Do my positives outweigh the negatives? And am I date-able? And what can I do to improve?
Q. This is a silly question maybe. I am 21 years old in uni never had a proper relationship (had a very brief one once, but...). Been looking at myself and thinking about what I have or don't have... So looking at bad, the only thing is, a big th...
A. 10 July 2011: And I suppose I am quite insecure. It's an area I am working on. It's not just when it comes to relationships.... (read in full...)
Do my positives outweigh the negatives? And am I date-able? And what can I do to improve?
Q. This is a silly question maybe. I am 21 years old in uni never had a proper relationship (had a very brief one once, but...). Been looking at myself and thinking about what I have or don't have... So looking at bad, the only thing is, a big th...
A. 10 July 2011: In all honesty
yes, I am shy.
I have anxiety problems, and am recovering from depression.
... (read in full...)
Will I end up lonely ? Should I lower my standards ?
Q. I think I am the most complicated person ever! I'm 25 but have been though more in my life them most people twice my age. Thing is I'm terribly lonely but I have huge issues that stop me finding anyone. I'm a lesbian, I'm more feminine then most ...
A. 8 July 2011: Aw you sound a real sweetheart.
*hugs*
Who you are is fine, and you will learn to accept that.
Being different is wonderful. So many people try to be what society expects of them...
I am a guy who will take time to find the right woman bec... (read in full...)
Can you fall in love with someone you've never met?
Q. As the title says, do you think you can fall in love with someone you've never met? Or have you?...
A. 5 July 2011: I am afraid I don't think so. I have believed myself to be once, but I wasn't in love. It's the idea that one falls in love with.... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 13 March 2010: hey,
one of my close friends has gone through almost exactly the same thing you described.
She is also 19, had a teenage mother, a father who disappeared and remarried, and was brought up by her grandparents (she was also neglected by her mother).... (read in full...)
Help! How can I get him to talk to me more?
Q. I know I am going to sound like Im in middle school writing this, but Im at a loss of words. My social anxiety has never prevented me so. There is this guy in my art class. He is pretty shy as well, though he is very sure of himself when he ...
A. 15 November 2009: if you like him, but just ask him to join you for a cup of coffee. It can't do any harm :) I should think it would at least get his attention... (read in full...)
What can I do to impress him?
Q. I've just started uni, and really like a lad, who I haven't even spoken to yet. I've just heard him speak in the class etc, and he is really gorgeous. I know that he may not be what he seems because I've not even spoken to him yet, and I'm wiling to ...
A. 6 November 2009: Nice hair is important to me, other than that it doesn't matter one little bit. How do you he is even single?... (read in full...)
How can I be more confident around boys?
Q. i am 14 years old and never had a boyfriend...its not that i cant get one guys ask me out but everyime they do i say no even if i like them, how can i be more confident around guys???...
A. 17 October 2009: You're only 14. Enjoy life, and save yourself for someone very special in a few years. You'll know when you find the right person. Your first few crushes will be quite intense, but one day you will know without doubt that you are into someone.... (read in full...)
I think my parents have started to smoke but they've always told me that they quit in their youth! What do I do?
Q. I'm in a weird situation at the moment and I'd really appreciate some advice on what I should do! I'll try to go through this in a logical order. Here goes... I think one or both of my parents have started smoking. I think this because: ...
A. 14 October 2009: It's a difficult one. Remember that nicotine is a drug that causes a physiological addiction. That is to say that the body reacts badly to not having it, rather than just a mental/psychological reaction. The problem seems to be the deception ra... (read in full...)
Where should we meet up?
Q. Any advice on meeting a girl I found online? We first exchanged emails a few months back (it was a dating site, she gave me her email address because she had blocked her account temporarily), but it has been irregular. She says she isn't always...
A. 9 October 2009: I see what you mean. :)
It's something I have had some difficulty with. The last time I asked a girl out (I actually think she was interested) I think I may have been less then cautious about remembering that the friendship had to keep itself g... (read in full...)
