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female
age
41-50,
*uffy
writes:my husband as been going on dating sites saying hes single, phoning and texting women why
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reader, Sooty70  +, writes (12 September 2011):
He is looking to meet other women.
My husband did the same thing except he did list that he was married, but hey, that didnt stop the women from chatting to him, and worst of all meeting him for sex.
Saying his is single is an insult to you and your marriage despite the insult that he is doing by even joining these sites.
From what I have learnt, saying you are single or married wont stop women from replying to his profile.
At least you are aware of it, and you can decide if you can live with this or if he values your relationship enough to stop it. My husband did it for 5 years behind my back, while he was at work, before I found out about his secret double life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2011): Set up a dodgy profile of your own and leave him tempting messages - see if and how he responds, you could chat using a friends PC...then give him YOUR mobile number..or see if he will meet up... and surprise him
Or simply confront him and ask what he's playing at
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (12 September 2011):
 He may not be looking for an affair, he may be wondering if he could still "pull interest".
Regardless of why, it is decietful to you and to others he is gives the impression he is single.
If I were in your shoes, I would sitting at the computer with him and bring up the site in front of him. Ask him why he listed himself as single.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2011): The answer is simple. He is looking for an affair of some sort. There is a small chance he finds this exciting but does not intend to act upon it. But I would tell him you know what he is up to.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 September 2011):
 because he's looking for a little something-something on the side...
did you ASK HIM?
he probably wants the excitement of the flirtation at best and a full blown affair at worst...
he's lying to them and to you I'm sure.
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reader, rile962 +, writes (12 September 2011):
This is not good. This might be a good time to try to figure out what's going on in your marriage and ask your husband if he'd be willing to go to some marital counseling with you. If he's willing to go, great. If not, you will have to decide what you will or will not tolerate in your marriage. I'm sorry you're having this problem. I hope everything will work out for you.
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