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writes: Dear cupid, I'm in quite a confusing and sticky situation. I love my boyfriend dearly and we have a great relationship, although I'm completely stressed out all of the time. I'm not necessarily stressed out because of my boyfriend, but more so because of his friends. There's a lot of drama within the friends, even more specifically a couple of female friends of his don't like me and have tried to get us to break up, they talk bad behind my back and even flirt with him sometimes. I don't think my boyfriend would flirt back but you never know for sure. My boyfriend has even listened to them before and broke up with me once. I take college classes and my boyfriend is home most of the day online playing games/socializing, and I am always worried about what is going on between him and his friends and certain girls he talks to. I do not want to lose him again because he really is a nice guy and I do trust him, I am just constantly stressed out in this relationship, but I do want to stay with him. What do you think I should do?
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reader, Sylph  +, writes (14 March 2013):
Unless you are doing something wrong in the relationship, your bf must never listen to jealous female friends, who probably want him(they flirt with him sometimes). To be honest, i have thought of breaking up with a bf I had because a guy friend pointed out his flaws, and i had a crush on the guy, so he influenced my decision to break up with my bf greatly because i LIKED him. What is going on between ur bf and his so called friends is fishy indeed... Your bf is in the wrong, and does not appear to value your relationship. He hasnt set boundaries for his friends, who seem to be pulling the strings. You deserve more respect than that. There are plenty of guys who will treat you better than this. Talk to him and tell him what you feel, see his reaction, and see how willing he is to make some sacrifises for u. Do not trust him with these girls, they have a big influence on him, and he does what they tell him.. Best of luck, have some self esteem, know that you deserve to be treated with a little more decency and respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2013): Its pretty bad that your boyfriend has listened to his girl mates and broken up with you before. I can tell you guys havent been going out long. I would tell him to stop listening to his girl mates and try and steer him away from them, they sound like awful people. It sounds like you are a lovely person and remind him of that.
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