Where should we meet up?
Q. Any advice on meeting a girl I found online? We first exchanged emails a few months back (it was a dating site, she gave me her email address because she had blocked her account temporarily), but it has been irregular. She says she isn't always...
A. 8 October 2009: Do you mean "just friends"?
That would be strange considering we met on a dating site.
Hey if it came to it and we didn't get on in a romantic way maybe we could be friends, but we have to see how it goes.
I am of course trying to be a fr... (read in full...)
Where should we meet up?
Q. Any advice on meeting a girl I found online? We first exchanged emails a few months back (it was a dating site, she gave me her email address because she had blocked her account temporarily), but it has been irregular. She says she isn't always...
A. 7 October 2009: Well I know she has had health issues, and that is the reason she gave. I don't know what to think really, but I shall give her the benefit of the doubt.
We were chatting online an hour or two back and I did ask whether or not it was a good tim... (read in full...)
Where should we meet up?
Q. Any advice on meeting a girl I found online? We first exchanged emails a few months back (it was a dating site, she gave me her email address because she had blocked her account temporarily), but it has been irregular. She says she isn't always...
A. 7 October 2009: Hmm. She cancelled at the last minute. Disappointing and upsetting. I shall give her the benefit of the doubt this time though.... (read in full...)
Advice for meeting a girl I met online
Q. Hi I came across this girl a while ago on a dating site. A long while back. No, sorry that's wrong, she discovered my profile. We've been in contact intermittently since, and I know I want to meet her. I just worry that she might be put off...
A. 6 October 2009: We are meeting tomorrow for the first time. wish me luck... (read in full...)
Where should we meet up?
Q. Any advice on meeting a girl I found online? We first exchanged emails a few months back (it was a dating site, she gave me her email address because she had blocked her account temporarily), but it has been irregular. She says she isn't always...
A. 4 October 2009: Thanks. I am terribly excited I have to say.... (read in full...)
Where should we meet up?
Q. Any advice on meeting a girl I found online? We first exchanged emails a few months back (it was a dating site, she gave me her email address because she had blocked her account temporarily), but it has been irregular. She says she isn't always...
A. 2 October 2009: We are meeting on Wednesday. Wish me all the best.... (read in full...)
What's the best way to tell her about my weight issue?
Q. Referring to question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/advice-for-meeting-a-girl-i-met-online.html What's the best way to approach/tell her about the weight thing?...
A. 18 August 2009: It is actually done now, and I think it went well. She seemed happy.... (read in full...)
Advice for meeting a girl I met online
Q. Hi I came across this girl a while ago on a dating site. A long while back. No, sorry that's wrong, she discovered my profile. We've been in contact intermittently since, and I know I want to meet her. I just worry that she might be put off...
A. 18 August 2009: Oh well it is done now, all happy as it went well I think.... (read in full...)
Advice for meeting a girl I met online
Q. Hi I came across this girl a while ago on a dating site. A long while back. No, sorry that's wrong, she discovered my profile. We've been in contact intermittently since, and I know I want to meet her. I just worry that she might be put off...
A. 16 August 2009: Please. Some advice.... (read in full...)
Advice for meeting a girl I met online
Q. Hi I came across this girl a while ago on a dating site. A long while back. No, sorry that's wrong, she discovered my profile. We've been in contact intermittently since, and I know I want to meet her. I just worry that she might be put off...
A. 16 August 2009: Please. Some advice.... (read in full...)
Advice for meeting a girl I met online
Q. Hi I came across this girl a while ago on a dating site. A long while back. No, sorry that's wrong, she discovered my profile. We've been in contact intermittently since, and I know I want to meet her. I just worry that she might be put off...
A. 15 August 2009: I have mentioned being overweight, but only in passing.
I know she should know...what's the best way to do it?
cheers... (read in full...)
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