Why did I act as such a fool? Have I lost him for good?
Q. Hello there, I'd like some advice on how to stop feeling like a complete fool and move on after breaking up with my bf of 9 yrs. I'm sorry if this is a bit long, bit here goes... I met him 9 years ago at Uni, fell in love hard and fast, and 2 ...
A. 30 July 2009: He's a cheater forget about him, you sound caring and smart and a lovely person dont be upset at what you did to his phone that was a totally ligit response I would do the same if not worse and so would any of my friends, no one would bat an eyelid ... (read in full...)
I'm so alone. Help me fix it
Q. i feel so alone and helpless i feel like im in a world full of aliens and im the only human... how can i stop this i just want someone to love and hold onto someone who can make me happy when im sad and someone i can comfort when they are down. how ...
A. 30 July 2009: Hey sweetheart dont worry about it I felt the exact same at your age, not to sound patronizing! I decided not to try and hang out with people that werent suited to me and concentrated on making a small amount of good friends, and with that came a ... (read in full...)
Teaching is my greatest love but I'm scared Ill screw up
Q. Hi I realize this is not the time to be complaining about having a job. I'm extremely grateful that I was just offered a position for September. I am just out of college and the job is as a teacher, what I trained to do. The problem is almost every ...
A. 17 July 2009: Thank you to everyone who replied to my problem.It has helped immensely to have this problem heard and not laughed at or to have other people doubting me too. Thank you so much for your support, and Harry advice from an experienced teacher is worth ... (read in full...)
I've been having my period for a month?
Q. okay so i just have a question... i am 17 years old and i got my period for the first time when i was about 13. ive never been regular... sometimes i might skip a month and stuff like that but about two months ago i got my period twice in one month ...
A. 17 July 2009: hey it happened to me before when i was changing pills but it wasnt a full on period it was just sort of break through bleading for a whole month, it did freak me out but nothing was wrong so dont worry to much about it. But if you are worried ... (read in full...)
Is there anything left between us?
Q. I met this guy, I've known him 4 years and think I love him. We work together and I was with him for a couple of months knowing well we both had long time partners. He got caught and I didn't but left my fiance. He stayed with his girlfriend and ...
A. 13 July 2009: no he sounds like a shit you can do better, im sure sex had alot to do with his attraction towards you, you'll meet the perfect guy for you soon, but this isnt it x... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity tomorrow? Please answer ASAP!
Q. I am soooo confused please can you help me asap!! before tomorrow if you can i am 15 and i am a virgin and i like this boy alot and he want to take my virginity really baaaad but i think thats all he wants to do but im not sure. hes 16 and has ha...
A. 4 June 2009: dont do it. that sounds like an awful way to lose your virginity. it sounds like it means alot to you and you deserve to look back at a romantic story that will mean something to you. i am really happy with the story i have when i think about it and ... (read in full...)
I'm in love, but I honestly wonder about him...
Q. Help. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months but we were friends for over a year before we started dating. We know EVERYTHING about each other and I love him more than anything. He means absolutely the world to me. We don't fight or argue ev...
A. 3 June 2009: Hey my boyfriend is the same. We’ve been going out for 3.5 years and he is the most perfect guy in world but his inability to open up is going to end us. It hasn’t changed, he hasn’t gotten gradually better like I’d hoped, I’ve spilled my guts so ... (read in full...)
I'm not invited on holiday as my boyfriend says "It's a lads thing!"
Q. Hi my boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. He normally goes away with the "lads" on holidays without me. When he goes he usually doesnt contact me very often and we usually would be have alot of contact during the day normally. He's ...
A. 3 June 2009: Hi Tisha-1 Thank you for your answer! We do not live together. My close girlfriends are all in long term relationships so they all go away with they're boyfriends. I would love to have some other options but that would involve going away with people ... (read in full...)
He just disappears! Is this worth it?
Q. Hi, im writing this the night before my finals start.I have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. Every once in a while my boyfriend will go out on mad night (staying out all night and next day doing drugs)and not call. Late the next day he will say ...
A. 5 May 2009: thank you thatgothgirl20 and denny. I read your messages before I left for my exam this morning and they really put a pep in my step! I took your advice on board and called it with him today. These exams will stay with me for life and he might not ... (read in full...)
Being bullied about my dead brother. Why does this happen?
Q. my brother died last year because of meth and metamies and pot an more but people say your gunna be like your brother DEAD i need help figuring things out and im not crazy i just really need someone i could trust to tell me everythings goin...
A. 4 May 2009: my brother got pretty messed up on drugs and im nothing like him, you sound like a lovely person and you've been through alot. Everything will be ok, those people who said that should be ashamed of themselves.You are the better person and you know ... (read in full...)
I find it difficult to orgasm through penetration alone. Does anyone else find this?
Q. Hey, I have a problem that's really bothering me and it's making me really paranoid. Everytime I have sex I just can't orgasm through penetration at all... Like not even close and this is like this regardless of the guy I'm with. So much so tha...
A. 4 May 2009: hey im sorry i have the same problem ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and never, not even once. How to you orgasm otherwise? My friends say oral sex but how long would this take? do you know of any other ways of making it happen? Im sorry im ... (read in full...)
Our gushing sex life has now dwindled to trickles
Q. I need someone a little open minded who won't judge my husband's past (just for my sanity please). Ok my husband is my best friend's cousin. He saw me at the place that she and I used to work. She set us up the day after my 27th birthday. I fell...
A. 23 April 2009: maybe try watch a porn film together and it may remind him of all the fun you used to have. sex is extremely important in a relationship and it brings you so much closer. Try get some time alone together, have a few drinks, wear something nice and ... (read in full...)
Help! Can anyone give me tips on how to open up and have the ability to interact better with people?
Q. Long story short, I started University in September 2006, and went with the hope of opening up, meeting like-minded people and enjoying myself...and it didn't work. I've always been shy; I'm just really awkward around people. I don't know how t...
A. 23 April 2009: Hi, I can completely empathise with how your feeling. I used to be the exact same. And it is ludicrous as im sure you are a cool normal person with interesting things to say, but you just clam up and get awkward in social situations (that’s how I ... (read in full...)
We had sex - did the sperm stay in there?
Q. After me and my girlfrfind had sex we ate dinner we laughed we pretended like nothing had happened because my mom was there. She told me she felt something squirting out of her vegina...so is it possible that the sperm that was in her might of came ...
A. 31 December 2008: yes girls call this "the drip" it happens all the time. where did you think is was going to go?... (read in full...)
Anxiety & panic attacks are ruining my life!
Q. hello friends, i suffer from anxiety and am tired of this problem. it keeps haunting me all the time. life has become a horror story for me. i have thought over this problem to the depth but i feel anxiety without any obvious reason and it has b...
A. 27 December 2008: hey man i know exactly how you feel i had it bad for a year and i couldnt go to college because it was a long journey and my fear was id get stuck in the middle have an attack and then be totally stuck on my own. now i get nervous sometimes, ... (read in full...)
I reeeeeally like my english teacher and cant get him out my head! Help!
Q. im 16 turnin 17 nd i reeally like my english teacher, honestly hez not very goodlooking but for sum weird reason i cannot get him out of my head nd i try rlly hard to impress him :P whic is pretty embarssn but w/ iv rlly nevr felt this way b4 abt ...
A. 19 December 2008: I am a young Teacher and I really hate it when pupils in my class put me in this kind of position. I know you have strong feelings for him now, for so many reasons, because he is in control when you see him and thats a turn on, also you dont know ... (read in full...)
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