Please could someone out there give me some advice whether to finish with my current boyfriend and get back with my ex or stay with him...
Q. Help. I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend and we have been together for 9 months now. Latey we are arguing quite a lot. Since we've got together his family have treated me outstanding as if I'm one of them and me and his sister have ...
A. 20 September 2007: You don't say why you broke up with your ex.... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to be a step mother?
Q. Any advice on how to be a step mother? My husband-to-be has a kid from his previous marriage. I don't have any kids myself. Is there anything I should be aware of in order to have a good relationship with my husband and his kid? (He doesn't live ...
A. 6 September 2007: It's a very fine line, basically, don't try and be 'Mum', don't interfere if your husband to be has 'issues' with his ex over the child but you must ensure that the child respects you as a person and understands that there are rules that exist in ... (read in full...)
Since my sister found out she has to testify in court a lot of weird things have been happening.
Q. About three months ago my sister and her friend Amanda were in a car accident. My sister was driving and they were hit head on by a drunk driver. They were both wearing their seatbelts but the car had flipped and Amanda was killed. When they did the ...
A. 6 September 2007: Have you thought about installing CCTV? You can pick them up relatively cheaply nowadays and they come with cool things like motion detectors which will automatically switch your tv to the CCTV. You can also hook them up to your DVD Recorder too ... (read in full...)
I've had enough! My 2 children are confused, our bank is drained, and my brain is strained...
Q. My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We have 2 young children together, and he has a 12 year old from a previous relationship. The "Baby's Momma Drama" is an ongoing thing, IN and OUT of court for numerous FALSE allegations, a SEVERE ...
A. 30 August 2007: Your sound both mentally and physically exhausted by your marriage. If you think you can cope alone or have the support network from friends and family then perhaps you should consider a temporary separation for a start. I'm a great advocate of ... (read in full...)
I was drunk and stoned he took advantage last night what should i do
Q. i was drunk and stoned he took advantage last night what should i do...
A. 29 August 2007: I think you have been very silly. I agree with what has already been sent that you should get yourself checked out. I'm not condoning this guys behaviour if he has done something wrong but you have been stupid enough to put yourself in this ... (read in full...)
Ladies, what sort of birth control (besides condoms) do you use?
Q. I am 18 years old and in a relationship that is starting to turn very serious. I am making an appointment with my University’s health office to get myself some sort of birth control, but I’m unsure of what I should get. My school offers : the ...
A. 24 April 2007: Well I guess you could say I've tried quite a few. First I tried the pill which is all very well so long as you remember to take it, but also remember that its effectiveness can be damaged by things like an upset stomach. I had little side effects ... (read in full...)
He told his ex that he's willing to break it off with me to reconcile with her.
Q. Hi there, I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex on one night just last month. I came across his emails to her and realized that he sought her out first. Also, they have been writing emails to each other for quite some time....
A. 10 April 2007: I think you should ask yourself a few questions before deciding whether to confront him about this or not. 1. Do you want to be with someone who has feelings for someone else? 2. If he has made a mistake and wants to be with you, can you ... (read in full...)
When a girl gets hurt in a relatonship, does she tell anybody (even her ex)?
Q. When a girl gets hurt in a relatonship, does she tell anybody (even her ex)?...
A. 5 April 2007: All the previous advice is very sound and good. However, I would try and refrain from speaking to friends and family. You should always try and sort out your problems together without involving anyone else wherever possible. The problem with ... (read in full...)
Shes pretty high maintenance, Am I a fool for putting up with this ?
Q. My situ : seperated - 2 children : 7 and 12 New girlfriend - always acusing me of looking at other women when i dont. always asks questions wot other women like when im at work. always thinks i am bedding the ex when i access children once a...
A. 5 April 2007: Sounds like she one set of rules for you and a different set for herself. Have you tried talking to her about this? My belief is that to have a successful and fulfilling relationship you should both set yourself some ground rules and both agree to ... (read in full...)
I need a counsellor really, but not sure where to get one, anyone on here able to help me out!?
Q. My life is a real mess at the moment, have some serious relationship problems that I can't really go into at length in just one question. Could really do with some one to one counselling/advice. I know there are some professional counsellors that ...
A. 3 April 2007: I tried my doctor but he said it wasn't really a case for me to see a counsellor as its a private relationship thing. I just need to know what I have done wrong or at least for someone to agree/disagree with my thoughts, put a different angle on ... (read in full...)
Does anybody know something I can do in bed to really impress my boyfriend??
Q. Does anybody know something I can do in bed to really impress my boyfriend!! We have fantastic sex I just want to do something different that will really blow him away!! Any of you ladies or gents out there got any useful tips!! ...
A. 1 March 2007: I totally agree with blindfolding your partner, it really does heighten the senses. Try a little bondage too, tie his wrists, you don't have to even tie them tightly, just the thought that he's in your control can send him wild. As well as lots of ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend whom he met on the rebound but cannot see a future with her. What should he do?
Q. This is really for my ex partner, soon to be partner. We split up about 14 months ago but have recently started getting close again. He has a girlfriend whom he met on the rebound. He cares for her but does not love her and can't see them having ...
A. 1 March 2007: Thanks for your reply Eve. I am trying to maintain a low profile but we have a child together so can't completely break off any contact entirely.... (read in full...)
She told her husband she had IVF but the kid is mine!!
Q. Last year I was seeing a married woman who I very deeply fell in love with. At the time she was planning to leave her husband and had taken an apartment. We were deeply in love and all was going well and then I got her pregnant. Her husband ...
A. 1 March 2007: Think long term, some day your child will have to know the truth. God forbid that anything dreadful should happen but what if they are involved in a medical emergency and need to know the medical background of their family? How long do you think ... (read in full...)
How do we tell the older children about us getting back together again?
Q. My partner and I have been together for 8 years. There are 3 children older children involved (aged 12 to 15) from previous relationships and we have a toddler together. We have only all lived together once and it was a complete disaster so much ...
A. 1 March 2007: The only 'abuse' the older children have been subject to is watching their parents scream and shout at each other and one physical altercation the night we parted and we both realise the harm we have caused regarding this. But whether we have given ... (read in full...)
She told her husband she had IVF but the kid is mine!!
Q. Last year I was seeing a married woman who I very deeply fell in love with. At the time she was planning to leave her husband and had taken an apartment. We were deeply in love and all was going well and then I got her pregnant. Her husband ...
A. 1 March 2007: I think patience is the key to this problem. Your child has a right to know and form a relationship with its biological father. I agree with the previous comment that you should let her know what your intentions are towards the child and then ... (read in full...)
We flirt.. but how can I let my female cousin know I'm interested in her - and is she interested in me?
Q. I am a 25 year old male living with my very attractive 30 year old female cousin who I am very attracted to. We have much in common. She often brags about how sexy or alike we are but I am not sure if her intrest is sexual. Whats the best way to ...
A. 1 March 2007: Dating your Cousin could potentially cause real problems. Some would say that the blood link is too close and its practically incest. You need to ask yourself how serious you are, do you see your Cousin as potential relationship material on a long ... (read in full...)
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