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From the US and in a long term relationship!

Is he breaking up with me? Does he just want a break? Is he waiting for me to respond?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together four and a half years. We had a huge fight last week (about a lot of little things, both of us wanting attention, affection, more time together, etc.) and he told me to give him his house key back and he threw...

A.   27 July 2011: Thanks for your answer, what should I say? What should I make my reasoning for contacting him? He doesn't seem to want to do anything but take this time to sort out his pains? ... (read in full...)

Do you think he will want biological children in the future?

Q.   My boyfriend and I, both 24, were talking about kids yesterday and he said that he wanted to adopt 3 kids. And he wanted one to be named after him. And I asked him if he wanted to name his biological child after him. He said his mom tells him that ...

A.   28 March 2011: Here's an update for everyone!! So we were at dinner with my brother and his fiancee and he told them he wanted to adopt children, so I confronted him and asked him in front of them, "Are you ever going to want to have biological children of your... (read in full...)

Father in law is creeping me out!

Q.   Hello All!! So I have a problem. My father in law. He is starting to creep me out. He has always been very interetsed in me. Meaning he always trys to make conversation with me any time we are around each other. I am young and shy, so i dont really ...

A.   16 March 2011: Yes, I agree with Ampersand as well--and I am so sorry that you have to deal with this! That is disgusting! You are not disgusting, his father is! My beautiful cousins were molested by their own grandfather and have been in therapy for years and ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't care when other guys hit on me!

Q.   This guy in my biology class keeps flirting with me and wont quit. I told him to stop I have a boy friend but he doesn't care and he wont leave me alone. My boy friend saw it today at lunch because the kid tried to lay on me in line and I pushe...

A.   16 March 2011: A lot of high school guys don't have a clue. Be glad that he trusts you, he probably was proud to see that you are desired in your school and that he is the one that has you! He probably also knows that he cares about you and hopefully you feel the ... (read in full...)

Do you think he will want biological children in the future?

Q.   My boyfriend and I, both 24, were talking about kids yesterday and he said that he wanted to adopt 3 kids. And he wanted one to be named after him. And I asked him if he wanted to name his biological child after him. He said his mom tells him that ...

A.   16 March 2011: His mom and him say that his dad and sister suffer from depression and from the sounds of it to me, possibly bipolar disorder. Their entire family has been professionally diagnosed with depression, but my boyfriend was physically and emotionally ... (read in full...)

He's choosing the wrong friends!

Q.   Any help would be so greatly appreciated! Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about three and a half years and we went to college together, graduated together, and now I am working and he is in law school. We barely get to see each other s...

A.   19 October 2010: Thank you so much for your advice. bernard, yes... I don't need the bullX in my life... but I do love him and it hurts for this to happen for sure. If it is not meant to be, maybe I won't hear from him. Anonymous, I think he may be allowing these ... (read in full...)

He wants to have sex with me... to practice!!!!

Q.   Hello, I'm a 17 year old straight girl, and recently one of my male friends, who is gay, was telling me about how it's common for gay guys to have sex with their female friends sort of as 'practice'... He didn't directly ask me but I'm inferrin...

A.   18 June 2010: I have so many gay friends and the thought of having sex with a girl disgusts them! That is what being gay is! I don't think he's gay...... (read in full...)

What are these embarrassing sounds during sex..?

Q.   Why does my vagina make farting sounds during sex? It usually happens after penetration and he withdraws his penis, when I resume standing position I hear these embarrassing sounds.How can I lessen it or stop it completely from happening?...

A.   18 June 2010: It is because air is getting in your vagina. When you change positions a lot, aka, his penis is not staying in, but withdrawals and pushes air in, all this air is pushed into your vagina! So when you move into a position that makes the air come out, ... (read in full...)

Is he just using me for a free vacation, or is it really long-distance love?

Q.   i am in a long distance relationship with a man in istamnule turkey.he is younger than me but he grew on me .he says he loves me and wants to be with me forever and says i am his woman. but i dont know what to think the language barrier is stoping ...

