together except as friends
Q. ok, has anyone ever encountered this before? my husband, well ex now once asked if he went and got someone pregnant would i help him raise it? i told him no im too old i have already raised my children. oh we could not have any together because of a ...
A. 14 February 2013: Put your feelings aside, and think with your mind, this man is using you, and is taking advantage of your love for him! This is called manipulation if he knows you love him, which makes it even worse!! How in the world is it your fault to end up ... (read in full...)
Am I right to be upset that my BF is going to be roommates with a girl he used to date?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have our up and down in our relationship. We have just recent got back together and this time it really feels like things are going great and it's really working. However the timing is bad. Just yesterday he told me that his...
A. 14 February 2013: Hi, well its a sticky situation indeed, and i've had to deal with minor situations concerning jealousy, but definitely not as complicated as this!
Well, you should keep in mind first of all, that he is in need of finding a roommate. IN NEED. But,... (read in full...)
Is this a "no harm, no foul" situation or is this the kind of thing I'll probably end up regretting?
Q. So, here's the situation. While I welcome any opinion I would very much like some female input. There's this girl I was working with (we both got laid off very recently) who I'm quite attracted to and really enjoy spending time with her. She ha...
A. 14 February 2013: Hey, i can tell you that this girl is unhappy and unfullfilled in her relationship judging by all her attention and evident interest. Most probably this girl's bf isn't giving her much attention and she misses being wanted in addition to being ... (read in full...)
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