My boyfriend has a need to always comment on attractive women he sees!
Q. I have an otherwise great relationship with my boyfriend of two years. We have a lot of fun and have lots of things in common. My family and friends think he is a great guy too. However there is one thing that really bugs me. Whenever we are ...
A. 12 October 2011: I have a similar thing with my (cheating) husband. I now know he is a womanizer since he has cheated. He sees women on TV who do or say something silly and he finds it hilarious, I dont, it is just on TV. He makes comments about women and even t... (read in full...)
Does my husband have a problem with me? or sex?
Q. Been married 12 years and sex has always been a problem almost from the beginning. When we were dating I had a higher sex drive and was frustrated about the quality and quantity of sex, although when I married him I reasoned that it would be easi...
A. 6 October 2011: HoneyComb, I guess what I was trying to articulate in my previous reply was that I am not skilled in the art of seduction or knowing how to make a man feel special. Thanks again. ... (read in full...)
Does my husband have a problem with me? or sex?
Q. Been married 12 years and sex has always been a problem almost from the beginning. When we were dating I had a higher sex drive and was frustrated about the quality and quantity of sex, although when I married him I reasoned that it would be easi...
A. 6 October 2011: Thank you for your your time and thoughtfulness in answering my question. He did say to me that he asks me for oral sex and he doesnt do anything to/for me because I never ask for it. So he has it figured out in his mind that if he wants sex he ... (read in full...)
Husband on websites saying he's single!
Q. my husband as been going on dating sites saying hes single, phoning and texting women why...
A. 12 September 2011: He is looking to meet other women.
My husband did the same thing except he did list that he was married, but hey, that didnt stop the women from chatting to him, and worst of all meeting him for sex.
Saying his is single is an insult to you... (read in full...)
Is my husband turning to porn because he's bored with me?
Q. My husband has cheated behind my back for 5 years with at least 2 other women, who he was meeting on internet dating sites. I have been tormented by this betrayal and lies for 2 years now. Although he seemed remorseful and promised to neve...
A. 12 September 2011: Thank you very much for your replies and insights. And anonymous female yes, he has now suggested a threesome with another man, after watching a movie that had multiple men and one woman. So I can only guess as you suggest that it could lead to hi... (read in full...)
Is 30 too old to date? Will I never find the right one and where should I look?
Q. I've been in a relationship for almost 6 years and I've never been able to talk to him. He "listens" which means not saying anything then maybe I get some cliche statements. I crave connection to him. We can do things, and accomplish a lot around ...
A. 6 September 2011: I met my now husband when I was 33. Although I was starting to feel a bit desperate especially as I had just ended a previous 7 year relationship and thought I would be single forever because of that.
I met my husband through the personal... (read in full...)
What are my options for the future, in view of how he speaks to me and lies to me?
Q. I have been trying for the past 2 years to cope with the knowledge that my husband had been deceiving me for 5 years by joining internet dating sites and cheating on me. My dilemma this time is the other night he was telling me that we dont tak...
A. 5 September 2011: Thankyou CaringGuy for your reply. I appreciate someone-elses opinion on how I have been treated and spoken to because I dont think it is something I can put up with and I so wonder what others would think of this.
I am expected to sweep the chea... (read in full...)
Should I go to the in-laws anniversary lunch just to keep the peace? Or should I not go because of the way they treated me?
Q. My husband has cheated on me with at least 2 other women during a 5 year period. I found out about his secret double life about 2 years ago. I recently told his parents the details of what he had been doing one day when I got extremely upset and ...
A. 23 August 2011: Thank you very much for you answer anonymous on 23 August. You have captured the situation exactly, something which I have been unable to put into words or explain to anyone. Your insight and explanation is spot on about my inlaws. Very ... (read in full...)
Should I go to the in-laws anniversary lunch just to keep the peace? Or should I not go because of the way they treated me?
Q. My husband has cheated on me with at least 2 other women during a 5 year period. I found out about his secret double life about 2 years ago. I recently told his parents the details of what he had been doing one day when I got extremely upset and ...
A. 23 August 2011: Thank you all for your really insightful supportive advice. I am glad to be able to ask this of others because obviously my husband and in-laws are not the type of people to give a non-judgemental opinion. Yes they are very selfish and ... (read in full...)
Cheating runs in the family!???
Q. My inlaws have been married for 50 years. I recently became aware that she had cheated on him about 30 years ago. They have been looking to move house and after an argument, she said to him to take his girlfriend and move out to his block of land. ...
A. 9 February 2011: Yes I am now aware of the statistics for married men to cheat, pity I didnt know that when I married him. Was I naive to expect monogomany, especially when we were in our late 30s when we got married and I thought he was mature enough to get ... (read in full...)
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