My husband's sister may be abusing her kids -- and she's writing a book on parenting!
Q. I married my husband even though I don't approve of his family situation. The biggest problem I have is his sister and her family. She smoked pot and drank alcohol while she was pregnant with all three of her children. These kids are all under the ...
A. 18 September 2010: You need to notify some kind of authorities over this. If you think a child(or 3 children in this case) are being mentally or physically abused then it is Your responsibility to help them. Spending time with them is not enough. The situation behind ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher have feelings for me or is he joking?
Q. I've had strong feelings for one of my teachers for a long time...lets call him Mr.W and i didn't think he was even slightly interested in me but now i'm really not sure. Im 15 and he's 24, he teaches me Science. Since he started a couple of year...
A. 11 September 2010: here are some facts: 1) this man is your teacher. 2) as a teacher, this man has a responsibility to safeguard his students' interests.
his behaviour is very inappropriate and wrong. take this advice seriously, if he says or does anything else, es... (read in full...)
I'm confused about my relationship with my boss
Q. I am 31 and single and my boss is 47 and single. I do like him alot, but wonder about his feelngs for me. I started to notice him looking at me intensely in the staffroom or in a crowded room, and we still seem to be in the staffroom together...
A. 11 September 2010: why dont YOU try sking HIM out? maybe not on a date but ask him to join you for lunch, and that way you will both be away from the office (and prying nosey people) and can relax/get to know one another better. it doesnt have to be a date, just a ... (read in full...)
I told him about my past sexual abuse now he is distant!
Q. I recently told my lover about sexual abuse in my past (my lover lives abroad), this stemmed from an arguement we had when I completely freaked out about something that he did. And I felt it was only right that I should tell him what had happened ...
A. 8 September 2010: Hi, the thing with email and text is that you can't interpretate the way a person is feeling the way you can with speech. So don't read too much into the fact he "sounds" distant. Give him a call or buy a micro phone and speak to him on msn (you can ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about my relationship with my boss
Q. I am 31 and single and my boss is 47 and single. I do like him alot, but wonder about his feelngs for me. I started to notice him looking at me intensely in the staffroom or in a crowded room, and we still seem to be in the staffroom together...
A. 7 September 2010: As long as you're 100% sure He's single, and you haven't been misreading signals or imagining the extended eye contact then yes, it sounds as though He likes you. If so, then the reason He behaves differently in front of others is because He ... (read in full...)
Do people usually talk to friends about arguments they have in such great detail?
Q. My boyfriend, after a (very long) argument that we had last night, told his friends about it (it was a very stupid argument, and it was my fault). Anyway, he refuses to tell me about what he told them, and what they said about it (apparently though, ...
A. 4 September 2010: Do you have the right to know what he said to his friends? its arguable but i'm gna go for 'no'. Reason being because we are all entitled to share our problems with our friends and have them support/adise us through it.
But, you should talk to ... (read in full...)
Why is he getting married when there is something between us?
Q. He is getting married !! How come ?? I always thought that there is something between us !! He was all the time in front of me. No matter where i go or be he is always there with his eyes all over me. He cant resist I can tell. He sends me emails. I ...
A. 4 September 2010: The guy is getting married. FACT. Even if he used to have feelings for you, they were not as strong as your feelings for him. He is gettig married now, which means he is in love with another woman. There is no future between you so try to forget ... (read in full...)
How do I prove that I'm willing to change?
Q. My ex and I were together for almost 3 and a half years. We'd always had problems during the relationship, which lead to us being on and off quite alot. But in the end we always got back together. Back in June, we broke up, and days later he starts ...
A. 4 September 2010: When you were in a realtionship why were you constantly falling out? It sounds like he may still have feelings for you but why is it your the only one who has to 'prove' you have changed, or you can do better, you should both have a conversation ... (read in full...)
Does this mean I'm slacking in the good looks department?
Q. This may seem completely pathetic and let me put this out here now... I am not considered weird or out there in my school I have a lot of friends and I have a well known status. I'm a junior in high school and I am so nervous about this year. It ...
A. 4 September 2010: First of all you are a young girl, you have years to mature and grow into your looks. But this doenst mean you're ugly or your friends are better looking. Dont compare yourself to others because honey, you are an individual and on a level of you ... (read in full...)
I feel he doesn't bother about me any more the way he used to...
Q. hey people me and my bf , have been together almost a year and it reaally bothers me that he usally puts all his money towards weed he barely buys me surprises , like ... I dunno things that show he care like he used to on our anniveraary he used to ...
A. 4 September 2010: Maybe i'm wrong but sounds like youre more disappointed that he's spending all his money on weed than anything else. Generally guys make more of an effort at the beginning of a relationship, i.e. buying you presents and surprising you. But i thi... (read in full...)
Playing long distance tug of war...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year. I've recently graduated and moved to another city. I know he loves me but We are constantly arguing, I think the distance is mostly to blame. But at the same time, whenever we fall out I fe...
A. 4 September 2010: thanks caring guy, good advice indeed... (read in full...)
After I got proof of him with another girl, he called me a psycho and broke up!
Q. I was with my boyfriend for four years, everything was going well till early this year. He quit his job and started his business. He was stressed out and start hanging out with his friends alot more. He joined church groups and start riding his ...
A. 3 September 2010: Okay think about it. How angry/upset were you when you saw those photos and read those text messages? At that time did you doubt that he was cheating?? sometimes, when issues in a realtionship do not get talked over/resolved we trick ourselves into ... (read in full...)
Do girls really judge how their boyfriends look even if they love them?
Q. hey guys i need some really reeally really good advice here coz i need it have u ever felt that ur girlfriend is just too good for u to the point that u would even think that she may cheat on u ? im not a bad looking guy but the problem is not h...
A. 3 September 2010: Hey, women who are in a loving relationship will love you and want to be with you even if they have the opportunity to be with a brad pitt look-a-like. thats because a persons personality is half of the attraction. it sounds to me like you may be a ... (read in full...)
Once a Mummys' Boy, Always a Mummys' Boy?
Q. Hey, I've been with my boyfriend almost 2 years, we're both serious about each other, and we've talked about having a serious future together. However, in a recent argument he text me saying "well guess what my mother is far more important than ...
A. 3 September 2010: for those who asked, this argument erupted becasue for his birthday i had booked a day spa for the two of us, literally 3 mins before we got there he received a call from his mother,her car had broken down and she had a meeting to go to. without ... (read in full...)
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