A.   18 June 2010: You can never tell, but be careful! Maybe suggest that you had something come up and see if he can wait and come another time... I personally would think that is way too soon to jump into something like that. My boyfriend and I have been together ... (read in full...)

He acts as if nothing matters but law school!!!

Q.   My boyfriend stayed the night at my house last night, and when we got up to leave at the same time this morning--he was going to law school, I was going to work--my car wouldn't start. He acted like it was a huge burden to help me and spent all of ...

A.   12 February 2010: Well yea, if he is still even my boyfriend! I haven't heard from him since! He hasn't even checked on the dog that he adopted! What do I think/do? :'(... (read in full...)

Isn't there any way that I can meet a girl and not have her say "wanna screw" in the frist 5 seconds?

Q.   this is sort of a small rant/ if u have any advice plse tell ^.^ ok, i live in colorado (whether that's suppposed to be a secret or not i'm not sure) anyway, i've been trying to meet girls to have some sort of meaningful relationship (as...

A.   12 February 2010: A lot of times when you are not looking, that person comes along. Maybe don't try so hard. You are young and have your own life to live, so when a respectable girl notices that, she will be attracted to your flourishing life and independence and ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with a break up when he's dating a girl with the same name as me?

Q.   Hi im 16 years old and dealing with a breakup. i was on and off with my ex for 2 years. He was my first love and everything. We would always get into stupid fights and go on a break that did not even last for more then a day. Three weeks ago he ...

A.   12 February 2010: That is great that you are mature enough to tell him to move on and leave you alone. That is very strong of you. This way he doesn't thing he has you wrapped around his finger so that he can have you as he pleases. It shows that you are respectable ... (read in full...)

What are some comfortable positions for a "quickie"?

Q.   ok so i need a little help me and my husband have busy schedules and does anyone know any comfortable sex positions for a "quickie" as some might say he says i pick the sex position and idk what position to do it in can anyone please help me...

A.   12 February 2010: Whatever make you come more quickly! Also, quickies are great in different rooms--bc you have to do it quick, and also different furniture and props can be used around the house (or office!) to make things interesting and scandalous! bend over the ... (read in full...)

He acts as if nothing matters but law school!!!

Q.   My boyfriend stayed the night at my house last night, and when we got up to leave at the same time this morning--he was going to law school, I was going to work--my car wouldn't start. He acted like it was a huge burden to help me and spent all of ...

A.   12 February 2010: Thank you for staying tuned in! :) Yes, the dog is perfectly fine and happy with his toys and huge bed and doggy door (no more messes!) and my big yard and my love and hugs and exra hugs from being sad about my boyfriend. So no worries about him-... (read in full...)

Isn't there any way that I can meet a girl and not have her say "wanna screw" in the frist 5 seconds?

Q.   this is sort of a small rant/ if u have any advice plse tell ^.^ ok, i live in colorado (whether that's suppposed to be a secret or not i'm not sure) anyway, i've been trying to meet girls to have some sort of meaningful relationship (as...

A.   11 February 2010: do you think these girls are young and at an age where they just want to party and have fun and aren't ready to settle down yet? Maybe someone who has matured and is looking for more is key?... (read in full...)

He acts as if nothing matters but law school!!!

Q.   My boyfriend stayed the night at my house last night, and when we got up to leave at the same time this morning--he was going to law school, I was going to work--my car wouldn't start. He acted like it was a huge burden to help me and spent all of ...

A.   11 February 2010: Thank you so much to everyone!! I really appreciate and needed to hear advice from a third party--I've decided to keep the poor dog because there is no use in putting him through living between two houses--it isn't his fault. I put in a dog door so ... (read in full...)

Isn't there any way that I can meet a girl and not have her say "wanna screw" in the frist 5 seconds?

Q.   this is sort of a small rant/ if u have any advice plse tell ^.^ ok, i live in colorado (whether that's suppposed to be a secret or not i'm not sure) anyway, i've been trying to meet girls to have some sort of meaningful relationship (as...

A.   10 February 2010: How are you dressing and displaying yourself? You may be setting yourself up for that invitation. Act like you have class and she will believe it. Dress like you respect yourself and don't dress slutty. If she asks that, don't write her off right ... (read in full...)

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